Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home? ( Archived) (29)

Jan 20, 2014 9:19 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
Or is it from another source?
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Jan 20, 2014 9:22 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
pedalguy59: Or is it from another source?

Are you asking if we blame parents for prejudice? rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 20, 2014 9:33 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
pedalguy59: Or is it from another source?
Children are like little sponges they learn from everywhere and everything. And if they are lucky they grow up into adults who continue to learn.
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Jan 20, 2014 9:35 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Children are like little sponges they learn from everywhere and everything. And if they are lucky they grow up into adults who continue to learn.
agree.
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Jan 20, 2014 9:36 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
pedalguy59: Or is it from another source?


For good or ill, children generally come to passively or actively rebel against whatever the parent generation believes(particularly under a Godless society as religious beliefs have greater continuity).

Considering that what is and what isn't "prejudiced" is defined by middle aged people in command of the establishment and culture, then of course children are prejudiced or else the world would never change. We would stagnate under the self-assurance of one generation that views itself as the moral pinnacle.
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Jan 20, 2014 9:40 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
Oh yes it starts at home!handshake wave
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Jan 20, 2014 10:22 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
If offspring merely followed their parents ways then we'd still be living in huts.

Parents do not define their kids to anywhere near the extent that they believe they do, and if you think that they're just what you are, it's because you don't know them.
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Jan 20, 2014 10:24 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Brigantia
BrigantiaBrigantiaWatertown, New York USA3 Threads 88 Posts
pedalguy59: Or is it from another source?


Children are not born with prejudiced attitudes or with stereotypes. They learn values and beliefs from their family, peers, teachers, the media, and others around them. In other words, children learn prejudice through socialization.
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Jan 20, 2014 10:42 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Brigantia: Children are not born with prejudiced attitudes or with stereotypes. They learn values and beliefs from their family, peers, teachers, the media, and others around them. In other words, children learn prejudice through socialization.


And the social world is changing at an ever-growing pace. Amongst the concerns of today are economic ruin, social disintegration, loss of cultural identity, mortgaged fetuses... these things stand as a flagrant contrast to the concerns of yesteryear.

I expect the youth to react palpably as the older generations continue to lose legitimacy of rank. That is, if parents continue to create a world that cannot secure existence for its own children then, sooner or later, expect the youth to hit the abort button.
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Jan 20, 2014 10:56 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
limay123
limay123limay123toronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 78 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Children are like little sponges they learn from everywhere and everything. And if they are lucky they grow up into adults who continue to learn.
thumbs up
yes there are sponges ..... you'll never be able to pin point where they learned stuff from .... if they take interest they soak it up !!yay
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Jan 20, 2014 11:08 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
limay123: yes there are sponges ..... you'll never be able to pin point where they learned stuff from .... if they take interest they soak it up !!


The lack of interest in all things cultured is itself a hallmark of the young generation. But I guess this is an historic thing, 12 year olds of 100 years ago were more sophisticated and deeper in thought than today's 50 year olds.
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Jan 20, 2014 11:18 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Brigantia: Children are not born with prejudiced attitudes or with stereotypes. They learn values and beliefs from their family, peers, teachers, the media, and others around them. In other words, children learn prejudice through socialization.




Briganyia,Earlier this morning while reading the thread question I wrote down on scrap paper what my response would be and thought I'd post my answer later on in the day cause I had things to do.

After reading your response just now I noticed I had written down the very same thing.

I guess great minds think alike or something like that.laugh


Children do learn not only from home but from family,peers,teachers, and the media. But they also learn from socialization.They also carry it through Adulthood.
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Jan 20, 2014 11:24 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Brigantia
BrigantiaBrigantiaWatertown, New York USA3 Threads 88 Posts
Ccincy: Briganyia,Earlier this morning while reading the thread question I wrote down on scrap paper what my response would be and thought I'd post my answer later on in the day cause I had things to do.

After reading your response just now I noticed I had written down the very same thing.

I guess great minds think alike or something like that. Children do learn not only from home but from family,peers,teachers, and the media. But they also learn from socialization.They also carry it through Adulthood.


grin bouquet
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Jan 20, 2014 11:36 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
.....some from bad homes.....others from bullying from school/at your work place.....who knows where it stems from.....?????
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Jan 20, 2014 11:43 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Yes from nurture more than nature, The parents must take their share of the responsibility.
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Jan 20, 2014 11:55 AM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Anger is a legitimate reaction of the soul to it's wounding and most of that wounding occurs in early childhood.
The child could have suffered the wounding of too-much-ness, overwhelmed by the outer world, or not-enough-ness, neglect or abandonment of the childs need by it's environment. As a result, a person can misread the nature of the world, adopt a set of reflexive responses to manage the level of anxiety created.
A child that was overwhelmed by the environment, such as the Fathers alcoholism or the Mothers depression tends to acquire a passive, co-dependent personality in order to survive. A child that suffers the insufficiency of it's environment tends to develop a diminished sense of self worth and will constantly seek affirmation and reassurance from others.
In both cases the person will be carrying a great deal of anger.

So, certainly in the case of anger, early wounding in the child can lead to deep seated anger, though quite often this 'hidden' anger may be unacknowledged.
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Jan 20, 2014 12:24 PM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Happygolucky4u: Children are like little sponges they learn from everywhere and everything. And if they are lucky they grow up into adults who continue to learn.
thumbs up I do believe this is more or less true. However, take the example of Kennedy. He was brought up in an ultra-affluent community, and went to private schools attended only by others of his ilk. His entire environment was conducive to all the trappings of racial and economic bigotry. Yet he soared to the top (and certainly extremely so, for the era) of championing all those causes: injustice to races, poverty, corruption, etc...So, it must also be attributed to individual personalities and motives.
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Jan 20, 2014 12:27 PM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
They're also born with it.





Contrary to what most people believe, the tendency to be prejudiced is a form of common sense, hard-wired into the human brain through evolution as an adaptive response to protect our prehistoric ancestors from danger.

So suggests a new study published by Arizona State University researchers in the May issue of the "Journal of Personality and Social Psychology," which contends that, because human survival was based on group living, "outsiders" were viewed as -- and often were -- very real threats.


If prejudice is a form of common sense, this would explain why we're less prejudiced.
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Jan 20, 2014 12:45 PM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
Not always, sometimes from their peers.
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Jan 20, 2014 1:07 PM CST Do Children Learn Prejudice or Hate at Home?
Pom_Pom
Pom_PomPom_PomBuenos Aires, Argentina71 Threads 32 Polls 1,740 Posts
Obstinance_Works: They're also born with it.





Contrary to what most people believe, the tendency to be prejudiced is a form of common sense, hard-wired into the human brain through evolution as an adaptive response to protect our prehistoric ancestors from danger.

So suggests a new study published by Arizona State University researchers in the May issue of the "Journal of Personality and Social Psychology," which contends that, because human survival was based on group living, "outsiders" were viewed as -- and often were -- very real threats.

If prejudice is a form of common sense, this would explain why we're less prejudiced.




Who is that Yuppie from the 80's?

He has Ted Bundy's eyebrows.



laugh
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