why do people not like you? (66)
KremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 PostsLike Dr House says "If everybody likes you, you are doing something wrong..."
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secretagent09: I agree that life is too short to worry about anything that happens on CS.
People either like you for who you are or they reject you. If they don't reject you they harass you. Or they try to embarrass you or make others laugh at you. It happens not only on CS but wherever you surround yourself with people.
I would never try to make someone like me. I'm honest, opinionated and I tell it like it is UNLESS it will hurt someone's feelings.
I know why people don't like me on CS.
Last night I lost about one second of sleep worrying about it
People either like you for who you are or they reject you. If they don't reject you they harass you. Or they try to embarrass you or make others laugh at you. It happens not only on CS but wherever you surround yourself with people.
I would never try to make someone like me. I'm honest, opinionated and I tell it like it is UNLESS it will hurt someone's feelings.
I know why people don't like me on CS.
Last night I lost about one second of sleep worrying about it
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I am surrounded by love on here..........
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Some people don't really need a reason not to like someone.
I doubt if they could explain why.
I doubt if they could explain why.
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truheart1941: I am surrounded by love on here..........
Yes, man love
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pedro27: why do people not like you?
I'm quite aloof and if I meet someone else that way there is no affection.
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Juicer24v: They can´t handle the truth
truer words were never spoken. (I will always believe that people dislike another, especially from the start, because they see in them the ability to ascertain what they're "about", and are intimidated by this because they feel transparent, and for many, that's not a good feeling. JMO)------ This thread is Archived ------
You could be right, Rohaan.
On the other hand, we perceive others from our own value framework. Maybe sometimes our conclusions are so way off it can piss people off.
Is there ever only one reason why people may like, or dislike us? It's a kinda interactive process, this socialising stuff...or at least it should be.
On the other hand, we perceive others from our own value framework. Maybe sometimes our conclusions are so way off it can piss people off.
Is there ever only one reason why people may like, or dislike us? It's a kinda interactive process, this socialising stuff...or at least it should be.
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Because I see right through them. lol.
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"A friend of everybody is a friend of nobody."
The friend of my friend is my friend; the friend of my enemy is my enemy; the enemy of my friend is my enemy; the enemy of my enemy is my friend.
The friend of my friend is my friend; the friend of my enemy is my enemy; the enemy of my friend is my enemy; the enemy of my enemy is my friend.
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rohaan: truer words were never spoken. (I will always believe that people dislike another, especially from the start, because they see in them the ability to ascertain what they're "about", and are intimidated by this because they feel transparent, and for many, that's not a good feeling. JMO)
I think dislike begins when 'one open the mouth in a bad way' to undermine and disrespect another person (usually calling by inappropriate names) because of diferent views ...while avoiding to directly discuss and address dispute in appropriate elaboration !!!
Giving personal insoults is never showing strength of person but weakness...
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123whisper: I think dislike begins when 'one open the mouth in a bad way' to undermine and disrespect another person (usually calling by inappropriate names) because of diferent views ...while avoiding to directly discuss and address dispute in appropriate elaboration !!!
Giving personal insoults is never showing strength of person but weakness...
Giving personal insoults is never showing strength of person but weakness...
And if people don't like YOU, it may be that they find you supercilious.
Google it.
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rohaan: truer words were never spoken. (I will always believe that people dislike another, especially from the start, because they see in them the ability to ascertain what they're "about", and are intimidated by this because they feel transparent, and for many, that's not a good feeling. JMO)
Two suspicious people having a stand-offish time with the presumption of knowing the other being part of the problem. Normally knowing what the other is about(for real)is a good thing.
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Big personality, beauty and/or intelligence when lacking tact. People don't forgive how great you are.
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Using too many words in a sentence
Using too many long words in a sentence
Remembering you're basically catering to a public with ADHD
Using too many long words in a sentence
Remembering you're basically catering to a public with ADHD
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123whisper:
Giving personal insoults is never showing strength of person but weakness...
Giving personal insoults is never showing strength of person but weakness...
You cannot be serious ... the pen is mightier than the sword and that's a sentiment long held throughout the ages because it happens to be correct!
You're NOT going to be one of those 'precious little snowflakes' I've been hearing about lately ... apparently they meltdown at the least insult ... like more people liking someone they didn't vote for ?
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Complexity which can go eother way. Those occasional individuals you find beloved by everybody always have that something simple about them.
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Seeing the bad in people and things especially backdropping against low trust and insecurity. In this context acknowledgement is synonymous with judgement and therefore you cannot accept someone warts n all. To accept their warts is a negative influence and so it is better to carry off the air of commercial cheeriness in public and go home to your bottle of bourbon and anti-depressants.
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I'd have to say flaking and being too picky, Pedro. Outside of a small circle of chosen ones I don't treat people as well as they deserve.
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