why do people not like you? ( Archived) (66)

Dec 2, 2016 6:11 AM CST why do people not like you?
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
Rumples: I'd have to say flaking and being too picky, Pedro. Outside of a small circle of chosen ones I don't treat people as well as they deserve.


Closely followed by the appearance of ingratitude. When I do someone a favour I normally take their thanks as a given and I don't expect a favour in return, this means that I expect them to do me a favour without thanks or anything in return, and people don't always like this. Some really respect it, many don't like.
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Dec 2, 2016 6:35 AM CST why do people not like you?
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
Rumples: Closely followed by the appearance of ingratitude. When I do someone a favour I normally take their thanks as a given and I don't expect a favour in return, this means that I expect them to do me a favour without thanks or anything in return, and people don't always like this. Some really respect it, many don't like.


The communication problems of a strong, silent type. I believe that I store up all the things which I don't say and unleash them on here. Anyway, I need to start thanking people and showing to them their value instead of taking it for granted that they know their own value.
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Dec 2, 2016 6:47 AM CST why do people not like you?
Rumples
RumplesRumplesManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK592 Posts
Rumples: The communication problems of a strong, silent type. I believe that I store up all the things which I don't say and unleash them on here. Anyway, I need to start thanking people and showing to them their value instead of taking it for granted that they know their own value.


Thank you Pedro for this and so many other threads which have become the springboard to my musings. I bet you've got a wonderful accent.
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Dec 2, 2016 7:16 AM CST why do people not like you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Rumples: Big personality, beauty and/or intelligence when lacking tact. People don't forgive how great you are.
applause
I am too humble to speak about my own greatness but don't mind compliments.rolling on the floor laughing
cheering
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Dec 2, 2016 7:17 AM CST why do people not like you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
Rumples: The communication problems of a strong, silent type. I believe that I store up all the things which I don't say and unleash them on here. Anyway, I need to start thanking people and showing to them their value instead of taking it for granted that they know their own value.
thumbs up Beautiful though...wine
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Dec 2, 2016 8:05 AM CST why do people not like you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
HexagonKeySet: You cannot be serious ... the pen is mightier than the sword and that's a sentiment long held throughout the ages because it happens to be correct!

You're NOT going to be one of those 'precious little snowflakes' I've been hearing about lately ... apparently they meltdown at the least insult ... like more people liking someone they didn't vote for ?
You're right; the pen is mightier than the sword...and the sharpness of the sword has two sides ....not all bad and not all good !!! It's part of life lessons that no one can escape ...It's best to transform all experiences as opportunities in getting something good from everything. wine
P.S.What doesn't kill you,it makes you stronger.
No matter how many times life kick me ...I always stand up, keep walking....and running.
You know...it takes more than snowflake to stand up for what you believe.
wine
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Dec 2, 2016 8:24 PM CST why do people not like you?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Rumples: Closely followed by the appearance of ingratitude. When I do someone a favour I normally take their thanks as a given and I don't expect a favour in return, this means that I expect them to do me a favour without thanks or anything in return, and people don't always like this. Some really respect it, many don't like.


Yes, beware of those who want you to kiss their hands because they keep the door open for you. If they had a real love for those around them they would not demand immediate payment. I try to always remember to sprint in the opposite direction when I meet people like these. laugh
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Dec 3, 2016 2:30 PM CST why do people not like you?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
pedro27: why do people not like you?
I am quite sure they could give you a long list of reasons. But to be honest people no longer like honesty. dunno
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Dec 3, 2016 3:27 PM CST why do people not like you?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
They're probably just jealous comfort


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Jan 10, 2017 4:04 PM CST why do people not like you?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
Rumples: Seeing the bad in people and things especially backdropping against low trust and insecurity. In this context acknowledgement is synonymous with judgement and therefore you cannot accept someone warts n all. To accept their warts is a negative influence and so it is better to carry off the air of commercial cheeriness in public and go home to your bottle of bourbon and anti-depressants.
Much of what you observe, or feel you observe, about LIFE sounds solid and reasonable. But it's not how LIFE really works. (If the world actually adhered to your way of thinking, which, is, after all, very straight-forward and sane, in the final analysis, then what Utopia we would have, which, of course, we do NOT, or else we wouldn't even be writing about it, because everything would just be jolly hunky-dorrie, which we all know, IS NOT). We are dealing with the realities of the human condition, not the desired perfection of some abstract psycho-babble. Real world, Bud, real world.
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Jan 10, 2017 5:09 PM CST why do people not like you?
MnanahEireann
MnanahEireannMnanahEireannDublin, Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 259 Posts
pedro27: why do people not like you?


what are you talking about, everyone likes me confused laugh
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Jan 12, 2017 3:26 AM CST why do people not like you?
professor Personality conflicts happen all of the time, or some energies just don't get alone with other energies. Or consider the Chinese principle of Yin and Yang: One must have enemies to prove that friends exist.
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Jan 12, 2017 3:37 AM CST why do people not like you?
pedro27: why do people not like you?


I'm ugly, smokes dope, not working, bad attitude, did I mention ugly?
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Jan 12, 2017 8:24 AM CST why do people not like you?
pedro27: why do people not like you?
....I really dont know why......??????
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Jan 12, 2017 8:38 AM CST why do people not like you?
some people might not like me the reason is they don't ''know'' me


22wine
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Jan 13, 2017 1:21 PM CST why do people not like you?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
pedro27: some people might not like me the reason is they don't ''know'' me


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"to know, know , know me, is to love, love, love me, "heart1 laugh
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Jan 13, 2017 1:24 PM CST why do people not like you?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
As times goes by I've become much more concerned about the ones that like me than the ones who don't.
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Jan 13, 2017 1:31 PM CST why do people not like you?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Ccincy: As times goes by I've become much more concerned about the ones that like me than the ones who don't.



Is your bubble out getting a service spunkybum? wave hug
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Jan 13, 2017 3:10 PM CST why do people not like you?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Lookin4missright: Is your bubble out getting a service spunkybum?



Hi Spunkyboomboom. No it popped.giggle
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Jan 13, 2017 3:18 PM CST why do people not like you?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Ccincy: Hi Spunkyboomboom. No it popped.


Might have been one of your bobby pins in your new doo, i'll keep an eye out for a larger model for ya hug
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