Amed32: How many times has it happened that we know a person by our email, and when we start to write, things start to happen that fill the space of that person who may be by your side, but not enough to replace this relationship you start? How many of us have not tried to look for that cybernetic love that will make us happy even if only for beautiful images? Do you think it is possible to shorten the distance for a long time to love a person? Many people do not give credibility to distant relationships, either because of some bad reputation, or bad advice from others that bad things have happened to them, but really a distant relationship is so serious, it has credibility, do you think it will have any fruit? Well in my opinion leaving behind the avatars, and the indisciplines of some who have committed, I believe that if, My point of view is who you choose, I am of those who think that you can not always pretend to be who you are not, So if you find someone who might try to play with you, at any time you get your nails out, show who you really are, I am the one who gives credibility to this type of relationship, I know that they have found partners online and now they are married and Very happy, and if it happened to them you think it will not happen with others? I believe that the relation to Distance is another way to find the person you need, both in Cuba and in another country. What do you think?
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
Amed32: relation ship through the distance. why is so difficult
Relationships are not easy whether close or distant placed the humans and the same humans can make it difficult not matter the distance.
Asses your goals and your possibilities along with your capabilities financially, culturally, and the many allies and then choose wise taking always into consideration the other half of the equation.
My choice, I am happy by myself. Although, I have had a 24 y relationship, enough to experiment and it was good mostly.
Do not complicate life, if you look for love it might be just next door to you.
chatonlyman2: Disposal of a person then meeting other person sounds like the person left is third. Oh well. I was called a Hippy once and though that's no so bad.
I think many of you are wrong if you do not look at the positive part of a relationship at a distance, many do it as my example, because in my country thousands of women have been mowed by ignorance and the same development has brought with it the lack of love . I believe in the possibility of finding a good person who, although not beautiful, has pure feelings to show, regardless of race or age, that she only wants to love and wants to be loved by me
Amed32: I think many of you are wrong if you do not look at the positive part of a relationship at a distance, many do it as my example, because in my country thousands of women have been mowed by ignorance and the same development has brought with it the lack of love . I believe in the possibility of finding a good person who, although not beautiful, has pure feelings to show, regardless of race or age, that she only wants to love and wants to be loved by me
Best of luck with that...I hope it works out for you
mollybaby: I am one of those who disagrees with that concept.
Unless you are financially and physically willing and able to move to a new country, maybe with a different language, culture, climate, etc., and that country wants you to move there, then long distance relationships are fantasies and no more.
Agreed. Someone has to give up friends/family/job/life. Maybe they have a mortgage - yadda, yadda, yadda.
I met a local girl and , for a year, had to move back to Spain. We survived that period because we already had something. We didn't survive other things later, but that's a different story.
Without a large degree of self-sufficiency, or total dependence, these things are (mostly) doomed to remain online and to waste months or years of your life.
Grumpywriter: Agreed. Someone has to give up friends/family/job/life. Maybe they have a mortgage - yadda, yadda, yadda.
I met a local girl and , for a year, had to move back to Spain. We survived that period because we already had something. We didn't survive other things later, but that's a different story.
Without a large degree of self-sufficiency, or total dependence, these things are (mostly) doomed to remain online and to waste months or years of your life.
I think this is absolutely spot on
Many people seem to get caught up, if not obsessed, with what is little more than a fantasy that dwells inside their computer
I equate it to times when someone has pissed me off online in the past .. I log off and they no longer exist
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No i understand the Cork dialect