lamber01: My first time on a dating site...so very new to this, I understand the concept...doe's it work though, and all advice taken on board
Do they work for members ... depends, if you're looking 'local' then you might be lucky.
Reality check though ... many people seem to have been here forever and, I'm wondering, if for for many of the girls it's ALL 'just about being chased' and never allowing themselves to be caught!
I'd say it were a silly girl's silly game, if you were to ask me, and it's fuelling the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) movement.
As an outcome - I suspect the world will look very different in 20 years time.
lamber01: My first time on a dating site...so very new to this, I understand the concept...doe's it work though, and all advice taken on board
Nooooo !!! ...all the dating/adult/marriage sites are very, veeeery dangerous places, riddled with spammers, travel/money scammers, parasites, predators & STD's, plus loads of infectious disease nasties ...many of the site formats/software are full of money-traps/vicious tricks & along with their support staff, are just as evil, as any of the venal bride-scams infesting the sites ...so now you know what to expect, lol
Oh, by the way, the Savings Banks have well & truly had a guts-full of trying to sort-out/retrieve money ripped-off members that paid for their memberships, etc with their Credit/Debit Cards ...many sites, including the UK mega-site White Label Dating / Global Personals / Venntro Media Group Ltd keep the card numbers & suck money out against the card-holders wishes ...so don't automatically expect a refund, although you might get a free replacement card.
l stay with the totally free sites nowadays, chat/fight with real people on the forum threads & if l want to meet a lot of real people at once, in the flesh, l attend site parties / site costume balls & site or MeetUp group social occasions ...it's all about the chemistry & meeting people 1 by 1 is definitely asking for trouble ...have fun & try NOT to give any MONEY to ANYONE
Well, from my own experience... Yes It did work. I have been married nearly 4 years with my .We met through this site . Im from Latinamerica and hes from Europe....oh yes....lots of traveling, commitment ,love and work involved, but WE made it work.
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