Can you like someone if you want to change them? ( Archived) (76)

Aug 29, 2017 5:56 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
galrads: Dude, is there something in the water where you live. I'm

Yes, but we don´t know what yet.
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Aug 29, 2017 6:02 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
fifitrixibelle: nope, you like them the way they are, dont change Gal


Thanks, your view applies to anyone. it happens to me a lot. The women who've known me for quite some time say hey galrads I like being around you, I like you but I think you'd be happier or be more loving or better looking if you did something differently blah blah blah
I just don't understand why a lot of people are blind to this. teddybear
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Aug 29, 2017 6:09 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
galrads: Thanks, your view applies to anyone. it happens to me a lot. The women who've known me for quite some time say hey galrads I like being around you, I like you but I think you'd be happier or be more loving or better looking if you did something differently blah blah blah
I just don't understand why a lot of people are blind to this.
just see the so called man above you....it all falls into place ! Some men have standards, treat women well.... others are.....(fill in the blanks)
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Aug 29, 2017 7:02 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Get an adorable new puppy and someone has to teach it to stop pissing all over the floor, but if you didn't like the puppy you might throw it in the sea. And my attitude to people was always the same; If I like you I'll try and stop you from pissing all over yourself, but if you won't work I'll throw you away, bin you. If she wants the right to stroke my face in the morning she has the responsibility to meet my expectations.
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Aug 29, 2017 11:01 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
galrads: Can you like someone if you want to change them?

sure
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Aug 29, 2017 11:35 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
I'm much more accepting of a person's flaws, than wannabe "perfection".

Makes them more real to me.

If I'm strongly repelled by their personality, however, then I just walk away, Simple.
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Aug 29, 2017 11:37 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
I'm much more accepting of a person's flaws, than wannabe "perfection".

Makes them more real to me.

If I'm strongly repelled by their personality, however, then I just walk away. Simple.
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Aug 29, 2017 11:38 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Double posted just to get the point across....grin
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Aug 29, 2017 11:49 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie: I'm much more accepting of a person's flaws, than wannabe "perfection".

Makes them more real to me.

If I'm strongly repelled by their personality, however, then I just walk away, Simple.


bouquet
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Aug 29, 2017 11:51 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
galrads: Can you like someone if you want to change them?


I don't see why not if it is is said and done by agreement and with mutual respect
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Aug 29, 2017 11:58 PM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Track....hug
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Aug 30, 2017 12:06 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,959 Posts
galrads: Can you like someone if you want to change them?



Yes you can like them but if you want to love them you may need to accept them as they are.
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Aug 30, 2017 12:07 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie: Track....


How's you today? bouquet hug
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Aug 30, 2017 12:24 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Track16: How's you today?


Am's gooood....wink

Just fixing dinner....pizza

How's yourself? wave
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Aug 30, 2017 1:03 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
BerrySmoothie: Am's gooood....

Just fixing dinner....

How's yourself?


Thats wonderful. I'm good too, debating on what to get to snack on.

What's we having for dinner? tongue grin
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Aug 30, 2017 6:04 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
MikeD12: I don't see why not if it is is said and done by agreement and with mutual respect


Yes, but if you like someone, why do you want to change them? In my opinion, if some says they like me and then try and change me, in any way, they must not have liked me.
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Aug 30, 2017 6:09 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
galrads: Can you like someone if you want to change them?



You can like them and you can try and adapt to whatever YOU want them to change about..

But generally theres no settings or factory restore button on people so you just put up grin
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Aug 30, 2017 6:18 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
I thought this was gonna be about nappies and 'baby play'

doh devil confused
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Aug 30, 2017 6:25 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
HexagonKeySet: I thought this was gonna be about nappies and 'baby play'


So, what's nappies and baby play confused
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Aug 30, 2017 6:28 AM CST Can you like someone if you want to change them?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
johnjobo: You can like them and you can try and adapt to whatever YOU want them to change about..

But generally theres no settings or factory restore button on people so you just put up



So, Why change someone if you like them? And if you don't like them to where you want to change someone, what was the attraction.. or is it more like manipulation?
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