How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like? ( Archived) (30)

Sep 27, 2017 2:11 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
CherryBomb_
CherryBomb_CherryBomb_Temperley, Buenos Aires Argentina10 Threads 1 Polls 181 Posts
Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?
conversing
sigh
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Sep 27, 2017 2:20 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see everyday and you must interact with?


In general I try to 'make the best of difficult circumstances' in a professional situation.

Beyond work ... I can't think of a situation where 'must intereact with them' would apply?

I do my best to avoid them, if they seek me out to cause trouble - there are many ways to deal effectively with that as and when it arises !

wink
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Sep 27, 2017 2:40 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?


If its a work situation I just make it short n simple stick to talking about work or other mundane things.
Other than work I don't feel I should give my time to people I don't like.

But if I have to I keep it short n sweet

How do u deal with it
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Sep 27, 2017 2:43 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
CherryBomb_:
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?



You are just laconic with them.
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Sep 27, 2017 2:44 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?


If it is a work situation, I keep it work-related, professional, and to a minimum

Otherwise, stay away from them
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Sep 27, 2017 2:55 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?
eventually I let them know in so many subtle ways . mumbling
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Sep 27, 2017 3:06 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Redex
RedexRedexNorthumberland, England UK36 Threads 1,304 Posts
epirb: eventually I let them know in so many subtle ways .


snapthumbs up grin
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Sep 27, 2017 3:38 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Redex: snap



grin grin grin

I see ... you two have 'Italian friends' also

Nudge nudge wink wink - suggestive biscuit ... know what I mean Guv !!!!


cheers
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Sep 27, 2017 6:12 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Redex
RedexRedexNorthumberland, England UK36 Threads 1,304 Posts
HexagonKeySet: I see ... you two have 'Italian friends' also

Nudge nudge wink wink - suggestive biscuit ... know what I mean Guv !!!!



dunno dunno laugh
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Sep 27, 2017 10:04 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?


I sack them!
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Sep 27, 2017 10:16 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
One2note: I sack them!



doom doom , ou'll end upin analley with some old steel in your backrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing cheers
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Sep 27, 2017 10:29 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
aries1234: doom doom , ou'll end upin analley with some old steel in your back


Is that a fact?

Why do find that comment so amusing ?
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Sep 27, 2017 11:18 AM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I just turn on my ignore shield so to speak.
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Sep 27, 2017 12:03 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
DaMooseLives
DaMooseLivesDaMooseLivesWestlock, Alberta Canada16 Threads 619 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?


I love everyone. Then again....
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Sep 27, 2017 12:45 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
CherryBomb: I always feel honesty is best. I would suggest telling them (politely) how you feel. I detest the fact that a majority of people are FAKE...and associating with anyone you don't want is in fact acting fake. More of humanity needs to believe in telling it like it is, this way people don't have to pretend or constantly guess or assume how someone feels. Also... another person cognizant of how you feel may very well decide to tell the person(s) your thoughts about said person, and with that comes deeper work place problems. People are Two-faced and backstabbing...so tell the truth before someone else tells it their way.

teddybear handshake frustrated wave
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Oct 1, 2017 2:13 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
nimisus
nimisusnimisusMoberly, Missouri USA3 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?

Speak but move on.
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Oct 1, 2017 2:33 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Lilith10
Lilith10Lilith10unknown, Alberta Canada25 Threads 2,078 Posts
lookn2share: CherryBomb: I always feel honesty is best. I would suggest telling them (politely) how you feel. I detest the fact that a majority of people are FAKE...and associating with anyone you don't want is in fact acting fake. More of humanity needs to believe in telling it like it is, this way people don't have to pretend or constantly guess or assume how someone feels. Also... another person cognizant of how you feel may very well decide to tell the person(s) your thoughts about said person, and with that comes deeper work place problems. People are Two-faced and backstabbing...so tell the truth before someone else tells it their way.



What he said thumbs up
No point in being fake about your feelings, it only causes resentment wave
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Oct 1, 2017 4:15 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Lilith: Thank you Bonita!

teddybear handshake teddybear bouquet
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Oct 1, 2017 4:24 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?



If it's family member I totally cut them from my life.Neighbors I don't neighbor anymore.
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Oct 1, 2017 4:47 PM CST How Do You Deal With People In Your Life That You Don't Like?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
CherryBomb_: Most people say to ignore them.
But what if they are people you see
everyday and you must interact with?


I don't burn bridges with family members or close friends.

If we have a spat....it eventually gets resolved and forgiven.

Neighbours, I make sure I get on with....it's too uncomfortable being around them otherwise. We all look out for one another's properties when out.

Everyone else(I don't like).....I avoid, even to the point of aisle-jumping at the supermarket. laugh
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