Settling For Second Bests? ( Archived) (119)

Aug 9, 2019 2:17 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
1ofmanyMice
1ofmanyMice1ofmanyMicemassachuesettes, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 1 Polls 294 Posts
daniela777: Of course I knew what you meant but...it doesn't have to be like that.

Waiting for sonething..or someone to come into your life and...feeling lonely...doesn't carry a positive energy and this isn't the way it works.
Start changing your vibrations and it will attract same.

Btw...being alone...and lonely ..are two different things.

You're alone when there's no one with you but you don't have to be lonely.
Lonely is a feeling.
Yea OK

well uh---------- i can say this much about your' positive energy-- yOU're still on here waiting..............? ---
it dilutes the point of.. -- Being nice. cause your nice to everyone



-- who's gonna know why You pity. next to value?--------- And lets put it this way instead?.- the whole Lonely Feeling---*** is portrayed more than felt.
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Aug 9, 2019 3:07 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
1ofmanyMice: Yea OK

well uh---------- i can say this much about your' positive energy-- yOU're still on here waiting..............? ---
it dilutes the point of.. -- Being nice. cause your nice to everyone



-- who's gonna know why You pity. next to value?--------- And lets put it this way instead?.- the whole Lonely Feeling---*** is portrayed more than felt.
Sorry to disappoint you but I'm not waiting for anything..nor anyone!
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Aug 9, 2019 3:30 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
1ofmanyMice
1ofmanyMice1ofmanyMicemassachuesettes, Massachusetts USA6 Threads 1 Polls 294 Posts
take my advice.



Talk to the new people.. They--- Might be good enough. .. I hope so, you shouldn't be online.
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Aug 13, 2019 7:43 AM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Bellanna
BellannaBellannaPlatz, Appenzell Ausserrhoden Switzerland15 Threads 3 Polls 339 Posts
daniela777: We all have the right to be choosy! Choose someone out of love, and not out of loneliness.
That's all very nice, but I have friends who waited for true love, missed a lot of nice men they could have a decent relationship with and are now 30+, no love experience, no idea what a relationship is, still living in the dreamland... Some others were very picky until they reached 30 or even 35 and then they realized that they actually wanted to have children all their lives and that they missed a lot of "the second best" men they could have family with, so - panicking - they now settle for the men they wouldn't even look at when they were 20 or 25.

People should be realistic, no matter how old they are...
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Aug 17, 2019 12:53 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Driver406
Driver406Driver406St Paul, Minnesota USA94 Posts
At my age I'm looking for a relationship far more than marriage and I think it best to get exactly what I want (Though I have absolutely no intention of finding it). I don't have time to fool around with second best.
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Aug 17, 2019 1:08 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Driver406: At my age I'm looking for a relationship far more than marriage and I think it best to get exactly what I want (Though I have absolutely no intention of finding it). I don't have time to fool around with second best.
I'm glad to hear it! thumbs up
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Aug 17, 2019 1:14 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
I could have settled lots of times but it only would have been that. I want someone who is perfect for me and who I am perfect for. Its a tall order but I seen too many people unhappy in settling.
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Aug 17, 2019 1:49 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Track16: I could have settled lots of times but it only would have been that. I want someone who is perfect for me and who I am perfect for. Its a tall order but I seen too many people unhappy in settling.
Hi Track..I agree with your statement.thumbs up
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Aug 17, 2019 1:52 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777: Hi Track..I agree with your statement.
Its just as important that you are as special to the other person as they are to you, relationships is a two way street, you have to mind both lanes.
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Aug 17, 2019 1:55 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Mongo_lives
Mongo_livesMongo_livesRock Ridge, Texas USA210 Posts
Mongo doesn't think too much about this (or anything else). Mongo chooses to be with people he likes and does not worry about what he has or what he is missing. All Mongo knows is to make good choices in life and friends.
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Aug 17, 2019 1:59 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,314 Posts
Mongo_lives: Mongo doesn't think too much about this (or anything else). Mongo chooses to be with people he likes and does not worry about what he has or what he is missing. All Mongo knows is to make good choices in life and friends.
Looks like Mongo is enjoying his life... Are we to accept that without bloody fight on the fora?
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Aug 17, 2019 2:00 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Track16: Its just as important that you are as special to the other person as they are to you, relationships is a two way street, you have to mind both lanes.
Correct! wine
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Aug 17, 2019 2:02 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Mongo_lives: Mongo doesn't think too much about this (or anything else). Mongo chooses to be with people he likes and does not worry about what he has or what he is missing. All Mongo knows is to make good choices in life and friends.
I like Mongo. When he says something in a serious form I usually believe him. But what I really like about him is he makes me smile. His humor is invigorating. If only he was 40 years older. flirty
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Aug 17, 2019 4:24 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
This was a good thread. Why did you guys stop posting in it?

OMG I'm hoping you people don't think I was flirting with Mongo. doh

I just think he's funny sometimes but I'm NOT flirting with him. scold

He's young enough to be my great grandson laugh wow

Please continue with your opinions of Settling For Second Best typing dancing dog
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Aug 17, 2019 4:31 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
secretagent09:

OMG I'm hoping you people don't think I was flirting with Mongo.
I don't think anybody notices or cares about such things.
I certainly don't anyway. People banter on here all the time cheers
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Aug 17, 2019 4:39 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Bnaughty: Give me details of the kind of relationship that you want and we can come to an arrangement
You give me 8, I'll buy you a pint beer
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Aug 17, 2019 4:42 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Bnaughty: Give me details of the kind of relationship that you want and we can come to an arrangement
I'll leave that to himself and yourself. laugh
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Aug 17, 2019 4:43 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
mollybaby: You give me 8, I'll buy you a pint
Jeez Molly, to be able to cope with him you'll need about 5 margaritas. laugh
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Aug 17, 2019 4:44 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
KNenagh: Jeez Molly, to be able to cope with him you'll need about 5 margaritas.
I'd be well able for him grin
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Aug 17, 2019 4:45 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Ladies stop fighting over me....there´s enough for everyonelove
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