What would you do after a limited conversation like this with a potential girlfriend or boyfriend who still jointly owns two properties with an they divorced 13 years ago.
Begin — They say they want to date you. — You say maybe and you add you don’t like being a closet boy/girl friend. — they respond, well you know I do have to work a full time job, family visits a lot and I am occupied with church chorus several nights and weekends, gym, line dancing, yoga, arts n crafts other other nights already. End
What would you do after a limited conversation like this with a potential girlfriend or boyfriend who still jointly owns two properties with an they divorced 13 years ago.
Begin — They say they want to date you. — You say maybe and you add you don’t like being a closet boy/girl friend. — they respond, well you know I do have to work a full time job, family visits a lot and I am occupied with church chorus several nights and weekends, gym, line dancing, yoga, arts n crafts other other nights already. End
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What I get out of your question is:
A man and woman own two properties together 13 years after they were divorced. One says to the other they want to start dating each other (this is after the divorce) One says to the other that they have a lot of things going on in their life that takes up a lot of their time
I guess the comment about being a closet boyfriend/girlfriend means they don't want anyone to know they would be dating
The one who heard all the excuses from the other one should get in their car and drive, drive, drive
secretagent09: What I get out of your question is:
A man and woman own two properties together 13 years after they were divorced. One says to the other they want to start dating each other (this is after the divorce) One says to the other that they have a lot of things going on in their life that takes up a lot of their time
I guess the comment about being a closet boyfriend/girlfriend means they don't want anyone to know they would be dating
The one who heard all the excuses from the other one should get in their car and drive, drive, drive
Simplified explanation for closet bf or gf. Typically a closet boyfriend or girlfriend is someone kept in a closet and dated only at the other’s convenience. Thanks SA
Somehow ‘Ex’ got dropped from the original story. The people dating now were never married together but one of these two daters was married before and still owns two properties with their Ex of 13 years.
So, would you (person Z) want to date someone (person A) who Was married and divorced with someone else (person B) but persons A and B still own homes and properties jointly purchase together thirteen years after they divorced?
You say closet dating. i instantly just think of someone who wants to protray as typical but after you get to know them. other 'doors open we can say' Is there anything wrong with that? .. You know... i would think.. misscommuniction would be a bigger fault. . Towards your view of , how i could put it, i'd acll them a 'back burner' . odds out of everything on the stove, they gonna get burnt
4gotten4ever: You say closet dating. i instantly just think of someone who wants to protray as typical but after you get to know them. other 'doors open we can say' Is there anything wrong with that? .. You know... i would think.. misscommuniction would be a bigger fault. . Towards your view of , how i could put it, i'd acll them a 'back burner' . odds out of everything on the stove, they gonna get burnt
Hi, can you elaborate on what you just said? And what is a acll ?
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What would you do after a limited conversation like this with a potential girlfriend or boyfriend who still jointly owns two properties with an they divorced 13 years ago.
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— They say they want to date you.
— You say maybe and you add you don’t like being a closet boy/girl friend.
— they respond, well you know I do have to work a full time job, family visits a lot and I am occupied with church chorus several nights and weekends, gym, line dancing, yoga, arts n crafts other other nights already.
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