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Dec 26, 2019 9:25 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.

What would you do after a limited conversation like this with a potential girlfriend or boyfriend who still jointly owns two properties with an they divorced 13 years ago.

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— They say they want to date you.
— You say maybe and you add you don’t like being a closet boy/girl friend.
— they respond, well you know I do have to work a full time job, family visits a lot and I am occupied with church chorus several nights and weekends, gym, line dancing, yoga, arts n crafts other other nights already.
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Dec 26, 2019 9:39 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads:

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I would tell myself, times have changed, and I can not expect an American paramour to view me as their world or change for me.
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Dec 26, 2019 9:40 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
galrads: Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.

What would you do after a limited conversation like this with a potential girlfriend or boyfriend who still jointly owns two properties with an they divorced 13 years ago.

Begin
— They say they want to date you.
— You say maybe and you add you don’t like being a closet boy/girl friend.
— they respond, well you know I do have to work a full time job, family visits a lot and I am occupied with church chorus several nights and weekends, gym, line dancing, yoga, arts n crafts other other nights already.
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Comments?

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What I get out of your question is:

A man and woman own two properties together 13 years after they were divorced.
One says to the other they want to start dating each other (this is after the divorce)
One says to the other that they have a lot of things going on in their life that takes up a lot of their time

I guess the comment about being a closet boyfriend/girlfriend means they don't want anyone to know they would be dating dunno

The one who heard all the excuses from the other one should get in their car and drive, drive, drive laugh
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Dec 26, 2019 10:00 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: What I get out of your question is:

A man and woman own two properties together 13 years after they were divorced.
One says to the other they want to start dating each other (this is after the divorce)
One says to the other that they have a lot of things going on in their life that takes up a lot of their time

I guess the comment about being a closet boyfriend/girlfriend means they don't want anyone to know they would be dating

The one who heard all the excuses from the other one should get in their car and drive, drive, drive
Simplified explanation for closet bf or gf. Typically a closet boyfriend or girlfriend is someone kept in a closet and dated only at the other’s convenience.
Thanks SA

Somehow ‘Ex’ got dropped from the original story. The people dating now were never married together but one of these two daters was married before and still owns two properties with their Ex of 13 years.

So, would you (person Z) want to date someone (person A) who Was married and divorced with someone else (person B) but persons A and B still own homes and properties jointly purchase together thirteen years after they divorced?
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Dec 26, 2019 10:02 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: What I get out of your question is:

The one who heard all the excuses from the other one should get in their car and drive, drive, drive
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Dec 26, 2019 10:07 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
They say the answer is always in the question!


Often if you need to ask the question you already know the answer dunno
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Dec 26, 2019 10:44 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Selenite: They say the answer is always in the question!


Often if you need to ask the question you already know the answer
Yep.. cheers
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Dec 26, 2019 11:41 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Selenite: They say the answer is always in the question!


Often if you need to ask the question you already know the answer
Thanks... I’m not looking for an absolute truth, just opinions, perspectives etc.

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Dec 26, 2019 11:42 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
4gotten4ever
4gotten4ever4gotten4everhere, California USA21 Threads 656 Posts
You say closet dating. i instantly just think of someone who wants to protray as typical but after you get to know them. other 'doors open we can say' Is there anything wrong with that? .. You know... i would think.. misscommuniction would be a bigger fault. . Towards your view of , how i could put it, i'd acll them a 'back burner' . odds out of everything on the stove, they gonna get burnt
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Dec 26, 2019 11:48 AM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
4gotten4ever: You say closet dating. i instantly just think of someone who wants to protray as typical but after you get to know them. other 'doors open we can say' Is there anything wrong with that? .. You know... i would think.. misscommuniction would be a bigger fault. . Towards your view of , how i could put it, i'd acll them a 'back burner' . odds out of everything on the stove, they gonna get burnt
Hi, can you elaborate on what you just said? And what is a acll ?
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Dec 26, 2019 6:25 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
How odd. I usually keep mine locked up in the basement not my closet.
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Dec 26, 2019 8:09 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
yeah...no thanks....i wouldnt settle for that.....wave
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Dec 26, 2019 9:08 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
M4_Mischief: yeah...no thanks....i wouldnt settle for that.....
Hello, M4wave Is this the airport? cool



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Dec 26, 2019 9:19 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
It sound like a big headache to me...frustrated laugh
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Dec 26, 2019 10:32 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
I wouldn't want to be a closet gf. That would be a slap in my face and hurtful. I would not stick around for that bs.motorcycle

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Dec 26, 2019 10:47 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,465 Posts
Time wasters
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Dec 26, 2019 10:49 PM CST Closet boyfriend/girlfriend conversation.
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
Mercedes_00: Time wasters
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