Checking profiles. (29)
Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
You know already... If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
"If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. "
I am the same...
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mariamarcela: You know already...
"If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. "
I am the same...
OK we might have a problem here!"If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. "
I am the same...
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I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
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Jaavisst: OK we might have a problem here!
Every problem has a solution. 
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Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
At first, your point of view may seem valid. However, checking out a profile and not leaving a message is not “rude”; so try not to personalize it. If I do this (which is rare) and see nothing compatible, it would seem awkward to say anything. Your profile is up. You created it. You are in control of this action. Publicizing it is a choice, and other members will either write or not. Don’t over-work it. It’s not a big deal. And, doesn’t it seem just a little unnecessary to say something like, “Oh hi. I checked out your stats, but I’m not interested”. Right?? Silence is golden.If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
Peace, brother. Don’t let it live in your head.
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Mercedes_00: I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
So you still looking for your plumber to see if he is in a shop for you. 
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Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?
Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
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Butterflygirl1: You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident
Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
.........what a responsible responce.........nice....Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
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Butterflygirl1: You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident
Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
most of the profiles are false anyhow ,, so reading them will leave you none the wiser,,,Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
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michaelright: most of the profiles are false anyhow ,, so reading them will leave you none the wiser,,,
Some but not all Some of us tell the truth
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Butterflygirl1: Some but not all
Some of us tell the truth
that's why I said most,,,,Some of us tell the truth
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Mercedes_00: I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
I very don't look at profiles either, well maybe to check that they'e scammers if they message me 
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"I don't" don't know where the "very" came from I'm multitasking 
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michaelright: that's why I said most,,,,
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The profiles actually are so fun . There is one profile on CS ( I believe the guy's location is in Texas , age is above 76 )that you need about 30 min. to scan through the writings, full of rules and regulations,
Do's and Don'ts, that even the amendments are not that complicated next to his profile requests .CS 101.
Do's and Don'ts, that even the amendments are not that complicated next to his profile requests .CS 101.
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The only reason i check out profiles is in hope to see some ( @ )( @ ) and ( Y )
this is a dating site after all
this is a dating site after all
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I like the girl to get on top.
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If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.
How do you do it?