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Jun 14, 2021 4:42 AM CST Checking profiles.
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden49 Threads 11 Polls 295 Posts
I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.

How do you do it?
Jun 14, 2021 4:49 AM CST Checking profiles.
mariamarcela
mariamarcelamariamarcelaSIBIU, Transylvania Romania2 Threads 1,445 Posts
Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.

How do you do it?
You know already... grin

"If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. "

I am the same... bouquet
Jun 14, 2021 4:50 AM CST Checking profiles.
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden49 Threads 11 Polls 295 Posts
mariamarcela: You know already...

"If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. "

I am the same...
OK we might have a problem here!
Jun 14, 2021 4:51 AM CST Checking profiles.
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 28,989 Posts
I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
Jun 14, 2021 4:59 AM CST Checking profiles.
mariamarcela
mariamarcelamariamarcelaSIBIU, Transylvania Romania2 Threads 1,445 Posts
Jaavisst: OK we might have a problem here!
Every problem has a solution. cheers
Jun 14, 2021 5:24 AM CST Checking profiles.
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK9,082 Posts
Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.

How do you do it?
You still have to make the first move it just has to be smarter than it would have been in real life. Balls don't count online we'll have no bollocks here. This is the power of the brain, the most erotic muscle.
Jun 14, 2021 8:58 AM CST Checking profiles.
Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.

How do you do it?
At first, your point of view may seem valid. However, checking out a profile and not leaving a message is not “rude”; so try not to personalize it. If I do this (which is rare) and see nothing compatible, it would seem awkward to say anything. Your profile is up. You created it. You are in control of this action. Publicizing it is a choice, and other members will either write or not. Don’t over-work it. It’s not a big deal. And, doesn’t it seem just a little unnecessary to say something like, “Oh hi. I checked out your stats, but I’m not interested”. Right?? Silence is golden.

Peace, brother. Don’t let it live in your head. handshake
Jun 14, 2021 3:54 PM CST Checking profiles.
Inthecountryside
InthecountrysideInthecountrysideWellington, Somerset, England UK9 Threads 1 Polls 388 Posts
Mercedes_00: I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
So you still looking for your plumber to see if he is in a shop for you. conversing
Jun 14, 2021 4:16 PM CST Checking profiles.
Jaavisst: I only check profiles not logged in. I don't want to alert scammers of my person and I feel that it's rude to visit someones profile logged in and not leave a message. To me when people visit my profile and don't leave a message it feels like a rejection.
If I find someone interesting I rarely send a message my self first anyway. I know women expect the man to pursue her but I prefer women to make first contact.
Sometimes I forget if I am logged in or not though, so don't be offended if I didn't message you.

How do you do it?
You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident doh

Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people hug
Jun 14, 2021 4:29 PM CST Checking profiles.
I will only look at women’s profiles and only if they have a primary photo which is a nude selfie of herself. beer (can we use pronouns with ‘her’ in it?)
Jun 14, 2021 4:29 PM CST Checking profiles.
Butterflygirl1: You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident

Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
.........what a responsible responce.........nice....thumbs up
Jun 14, 2021 4:56 PM CST Checking profiles.
Butterflygirl1: You might be overthinking this a bit ,I wouldn’t think twice about someone viewing my profile and not messaging me, we are all looking for different things in a partner and unless you read the profile you don’t know if the person is a match or not . I’ve also viewed many profiles by accident

Don’t take it so serious and just enjoy getting to know people
most of the profiles are false anyhow ,, so reading them will leave you none the wiser,,,
Jun 14, 2021 5:04 PM CST Checking profiles.
michaelright: most of the profiles are false anyhow ,, so reading them will leave you none the wiser,,,
Some but not all hug

Some of us tell the truth
tongue
Jun 14, 2021 5:06 PM CST Checking profiles.
Butterflygirl1: Some but not all

Some of us tell the truth
that's why I said most,,,,wine
Jun 14, 2021 6:50 PM CST Checking profiles.
Mercedes_00: I don't look at profiles..Men are into window shopping on the net..I window shop more important things when out shopping.in the real world
I very don't look at profiles either, well maybe to check that they'e scammers if they message me laugh

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Jun 14, 2021 6:53 PM CST Checking profiles.
"I don't" don't know where the "very" came from laugh I'm multitasking professor
Jun 14, 2021 6:58 PM CST Checking profiles.
michaelright: that's why I said most,,,,
Maybe that's the reason why a lot of people here on CS are very cautious these days.professor
Jun 14, 2021 7:54 PM CST Checking profiles.
Lostedonline today!
Lostedonline today!LostedSherman, Texas USA1 Threads 873 Posts
I won't intentionally look at a profile.
Jun 15, 2021 1:32 AM CST Checking profiles.
DeTempsEnTemps
DeTempsEnTempsDeTempsEnTempsGlendale, California USA8 Posts
The profiles actually are so fun . There is one profile on CS ( I believe the guy's location is in Texas , age is above 76 )that you need about 30 min. to scan through the writings, full of rules and regulations,
Do's and Don'ts, that even the amendments are not that complicated next to his profile requests .CS 101.
Jun 15, 2021 2:49 AM CST Checking profiles.
breda
bredabredaDublin, Ireland3 Threads 666 Posts
Butterflygirl1: Some but not all

Some of us tell the truth
laugh especially the irish always,laugh hug cheers
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