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Feb 10, 2008 2:56 AM CST I dont know about this place
aquila_j
aquila_jaquila_jTopeka, Kansas USA2 Threads 15 Posts
ok so ive tried this place and mailed people and never get anything back.I dont know maybe I am just ugly or something.I know that I do not write much about myself and things but that is because I want someone to get to know me.I have not got one piece of mail so I guess that is never going to happen.I am sorry for the whining or whatever you want to call it.I just wish that I did not feel this way.But it is no different then my life.That is why I work almost all the time.Thanks.
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Feb 10, 2008 3:00 AM CST I dont know about this place
Detente
DetenteDetenteNorth West, England UK48 Threads 1 Polls 2,742 Posts
hug

Take a look at my pic...now THAT'S ugly!laugh

You certainly ain't challenged in the looks area...just stick around the forums and have fun...let folk get to know the real you...express yourself and make e-friends.

Relax and don't worry!cheers
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Feb 10, 2008 3:07 AM CST I dont know about this place
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Your a queen baby, I wish I was your age,you will find your love, have faith.
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Feb 10, 2008 3:51 AM CST I dont know about this place
godchaser
godchasergodchaserDeWitt, Michigan USA1 Threads 36 Posts
If they aren't responding, then their loss and most likely your gain. I would suggest adding some more info to your profile; it is nice to know a bit more about someone before responding to someone, just my personal opinion. As they said, just hang out and have fun!

Guys - nice touch! ;)
We could use more of you around! =)
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Feb 10, 2008 5:39 AM CST I dont know about this place
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
Keep your chin up, Sweety! It happened for this Kansan (I met the lady of my dreams here on CS a little over a year ago!) so it can happen to you, too!

And you're still young and pretty, with a lot of life and tons of dreams ahead of you - Heck, it took me almost 46 years to find the love of my life!

And this much I know: Sometimes it really does happen and a simple little thing like responding to a thread about James Taylor can be the catalyst. But you have to be patient; Nothing good ever came from rushing things (Except maybe making it to the bathroom in time!) and I'm living proof that good things do indeed come to those who wait...

Slow down, take part in the forums, smell the flowers and kiss a few frogs and, every now and then, dare to dance!

elephant dancing dog



cowboy
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Feb 10, 2008 5:42 AM CST I dont know about this place
Pptrixibell
PptrixibellPptrixibellEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK5 Threads 1,903 Posts
wave Keep the faith girlie, and they will show themselves....wink but do come on the forums and let people know what an interesting person you are hug
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Feb 10, 2008 5:46 AM CST I dont know about this place
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Hi and welcome wave cheering applause
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Feb 10, 2008 6:43 AM CST I dont know about this place
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
aquila_j: ok so ive tried this place and mailed people and never get anything back.I dont know maybe I am just ugly or something.I know that I do not write much about myself and things but that is because I want someone to get to know me.I have not got one piece of mail so I guess that is never going to happen.I am sorry for the whining or whatever you want to call it.I just wish that I did not feel this way.But it is no different then my life.That is why I work almost all the time.Thanks.


I think you need to join in on the forums more typing then soon your mailbox will soon be bulging at the seams & your flowerbox will be overflowing with flowers bouquet

gotta go
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Feb 10, 2008 7:16 AM CST I dont know about this place
breezee
breezeebreezeeathens, Attica Greece20 Threads 1,136 Posts
Hi and welcome!!!
All I can say is stay with the forums...

I got plenty of attention from lots of guys when I first joined CS a month ago.
I'm 42. They were mostly in their 20s or 60s and were offering me their mobile phone numbers....for a good time call......
Pretty discouraging/down right depressing stuff......

The forums are a much nicer situation, where you can get to know people in a more natural??human??? (cyber actually laugh ) way......

Good luck!!
There are happy endings and lots of hope, looks like....hug
Give it some time teddybear
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Feb 10, 2008 7:52 AM CST I dont know about this place
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
Hi wave I haven't seen you in the forums before now, do you go to the chat room?? Ya gotta hang out more let ppl get to know you, add your voice to the threads or start some of your own. In any case cswelcome and glad you are here now handshake
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Feb 10, 2008 8:01 AM CST I dont know about this place
Sparky55
Sparky55Sparky55Somewhere, Afghanistan48 Threads 1 Polls 2,678 Posts
aquila_j: ok so ive tried this place and mailed people and never get anything back.I dont know maybe I am just ugly or something.I know that I do not write much about myself and things but that is because I want someone to get to know me.I have not got one piece of mail so I guess that is never going to happen.I am sorry for the whining or whatever you want to call it.I just wish that I did not feel this way.But it is no different then my life.That is why I work almost all the time.Thanks.


Lots of people have already given you sound advice and the advice about posting in the forums is really good. Since you started CS on 17 Dec 07 you have only posted twice. (This one and an introductory thread) I'm sure there are lots of folks out here who would like to get to know who you are and what you like, dislike, etc... And I think the best way to do that is by seeing you comment on the threads.

Of course I am too much of an old geezer to your eyes but I looked at your profile and you seem to have a lot to offer. Enjoy the threads, joke, laugh, fuss, show us who you really are and people will take notice.

Be well
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Feb 10, 2008 8:06 AM CST I dont know about this place
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
When you least expect it someone will fall into your lap and turn your world upside down, I know that for a fact grin so just kick back let life take it's own course and don't rush things.
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Feb 10, 2008 8:32 AM CST I dont know about this place
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
godchaser: If they aren't responding, then their loss and most likely your gain. I would suggest adding some more info to your profile; it is nice to know a bit more about someone before responding to someone, just my personal opinion. As they said, just hang out and have fun!

Guys - nice touch! ;)
We could use more of you around! =)




~~~What she saidgrin


And guys>>>>thumbs up you're great!!!
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Feb 10, 2008 9:13 AM CST I dont know about this place
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Just hang out then... without any kind of expectations, then you won't feel so let down.



All the best...wave



flower
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Feb 10, 2008 9:33 AM CST I dont know about this place
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
You have mail, but have fun..
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Feb 10, 2008 9:51 AM CST I dont know about this place
wave Hey girlie...Welcome to the forumshandshake Jump right in and have fun, theres a great bunch of ppl on here. Don't take anything to serious, smile, and have fun! cheers
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Feb 10, 2008 10:28 AM CST I dont know about this place
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
hi and welcome

well
all i can say is you sound like you have only one way (script)
that you think will work for you
as i see "i want"

you say you dont write much because you want a certain result

honey thats manipulation
no wonder you feel disappointed

drop the script
come in and hang
open up
youll be seen
youll have conversations
they wont all last forever

one thing i can swear to is that 'my picture' of what i wanted
never really happened-
but i have gotten what i found out i wanted
quite a few times

wink

cheer up and hang out
someones always here
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Feb 11, 2008 5:25 AM CST I dont know about this place
aquila_j
aquila_jaquila_jTopeka, Kansas USA2 Threads 15 Posts
thank you everyone for you thoughts and advice on this.I guess that you will see me in the forums more.Maybe then I will get more enjoyment out of this place.At least I already know that there are nice people on here.

Thanks again :)
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