How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!! ( Archived) (32)

Aug 28, 2008 12:38 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness.


Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!



thumbs up wine
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Aug 28, 2008 12:39 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
this is just too hard mylife!!

are you sure about this?

its not what happens in the moviesconfused








wave
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Aug 28, 2008 12:40 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
Just go out the door, turn left and keep turning left until you find him or her!

laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 12:40 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
WOW...Great article.....thumbs up hug teddybear hug bouquet



Maybe we can all find it in the dominating women thread....wink hmmm giggle
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Aug 28, 2008 12:41 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
thumbs up

As my Grandma used to say - "No one else can love you until you love yourself first."
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Aug 28, 2008 12:41 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!


We landed on the moon?






















jk, good reminder indeed. Thanks for sharing. Steps 1-5=profit
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Aug 28, 2008 12:42 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: WOW...Great article.....
Maybe we can all find it in the dominating women thread....
Thankyou!!
I doubt this will help him, but I triedlaugh wine
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Aug 28, 2008 12:47 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
thumbs up Thanks, mylife - good stuff...





hmmm
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Aug 28, 2008 12:48 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
mindfful: im with you

who's turn is it?

i think i was blindfolded last time...






scold Ssshhhhh... smoking





wink
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Aug 28, 2008 12:49 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
mylifewithu: I got duct tape, do you wanna come over here


laugh .. scold I'm kind of tied up at the moment.. devil smitten
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Aug 28, 2008 12:50 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada107 Threads 7 Polls 6,811 Posts
mindfful: im with you

who's turn is it?

i think i was blindfolded last time...



mumbling well that wasn't me ... and who the hell untied you???very mad



mnetal note .. lock doors when I leave..
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Aug 28, 2008 12:50 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Ambrosel: Fresh offerings from my medicinal garden+rope=profit


laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 12:59 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!


That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
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Aug 28, 2008 1:04 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
sweetowen: That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
thumbs up thumbs up Gives us the time to reflect on our part of what went wrong also. And So we can learn what we want and need out of a relationship also.wine
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Aug 28, 2008 1:12 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends?? wine
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Aug 28, 2008 1:15 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
Very good post and very true ... thanks for sharing wave
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Aug 28, 2008 1:15 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
sweetowen: I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends??
That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life.
And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.thumbs up
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Aug 28, 2008 1:18 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
Taken under advisement
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Sep 7, 2008 10:42 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
mylifewithu: That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life.
And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.


That is so very true! AND he has to get along with my friends. I've learned over the years to listen more closely to my friends on my picks of guys. If they have a bad feeling about him, I need to take heed. They're usually right. The thing is that they're on the outside & aren't all starry-eyed. I value their objective opinions! professor
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Sep 7, 2008 10:49 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India19 Threads 1,084 Posts
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!




thumbs up cool.but ideal .really hard to follow as a human.thanks though.great thought

hi mf
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