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Aug 28, 2008 1:38 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness.


Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!



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Aug 28, 2008 1:39 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA307 Threads 9 Polls 25,009 Posts
this is just too hard mylife!!

are you sure about this?

its not what happens in the moviesconfused








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Aug 28, 2008 1:40 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland45 Threads 17 Polls 18,473 Posts
Just go out the door, turn left and keep turning left until you find him or her!

laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 1:40 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
WOW...Great article.....thumbs up hug teddybear hug bouquet



Maybe we can all find it in the dominating women thread....wink hmmm giggle
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Aug 28, 2008 1:41 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA31 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
thumbs up

As my Grandma used to say - "No one else can love you until you love yourself first."
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Aug 28, 2008 1:41 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!


We landed on the moon?






















jk, good reminder indeed. Thanks for sharing. Steps 1-5=profit
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Aug 28, 2008 1:42 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: WOW...Great article.....
Maybe we can all find it in the dominating women thread....
Thankyou!!
I doubt this will help him, but I triedlaugh wine
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Aug 28, 2008 1:44 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
I think abduction is less messy and does away with the need for all that psychobabble personal growth shit ... oh ya that reminds me, get duct tape... laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 1:46 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
BnaturAl: I think abduction is less messy and does away with the need for all that psychobabble personal growth shit ... oh ya that reminds me, get duct tape...
I got duct tape, do you wanna come over herelaugh laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 1:46 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA307 Threads 9 Polls 25,009 Posts
BnaturAl: I think abduction is less messy and does away with the need for all that psychobabble personal growth shit ... oh ya that reminds me, get duct tape...


im with you

who's turn is it?confused

i think i was blindfolded last time...
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Aug 28, 2008 1:47 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
thumbs up Thanks, mylife - good stuff...





hmmm
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Aug 28, 2008 1:48 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mindfful: im with you

who's turn is it?

i think i was blindfolded last time...






scold Ssshhhhh... smoking





wink
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Aug 28, 2008 1:49 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
mylifewithu: I got duct tape, do you wanna come over here


laugh .. scold I'm kind of tied up at the moment.. devil smitten
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Aug 28, 2008 1:50 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
mindfful: im with you

who's turn is it?

i think i was blindfolded last time...



mumbling well that wasn't me ... and who the hell untied you???very mad



mnetal note .. lock doors when I leave..
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Aug 28, 2008 1:50 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Ambrosel: Fresh offerings from my medicinal garden+rope=profit


laugh
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Aug 28, 2008 1:59 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA344 Threads 5 Polls 11,456 Posts
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!


That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
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Aug 28, 2008 2:04 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
sweetowen: That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
thumbs up thumbs up Gives us the time to reflect on our part of what went wrong also. And So we can learn what we want and need out of a relationship also.wine
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Aug 28, 2008 2:12 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA344 Threads 5 Polls 11,456 Posts
I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends?? wine
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Aug 28, 2008 2:15 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta60 Threads 4,845 Posts
Very good post and very true ... thanks for sharing wave
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Aug 28, 2008 2:15 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
sweetowen: I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends??
That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life.
And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.thumbs up
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