Step1 Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
Step2 Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
Step3 Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
Step4 Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
Step5 Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship. Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness.
Things You’ll Need:
Honesty Self-confidence Self-esteem Respect Trust
This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!
mylifewithu: Step1 Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
Step2 Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
Step3 Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
Step4 Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
Step5 Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship. Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:
Honesty Self-confidence Self-esteem Respect Trust
This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!
We landed on the moon?
jk, good reminder indeed. Thanks for sharing. Steps 1-5=profit
mylifewithu: Step1 Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
Step2 Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
Step3 Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
Step4 Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
Step5 Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship. Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:
Honesty Self-confidence Self-esteem Respect Trust
This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!
That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
sweetowen: That's what I ALWAYS say! I also think we need to spend time alone between relationships to FIND ourselves again. I don't believe in jumping from one to another. Just leads to disaster.
Gives us the time to reflect on our part of what went wrong also. And So we can learn what we want and need out of a relationship also.
I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends??
sweetowen: I get so annoyed with people who say. "Well but I'm so lonely!" I'd rather be lonely any day than be in a bad relationship. And I always ask if they don't have good friends to hang out with. I was just saying last night that if I got in a relationship right now, how would I find the time to be with him in between hanging out with my great friends??
That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life. And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.
mylifewithu: That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life. And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.
That is so very true! AND he has to get along with my friends. I've learned over the years to listen more closely to my friends on my picks of guys. If they have a bad feeling about him, I need to take heed. They're usually right. The thing is that they're on the outside & aren't all starry-eyed. I value their objective opinions!
mylifewithu: Step1 Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
Step2 Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
Step3 Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
Step4 Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
Step5 Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship. Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:
Honesty Self-confidence Self-esteem Respect Trust
This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!
cool.but ideal .really hard to follow as a human.thanks though.great thought
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Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.
Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.
Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.
Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?
Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness.
Things You’ll Need:
Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust
This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!