Would you marry someone with a handicap/disability (159)
If You truly love someone You see them, not their disability.
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Would you marry someone without a 'disability'?
Someone who has got through life, certainly to my age, without anything impeding their choices sounds like a fairly fearsome creature to me.
Someone who has got through life, certainly to my age, without anything impeding their choices sounds like a fairly fearsome creature to me.
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jac379: Would you marry someone without a 'disability'?
Someone who has got through life, certainly to my age, without anything impeding their choices sounds like a fairly fearsome creature to me.
Someone who has got through life, certainly to my age, without anything impeding their choices sounds like a fairly fearsome creature to me.
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A big NO if mental disability
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Migsy: A big NO if mental disability
I have PTSD a mental condition, does that make me unlovable? i hope not
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Mr.justin u meant post traumatic stress syndrome hmmm i better keep my opinion to myself:-)
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I meant disorder not syndrome
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Certainly not a psychopath, still got the scars from the last one.
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Migsy: Mr.justin u meant post traumatic stress syndrome hmmm i better keep my opinion to myself:-)
I know what i meant and the correct term is post traumatic stress disorder, not syndrome, are you really that shallow?
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I'd marry Migsy, if she were blind.
....that's the only way it would come off....
....that's the only way it would come off....
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i am disabled. i sit in a wheelchair. since 2001. i cannot see myself marrying anybody but somebody with a similar disability. i don't even think about somebody 'normal'. i was married when i bacame disabled. i know what happened then. 
it will happen again. to satisfy your curiosity, yes i will. 
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I didnt say something to avoid arguement ,i never judge you if u have that kind of disorder,ive just said if mental disability no what i meant if someone is psycho or serial killer etc.if i offended u i do apologise
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I didnt say something to avoid arguement ,i never judge you if u have that kind of disorder,ive just said if mental disability no what i meant if someone is psycho or serial killer etc.if i offended u i do apologise
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Whocanitbe: i am disabled. i sit in a wheelchair. since 2001. i cannot see myself marrying anybody but somebody with a similar disability. i don't even think about somebody 'normal'. i was married when i bacame disabled. i know what happened then. it will happen again. to satisfy your curiosity, yes i will.
go for it, dude. best of luck!
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justjim63: I know what i meant and the correct term is post traumatic stress disorder, not syndrome, are you really that shallow?
Migsy suffers from post vampire distress syndrome, but her heart is in the right place
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Mr.david im already blind,will u marry me?lets go haha
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Whocanitbe: i am disabled. i sit in a wheelchair. since 2001. i cannot see myself marrying anybody but somebody with a similar disability. i don't even think about somebody 'normal'. i was married when i bacame disabled. i know what happened then. it will happen again. to satisfy your curiosity, yes i will.
So you believe your disability was the cause of the break down of your marriage, rather than the catalyst?
The reason I ask, is because I find it hard to imagine that a healthy, loving relationship could fall apart just because one person uses a wheel chair.
I can, however, imagine that a relationship which is not working at least for one partner, or is a shallow connection in some way, could fall apart with such a change.
Perhaps you could explain a bit more to me? I'd like to understand a bit more. It could happen to any of us.
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Tom u have chinese traumatic disorder lol
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Whocanitbe: i am disabled. i sit in a wheelchair. since 2001. i cannot see myself marrying anybody but somebody with a similar disability. i don't even think about somebody 'normal'. i was married when i bacame disabled. i know what happened then. it will happen again. to satisfy your curiosity, yes i will.
Now, wait a minute, Who.
Let me apologize, first, if you know me from these Forums primarily as a joker. I am usually. But I can and sometimes do offer sincere and thoughtful advice, as here. So take it if you like.
I don't doubt that after the failure of your former marriage, you blamed your disability, and felt that trying again was a waste of your time, and a nuisance to a prospective partner. Ok, fair enough. Maybe it was true, then.
But it needn't be. Yes, if wheelchair-bound, you face a host of life restrictions. But romance need not be one of them. Nothing's more attractive than a happy, self-confident person. So toss away the bitterness and the self-doubt, and focus on being the best, most happy guy you can. Just do that, and women (or men, if you prefer) will come flocking.
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Migsy: Mr.david im already blind,will u marry me?lets go haha
Yes of course my love! As long as I can get a green card to Taiwan. Oh, and 20 bucks. You know, for the airfare. I can't wait, my love!
Purple monkey dishwasher,
D.
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tomcatwarne: Certainly not a psychopath, still got the scars from the last one.
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Mr.david u have to sign on pre nuptial agreement before u get my rainbow card(credit card)haha
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Migsy: Mr.david u have to sign on pre nuptial agreement before u get my rainbow card(credit card)haha
My darling,
Please have your attorney forward it to mine posthaste. I'll sign it tout de suite. I can't wait for our marriage bed!
With all due legal reservations,
D.
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Mr.david invite ur gf to be our maid of honor and my bf to be our best man,and meet our death very soon when they read this thread hahahaha
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Japtas: Curious
mean like dandruff ???
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Migsy: Mr.david invite ur gf to be our maid of honor and my bf to be our best man,and meet our death very soon when they read this thread hahahaha
Umm, ok, yeah, that could prove awkward. Perhaps we'd better postpone the wedding for, say, 97 years?
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Maybe 100 jurassic years will do mr.david haha
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galrads: piscesLady7... a lot of people are very shallow
I tend not to swim in the shallow end of the Aussie gene pool
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Migsy: Tom u have chinese traumatic disorder lol
Yrh too many disordered chinese
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I would love to say "Yes" to this question, but I suppose it depends on what it is.
My last serious relationship, I thought he was the "One". The first few months were nothing short of the stuff that novels are written about. And then from one day to the next, he changed radically. He would withdraw from me physically and emotionally for a week or two at a time. It was confusing, took a hit on my self-esteem, and it was madness trying to make sense out of something that didn't make sense.
After a week or two, he'd be "Himself" again and everything is rosy again, until he would drop out on me again. This cycle lasted for several months, our relationship deteroriated, I was in such pain and it got to the point that when he was Himself again, it was just too painful to brush it all under the rug.
He was on meds for depression, but I've known enough people with bi-polar disorder to believe this is what was going on. I loved him and it took quite some time, and a whole lot of courage, to go on a date after that.
My last serious relationship, I thought he was the "One". The first few months were nothing short of the stuff that novels are written about. And then from one day to the next, he changed radically. He would withdraw from me physically and emotionally for a week or two at a time. It was confusing, took a hit on my self-esteem, and it was madness trying to make sense out of something that didn't make sense.
After a week or two, he'd be "Himself" again and everything is rosy again, until he would drop out on me again. This cycle lasted for several months, our relationship deteroriated, I was in such pain and it got to the point that when he was Himself again, it was just too painful to brush it all under the rug.
He was on meds for depression, but I've known enough people with bi-polar disorder to believe this is what was going on. I loved him and it took quite some time, and a whole lot of courage, to go on a date after that.
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