Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step? ( Archived) (32)

Jan 10, 2014 11:56 AM CSTWhy is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede
GabrieltheSwedeGabrieltheSwedeVäxjö, Kronoberg, Sweden1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts

Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?(Vote Below)

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Yes
27
64%
No
15
36%
Total Votes
42
I interested in english, and need to practise.
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Jan 10, 2014 12:26 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: I interested in english, and need to practise.


Hey Gabriel wave cswelcome

The man should impress the lady as being strong, confident and let her know he's interested.

First lesson is free. Small charge for further lessons professor
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Jan 10, 2014 12:43 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
DaytonaDude: Hey Gabriel

The man should impress the lady as being strong, confident and let her know he's interested.

First lesson is free. Small charge for further lessons
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really? help
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Jan 10, 2014 12:46 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
galrads: ..

really?


Fake it till you make it gal comfort

laugh cheers
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Jan 10, 2014 1:03 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
DaytonaDude: Fake it till you make it gal


hotay handshake beer
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Jan 10, 2014 1:29 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede: I interested in english, and need to practise.
.....well sitting in the cats litter....doesent help your chances......snooty rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Jan 10, 2014 3:10 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
truheart1941: .....well sitting in the cats litter....doesent help your chances......



Oh... don't be putting your self down True... just coz you don't care to sit in a box... grin wave

actually, sitting in a box.. shows how flexi he is...

good on him... applause
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Jan 10, 2014 3:18 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: I interested in english, and need to practise.



Hi GabrieltheSwede
wave
Guys don't have to take the first step...
I don't believe so... or I would not believe in equality..

I don't mind taking the first step...

but like everything in life.. when you approach a person, whether it is by mail or meeting... you need to be aware..

Firstly considering that you are entering into an invisible boundary... and respecting that there is a boundary
and secondly, recognising that some people are different, and maybe don't care to share too much of their lives..
so its all around not asking what may or not be delicate
and then of course,

its summing all the information that you have gathered and knowing how to proceed..

as for English... good on you for wanting to improve.

applause
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Jan 10, 2014 3:50 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather: Oh... don't be putting your self down True... just coz you don't care to sit in a box...

actually, sitting in a box.. shows how flexi he is...

good on him...
.....hi Merri.....yes I supposed it does have its good points..........confused confused rolling on the floor laughing grin grin
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Jan 10, 2014 3:59 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Then take the second one.laugh laugh laugh
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Jan 10, 2014 4:02 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede
GabrieltheSwedeGabrieltheSwedeVäxjö, Kronoberg Sweden1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
Thanks for replies)))) You know the traveling bag is very important to show that true love knows no boundaries. Well, if your cats like to go to your traveling bags to do their stuff, it is not my problem D
Thanks for confirmations on what I know already. But women want to be equal to men, so in that context, it should be the opposite as much, but it is not..
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Jan 10, 2014 4:05 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede
GabrieltheSwedeGabrieltheSwedeVäxjö, Kronoberg Sweden1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
By the way, for those that don't get it, the poll is à joke, so have fun D
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Jan 10, 2014 4:24 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Oh...

What do you mean ...

This poll is a joke..

sigh sigh

I thought it was going to be an interesting conversation.. uh oh

I typed up a measure of good howdy doody points there... confused

Oh silly me... moping
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Jan 10, 2014 4:35 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather: Oh...

What do you mean ...

This poll is a joke..



I thought it was going to be an interesting conversation..

I typed up a measure of good howdy doody points there...

Oh silly me...
..never mind Merri.......comfort comfort comfort it seems humour is not his strong point.........grin laugh bouquet
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Jan 10, 2014 5:37 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede
GabrieltheSwedeGabrieltheSwedeVäxjö, Kronoberg Sweden1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
Humour is NOT limited to your understanding of it.
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Jan 10, 2014 6:04 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: Humour is NOT limited to your understanding of it.



are you telling someone off here.?? Jeez.. sigh
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Jan 10, 2014 6:08 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Mauss
MaussMaussKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 196 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: Humour is NOT limited to your understanding of it.

and you're the fun guy in the family ?
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Jan 10, 2014 7:34 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
shell1964
shell1964shell1964Marion county, Florida USA7 Threads 1,184 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: By the way, for those that don't get it, the poll is à joke, so have fun D

laugh you mean you dont need to practice english after all..dunno
cheers
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Jan 10, 2014 8:40 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
I don't believe for a moment that the guy has to take the first step conversing

Many guys have said that they are more than happy for a woman to approach them and make the first move.

Doesn't mean they will accept of course, but that works both ways doesn't it and why should guys have to make all the effort wine
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Jan 10, 2014 8:47 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: Humour is NOT limited to your understanding of it.


rolling on the floor laughing Funny poll(oops, just wet myself)
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Jan 10, 2014 8:50 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
pedalguy59: Funny poll(oops, just wet myself)



Lol, I suspect that he means for people not to analyse his poll too deeply, then dissect, examine and critique peoples' replies.

As many are wont to do wink
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Jan 11, 2014 1:33 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Bspoken4
Bspoken4Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step? By the way, for those that don't get it, the poll is à joke, so have fun


Fun it is then....professor

The guy has to lead the dance...2 x steps right, step forward, pause < go .."Cha cha cha!"
Chorus....danceline
Boom, chicka boom, don't you just love it
Chicka boom boom yea!
doh
OMW!
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Jan 11, 2014 11:27 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
GabrieltheSwede
GabrieltheSwedeGabrieltheSwedeVäxjö, Kronoberg Sweden1 Threads 1 Polls 6 Posts
I am on a forever path of learning, my mind will never close down so all replies are most welcome. Critique all you want.. Thank you ;) for comments!
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Jan 11, 2014 11:39 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
GabrieltheSwede: I am on a forever path of learning, my mind will never close down so all replies are most welcome. Critique all you want.. Thank you ;) for comments!
Many times it is not the man who has taken the first step, even if they think they have. wink
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Jan 11, 2014 11:47 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
I liked ur viewhug
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Jan 11, 2014 10:42 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
If you want something, take it.. Or wait forever for it to fall into your lap (this applies to men and women)wine
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Jan 12, 2014 12:16 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Bspoken4: Fun it is then....

The guy has to lead the dance...2 x steps right, step forward, pause < go .."Cha cha cha!"
Chorus....
Boom, chicka boom, don't you just love it
Chicka boom boom yea!

OMW!


don't forget for Cha.. start your step forward on a '"2"

Beat one is for change of weight... grin
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Jan 12, 2014 12:18 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Many times it is not the man who has taken the first step, even if they think they have.


Oh bless you Lucky... wave

don't give away our secrets... laugh
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Jan 12, 2014 12:26 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
DaytonaDude: Fake it till you make it gal


funny DD hahagrin
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Jan 12, 2014 10:58 AM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
I prefer to approach her. Not because I have to, but because I know that a soliciting woman will always be at least 1.5 points below me, which is a lot on a scale of 1 to 10.
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Jan 12, 2014 9:25 PM CST Why is it that it is the guy that has to take the first step?
kynative
kynativekynativeCasa Grande, Arizona USA1 Posts
Traditionally men are expected to make the first move.....Personally, I think it is because men are able to accept being rejected better than women....and aren't apt to commit suicide when a woman says "get lost jerk".....Men just say....your loss lady....then say "next".....lol
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Created: Jan 2014
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