Brianebartlett: I think that's what it was designed for...just singles to find other singles hence "Connecting Singles" Not for people who just want to gab.
There should be sites for people who just want to chat...why interfere with people who are actually trying to find an honest relationship?
.........and how does that interfere with your Ability to find someone? Sour Grapes?
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
This thread is a bit timely, for me. We have, here on the Oregon Coast, a singles club. This question has come up many times. Are we a "Singles Club", or aren't we? Currently, the "rule" is that if and when one of our members gets married, they may come, singly, or with their partner, until the end of that given year, but then must resign. The issue of non-married, but having a "significant-other" has also come up. If you are "with" someone, are you not then, no longer "single"? (So far, we are apparently considering people who are matched up but not married still single). Personally, I say if you are with someone (y'all know what I mean, lets please not quibble...) then you are no longer single. JMO
btw--I believe the same thing should apply here, but it won't, and we all know it, so why have any kerfuffle about it?
Brianebartlett: I think that's what it was designed for...just singles to find other singles hence "Connecting Singles" Not for people who just want to gab.
There should be sites for people who just want to chat...why interfere with people who are actually trying to find an honest relationship?
Why does having people on the site that actually say that they are not looking for someone interfere with you looking for a partner?
So do they send you so many emails that single women can't get through to you?
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
I have to agree with you and its being argued many times on here and I expect nasty and other remarks to my post but it should be for single peeps only and maybe CS could set up sister site for all the long timers on here that are not single or are not looking, just my opinion.
colin53: I have to agree with you and its being argued many times on here and I expect nasty and other remarks to my post but it should be for single peeps only and maybe CS could set up sister site for all the long timers on here that are not single or are not looking, just my opinion.
I think it should be for singles only, long timers or otherwise
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