serena123: Firstly.. We are not breaking ANY CS rules by stating in our profile that we are "in a relationship" as the site Gives us that option! And secondly.. How the h.ll do we (people who are not looking) hinder YOU in any way from finding a mate?? Free site, free choice.. I for one like logging onto the forums now and again, also the poetry section, and I stay for that .. Because I Can! ... Thank you
Well said!
Many have given up finding someone here and are only here for the forums or other reasons. Many don't believe in long-distance relationship - just another reason for not finding someone.
abcWOMAN: Well said! Many have given up finding someone here and are only here for the forums or other reasons. Many don't believe in long-distance relationship - just another reason for not finding someone.
anyone can use this site as long as you abide by the rules im single but my girlfriends not does that count
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
At the end of the day, does it really matter? Although the name of the site is Connecting Singles, the options are available to anyone when setting up a profile. The search tools are intended to help you filter out who you want to find. When I first joined the site, I was put off by it the same way you are now and learned to accept it for what it is...less stressful that way. Twisted knickers truly do hurt after awhile.
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
i don't really see how folks who have met their partner on here and remain here in contact with friends made along the way hinders your ability to meet someone...
Well, i see. Mauss does his (german) name pride by showing the size of his brain which seems to be the size of a mouse indeed. ;)
We can start a little private session of how adventurous you think I am or maybe you can show how adventurous you are.
I think I can beat you on that part. Ofcourse maybe you have a bigger imagination than i have. Its nice to know that at least you can tell me I'm not looking.
You mean you found a partner for me and didn't tell me?? Thanks mate, bring her over. I'm not going to debate about our profiles, for I have no intention however to watch yours, but. I hope you enjoyed reading mine.
And its not that the ones not single have no right to stay here, I just wonder why they do? Whats in it for them, the forums?? And like I said, the pond is already very full, cleaning out the fish that do not want to be caught helps the fishers saving the bait.
Wat is je probleem schat? Is de zwembad te klein voor je kleine lichaam of wat? Kan je niet een vriendinnetje vinden want ik of andere mensen zijn hier alleen voor spelletjes spellen? En met dat bedoel gewoon niks seksueel. Ik wens je veel geluk om een goede vrouw/man te vinden. Doei
Hello_Kittykat: Wat is je probleem schat? Is de zwembad te klein voor je kleine lichaam of wat? Kan je niet een vriendinnetje vinden want ik of andere mensen zijn hier alleen voor spelletjes spellen? En met dat bedoel gewoon niks seksueel. Ik wens je veel geluk om een goede vrouw/man te vinden. Doei
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
Rogerzoekt: I see sooooo many comments of people that are not single(anymore) and or not looking. What the H..... are you still doing here?
It polutes the pool in which we singles want to fish.
Why stay on the train after you've reached your destination??
To "help" us with your "experiences"??
Sorry for polluting the pool, but I believe there are far more scammers than people not seeking a partner on this site. Just an observation I've made.
This is one of many forums I post on, and I often meet up with members on each of them for social nights out. I see them all as methods to expand my network of friends and have managed to pair one of my friends with a member I met on here. They're both extremely happy together.
ekselfOnehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa261 posts
I understand this man's frustration. If you are seriously looking you spend a lot of time browsing profiles. If lots of them are in relationships then most of your time is wasted. If they don't state on their profile that they are in a relationship then you waste even more time contacting them just to find out they are already taken or not here to find a partner.
Maybe they can show available on the profile where you can see it without opening the profile so you know not to open the ones without available on it.
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
ekself: I understand this man's frustration. If you are seriously looking you spend a lot of time browsing profiles. If lots of them are in relationships then most of your time is wasted. If they don't state on their profile that they are in a relationship then you waste even more time contacting them just to find out they are already taken or not here to find a partner.
Maybe they can show available on the profile where you can see it without opening the profile so you know not to open the ones without available on it.
There is that option already. It's called the search function. It's nice and easily placed next to the Mail at the top of the screen
If people can't use that, then it beggars belief how they managed to sign up.
truheart1941: go to the window. open it. and have a *ank........
is that your answer to everything mate?
Anyway, what this I hear about you and your blowup friend splitting up? I was told she was leaving you because you wouldn't take her out, or was that wouldn't clean her out .... not sure now!!
Anyway, what this I hear about you and your blowup friend splitting up? I was told she was leaving you because you wouldn't take her out, or was that wouldn't clean her out .... not sure now!!
......no nothing like that. I just could,nt afford the comdoms........5 pkt a week........
serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa2,821 posts
Rogerzoekt: Well, i see. Mauss does his (german) name pride by showing the size of his brain which seems to be the size of a mouse indeed. ;)
We can start a little private session of how adventurous you think I am or maybe you can show how adventurous you are.
I think I can beat you on that part. Ofcourse maybe you have a bigger imagination than i have. Its nice to know that at least you can tell me I'm not looking.
You mean you found a partner for me and didn't tell me?? Thanks mate, bring her over. I'm not going to debate about our profiles, for I have no intention however to watch yours, but. I hope you enjoyed reading mine.
And its not that the ones not single have no right to stay here, I just wonder why they do? Whats in it for them, the forums?? And like I said, the pond is already very full, cleaning out the fish that do not want to be caught helps the fishers saving the bait.
What's in it for us? .. Well I found my soulmate on CS ( in amoungst all the pollution) :) so I love the site, also, debating on the forums beats watching T.V.. So I enjoy it. As for finding someone for you? Well, can't do that, go to the gallery, look at the thousands of photos, message, and just be your charming self
serena123: What's in it for us? .. Well I found my soulmate on CS ( in amoungst all the pollution) :) so I love the site, also, debating on the forums beats watching T.V.. So I enjoy it. As for finding someone for you? Well, can't do that, go to the gallery, look at the thousands of photos, message, and just be your charming self
Yeah that sounds like a plan.
:).
Cheers.
(And well done to you. Is he real or just an internetpicture with some written lines?). I mean its a real life friend now?? Just curious.
2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK2,621 posts
Rogerzoekt: I did not indeed.
Got to have a look at that. :)
Still, i think there's better things to do than posting on dating sites if you're not wanting to date, but hey, thats just my opinion.
Everyone needs a hobby I guess.
Happy to help. Hopefully, you'll find someone special using all the filters. Just makes it easier for you to only search for what YOU'RE looking for, rather than every female in the area, only to find out that half are smokers, not looking or just something you're not interested in for whatever reason.
I post on here as well as other forums or sorting out the admin side of sites I moderate on, and on another monitor, I'm doing some work related stuff or playing a game. Until my partner comes home, then it's shut down the PC's and enjoy the time together.
I ran down the street, knickers around my ankles and threw myself on you last week, and you said ' Whoa there! Mind my hip..I don't want to break it and end up in the orthopaedic hospital!'
I think you must be mistaking me for truheart? He's a few posts up from here
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