jbibiza: I don´t know why the nonsense that goes on sometimes is called playing games... usually in a game there is a winner, all I see are losers when people aren´t honest about who they are and what they´re looking for.
Could someone please explain to me what you get out of stringing someone along that you aren´t interested in or pretending to be something that you´re not in order to attract someone?
Maybe I´m naive... but I just don´t get it.
It's kind of a having your cake and eating it too situation, JB. The "player" wants some entertainment but he or she doesn't want commitment (or perhaps even to care about his or her gamee).
What kind of games? Monopoly, Scrabble or Foosball I have met quite a few guys who were good at playing these types of games. What is up with these type of questions? This is not a gender related thing but a personality type of question.
So in general as a whole I would say that no men are not playing games with us women. Are there game players out there who are men of course and there are some online.
I picked because , we don't trust women, has nothing to do with past relationships that I've had either, it is because I pay attention to the world around me... obviously not all women are liars, but most I've known are, but most men I know are liars also... so that's MO...
Men will play as long as u let them. Younger women need to know how to tell a guy to take a hike and appreciate them. If you don`t have LOVE in YOUR hEART, how can u love another. Dump the Players!
Works both ways. Hurt me once,shame on me. Hurt me twice, goodbye. I've been on my own for 15 mos. I have met too many ladies who like to play games.However I know all ladies aren't bad.Way I consider it,win some, loose some. Just gotta be patient and cull. Just my HO.
LilyGirl24u: Men will play as long as u let them. Younger women need to know how to tell a guy to take a hike and appreciate them. If you don`t have LOVE in YOUR hEART, how can u love another. Dump the Players!
LilyGirl24u: Men will play as long as u let them. Younger women need to know how to tell a guy to take a hike and appreciate them. If you don`t have LOVE in YOUR hEART, how can u love another. Dump the Players!
True. I had to learn how to tell the player that his games were not acceptable and that we had been dow that road too many times.
kidgloves: Do you feel that guys are just playing games with us women?
JMO...yeah, I do believe some are here just to "play games"...yet I also believe there are just as many here that are honestly looking for a mate... Unfortunately, I've had the misfortune of getting somewhat involved with a couple of guys that were here just for the games... I try to think of those experiences as lessons learned...
soulmateTWS: JMO...yeah, I do believe some are here just to "play games"...yet I also believe there are just as many here that are honestly looking for a mate... Unfortunately, I've had the misfortune of getting somewhat involved with a couple of guys that were here just for the games... I try to think of those experiences as lessons learned...
Many are simply NOT available.. They say they are but..
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