If your bf likes you to develop your sexuality, and your bf wants you to have FWB,coz he believes you are sexually dead,does he have a point for that advice of having sex with other men? Even though you already explained the situation. (This case of a virtual couple,between Australian guy and Asian lady)
Any man who suggests that his girlfriend needs to explore her sexuality with another man is not necessarily wrong. It's only wrong when said girlfriend is not happy and questions the idea. It is a perversion of a classic relationship, and if you feel his suggestion destroys the feeling of caring and exclusivity normally associated with a committed couple relationship, then it's time to find a diplomatic way to tell him to f*ck off and go and swing somewhere else.
there are a few reasons he might be saying this to you, maybe his is cheating already and wants to relieve his guilt. he is trying to lower your self esteem. If he cannot awaken the passion within you he needs to look within himself.
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »