Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women? (63)

May 18, 2019 9:33 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
yes, why notyawn
May 18, 2019 12:34 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
I would be afraid of anyone who is blaming someone else, it means they have not looked into themselves and made any changes.
May 18, 2019 12:40 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
marlindap: I would be afraid of anyone who is blaming someone else, it means they have not looked into themselves and made any changes.
hmmm Do you really believe that? Or, how do you know the person blaming didn't reflect inward before placing the blame elsewhere. wave
May 18, 2019 1:17 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
M4_Mischief: No but give me 3 good reasons why women would want a marriage and relationship?...it seems to me im at the most peaceful time in my life.....so its gonna have to be better than that to make me wanna change it and im single.....
I cannot imagine giving up my wonderful solitary life for a "maybe". I believe that both men and women are taking a closer and more academic look at just what a relationship is and the requirements. For a long time now I've tried diligently to be optimistic and have a nature that finds the good, rather than the bad. However, putting energy and care into another, especially if living together, is just too much. It's just not worth it. People are just too damn much trouble. It doesn't mean that I can't or don't "love" and want to be loved, I just am not into the traditional chores and expectations of the "tender trap". (A trap is a trap, there's usually no good of it). JMO
May 18, 2019 2:30 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Women are screwy these days.. Hope they come down to earth eventually..
May 18, 2019 9:18 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
UVcheetah
UVcheetahUVcheetahTampa, Florida USA1 Threads 34 Posts
ya I dun wanna date or mary i just wanna make womun pile
gotta sav up lotta money to buy lotsa womun and make my dream womun pile



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May 19, 2019 4:14 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
rohaan: I cannot imagine giving up my wonderful solitary life for a "maybe". I believe that both men and women are taking a closer and more academic look at just what a relationship is and the requirements. For a long time now I've tried diligently to be optimistic and have a nature that finds the good, rather than the bad. However, putting energy and care into another, especially if living together, is just too much. It's just not worth it. People are just too damn much trouble. It doesn't mean that I can't or don't "love" and want to be loved, I just am not into the traditional chores and expectations of the "tender trap". (A trap is a trap, there's usually no good of it). JMO
I agree.....people are a lot of work...cats not so much.....wave wink laugh
May 19, 2019 5:18 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing
May 19, 2019 5:30 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Harbal: You are just a guy with a chip on his shoulder because women aren't interested in you. At least be honest about your motives.

detective troll

troll pointing
May 19, 2019 5:40 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
Good of you to boost my image, Lee. Women like Bad Boys. grin
May 19, 2019 5:50 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Harbal: Good of you to boost my image, Lee. Women like Bad Boys.
Trolling. white knighting, simping, manginas like you...are not bad boys, but they are very weak, repetitive and desperate for validation from any woman...hardly a way to impress any womendoh grin
May 19, 2019 6:04 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
To be honest I have been ignoring the trolls attempts 99% of the time...to bait me into a confrontation, but this has been going on for many, many months and hairball has gone out of his/hers way to cause trouble...I can happily co exist with members, who don't like me and have done for a very long time...if you don't like the truths I speak and can't ever debate...

with your views on the subject matter...rather than me, then I suggest you keep away from my threads, cause I keep away from yours and only went on your recent blog, cause you have not learnt your lesson and it seems you never willdoh

I think you have OCD and it's not health to obsess over a person, that you will never know and a person, that wants noting at all to do with you
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May 19, 2019 6:18 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: To be honest I have been ignoring the trolls attempts 99% of the time...to bait me into a confrontation, but this has been going on for many, many months and hairball has gone out of his/hers way to cause trouble...I can happily co exist with members, who don't like me and have done for a very long time...if you don't like the truths I speak and can't ever debate...

with your views on the subject matter...rather than me, then I suggest you keep away from my threads, cause I keep away from yours and only went on your recent blog, cause you have not learnt your lesson and it seems you never will

I think you have OCD and it's not health to obsess over a person, that you will never know and a person, that wants noting at all to do with you
What a devastating attack on me, Lee, I don't know how I will recover from it. You have certainly put me in my place, for sure. It is no fun being on the wrong end of your lacerating wit; lucky for me you are only using half of it.
May 19, 2019 6:19 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
It's time to get back to this very important subject matter and get to the real truth, cause a some men see it, but others still need a wake up callidea yay
May 19, 2019 6:30 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: It's time to get back to this very important subject matter and get to the real truth,
In that case I refer you back to comment #42
May 19, 2019 6:38 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Harbal: In that case I refer you back to comment #42

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May 19, 2019 6:41 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
comment #42 pointing
May 20, 2019 1:31 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Thundering_Wings
Thundering_WingsThundering_WingsChehalis, Washington USA10 Posts
LeeCharming: But you also know, that a lot of women will rub their hands, at the power they have over most laws and relish the idea of men suffering
I have seen several of your posts Mr. Lee, and it raises a question in my mind.
What happened, if I may ask that is, that causes you to be so caustic, cynical, and defamatory on the subject of women?

Obviously, you are not required to satisfy my curiosity, as I am just a passing stranger in this online community. But there must be something.dunno
May 20, 2019 2:34 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Thundering_Wings: It is true in some respects that the genders are unequal, but only as far as some capabilities go. There are several things they must or may endure physically that we will never have any understanding of. Physiologically speaking, it really depends on your sample study. As for how each are treated, that shortcoming can be blamed on society as a whole, not one side or the other.
Women can physically train and out perform men. And vice versa. The same can be applied to the development of intellect, and the collection of knowledge. There are the mentally, physically, or socially inept on both sides.

Not that equality is the issue here. I merely thought to do my part as a decent human to attempt to help another, obviously hurting, human.
It would seem, as per your selection of derogation, that perhaps you could use a hand too.
Men and women are different in any way....and the more people try to equalise them the more they are pushed apart...
May 20, 2019 2:46 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Thundering_Wings
Thundering_WingsThundering_WingsChehalis, Washington USA10 Posts
pKrema: Men and women are different in any way....and the more people try to equalise them the more they are pushed apart...
Yes, they are inherently different, but one is not better than the other.
Do you mean to tell me that they are not equally deserving of respect?
Of compassion?
Of dignity?
May 20, 2019 3:24 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Giampa
GiampaGiampaTreviso, Veneto Italy1 Threads 13 Posts
Being strict to the subject i voted no.
We will continue to look for a partner becasue we need each other, its the essence of life. Maybe also some primordial instict? Did I wrote it right? Primordial does it have a meaning in Eglish? :)
May 20, 2019 10:19 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
I guess in life we choose what to see and how we see it, no wonder I spend most of my time listening to music in languages I do not understand :) The secret is not to let the world and what you see around you make you bitter. Many experiences have happened to all of us.
May 20, 2019 11:07 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Of course they have. Just some experiences cut deeper than others, and few care enough to notice.
May 20, 2019 11:42 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
M4_Mischief: I agree.....people are a lot of work...cats not so much.....
Hi there lovie--hope you are having a great Spring--thanx for the response, too. teddybear
May 20, 2019 12:50 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: a few years back I found mgtow channels and the more I watched them...the more I began to see female nature and the very evil side of women
I saw a documentary recently about a controversial theory claiming that women are actually people. Call me gullible, but I found it very convincing.
May 20, 2019 2:39 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
The beauty of the whole situation is, nobody is forcing any man to date or marry any woman tip hat
May 20, 2019 2:41 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
rohaan: You are SO right. Do you know how many men out there worked extremely hard and found themselves with no house, a broken down car, and a compromised income, all because of what you just said? It is a terrible reflection on the legal system in America. Men are open-season. It sucks.
Curious, Does all this lopsidedness apply for gay men too when they divorce?

dunno
May 20, 2019 2:42 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Harbal: I saw a documentary recently about a controversial theory claiming that women are actually people. Call me gullible, but I found it very convincing.
That thats sooooo romantic ! laugh

Hey Harbal wave
May 21, 2019 1:05 AM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
rohaan: Hi there lovie--hope you are having a great Spring--thanx for the response, too.
actually it would be better if we were actually having a spring and not still cold and no sun mode but other than that...im having a great time...hope your spring is actually a spring and your enjoying it too....wave
May 21, 2019 12:44 PM CST Do you think, that men are avoiding dating/relationships and marriages with women?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
galrads: Curious, Does all this lopsidedness apply for gay men too when they divorce?
I don't know--it doesn't seem like there is much in the news about that sort of thing. I suppose the law would somehow apply--guess we'll have to wait and see. handshake
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