What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too (27)
1 , 3 and 5 
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Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.
Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
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deedee123xo: Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.
Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
hi Dee Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
Irish women don't act like that , how do u ?
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I like men who have the aura of stability and strength around them. Men who feel good in their own skin and neither boast about their life nor diminish their achievements. Men who know who they are, where they are and have a balanced perspective of the world. Calm, stable, patient men.
One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
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Astranea: I like men who have the aura of stability and strength around them. Men who feel good in their own skin and neither boast about their life nor diminish their achievements. Men who know who they are, where they are and have a balanced perspective of the world. Calm, stable, patient men.
One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
u have so long list , let me see your profile One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
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ali110: u have so long list , let me see your profile
That's not a list. It's just a particular character I find attractive. 
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Astranea: That's not a list. It's just a particular character I find attractive.
j am 100% that guy 
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Number 5 definitely 
And a man that’s a good commutator,
If you have these everything else can be worked on
And a man that’s a good commutator,
If you have these everything else can be worked on
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Your results are amazing since "Emotional intelligence" is a nonsense phrase.
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TTKSpectre: Your results are amazing since "Emotional intelligence" is a nonsense phrase.
e·mo·tion·al in·tel·li·gence
noun
the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.
Psychology today
Emotional intelligence is generally said to include at least three skills: emotional awareness, or the ability to identify and name one’s own emotions; the ability to harness those emotions and apply them to tasks like thinking and problem solving; and the ability to manage emotions, which includes both regulating one’s own emotions when necessary and helping others to do the same.
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deedee123xo: Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.
Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
Could compatibility be key instead of chemistry. I think so. I am a couch potato a lot right now but mostly because of covid. I get up once in a while though to take a photo of the moon over Dublin, Ohio. Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.
Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.
I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...
Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
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ali110: j am 100% that guy
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(4) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
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maneuver1: (4) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
Your seem to have a taste for compatibility over chemistry (5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
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(1) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
Desire is the root cause of our sufferings
Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.
Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...
Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folks
Desire is the root cause of our sufferings
Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.
Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...
Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folks
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If she gives me a chubby on first sight, thats a good sign
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(3) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(4) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(4) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
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online today!robplum: (1) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
Desire is the root cause of our sufferings
Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.
Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...
Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folks
Desire is the root cause of our sufferings
Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.
Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...
Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folks
I voted for spiritual also. So you are the other one! ------ This poll is Archived ------
online today!Dedovix: If she gives me a chubby on first sight, thats a good sign
Well that made me laugh I don't think I have heard the word chubby used like that in decades ------ This poll is Archived ------
Happygolucky4u: I voted for spiritual also. So you are the other one!
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None of the. Five you have written.......because i.m better. Then. Them....
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Nobody is "just one thing or another" ... personality and character is made of many layers and is the sum of all its parts ... and that's what I find attractive ... "the whole" of all the parts of someone
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Selenite: Nobody is "just one thing or another" ... personality and character is made of many layers and is the sum of all its parts ... and that's what I find attractive ... "the whole" of all the parts of someone
I am a fan of some layers too. 
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Physical. If I’m not attracted to them physically in the first place then I probably won’t care whatever they have to say about anything else or will put them in the friend zone.
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Coldheaven: Physical. If I’m not attracted to them physically in the first place then I probably won’t care whatever they have to say about anything else or will put them in the friend zone.
So that’s why I get put in the friend zone. I am ugly as sin. I am so ugly My mother gave me a pet name. She wouldn't call me by galrads after i turned 12, instead she call me bruto------ This poll is Archived ------
Physical attracts. But, we all will get old. So there has to be tons more to keep. My dad was old/er when I was born. Mom asked me once if I felt cheated because he was and couldn't play with me like a young father could have. I told her no. He played. But , more important, he supported and taught me. He knew who he was, where he had been and what life was about. I needed a father, not a playmate. Nor a young man who was trying to find his way in the world and who HE was.
The oft used word is, real. A man who is strong enough to lead, and strong enough to allow her to lead too.
Masculine, but able to understand crying at a major loss.
My husband was handsome to me. Even when old. He was balding when I met him, had a large broken nose. Trim but not muscular. He wore a beard and never saw him without, but suspect he had no chin under it. But, in my eyes, he had a look that made him attractive to me. Dad always said love and potatos are two of a kind. Both have eyes and both are blind.
A person is a package deal. If only one thing is what counts, it won't last.
The oft used word is, real. A man who is strong enough to lead, and strong enough to allow her to lead too.
Masculine, but able to understand crying at a major loss.
My husband was handsome to me. Even when old. He was balding when I met him, had a large broken nose. Trim but not muscular. He wore a beard and never saw him without, but suspect he had no chin under it. But, in my eyes, he had a look that made him attractive to me. Dad always said love and potatos are two of a kind. Both have eyes and both are blind.
A person is a package deal. If only one thing is what counts, it won't last.
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All excluding financial wealth.
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What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too(Vote Below)