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What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too (32)

Nov 25, 2020 4:14 PM CSTWhat aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too

What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too(Vote Below)

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Physical (Looks) — person is hot
18%
7 Votes
Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
3%
1 Votes
Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
23%
9 Votes
Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
23%
9 Votes
Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
33%
13 Votes
39 Total Votes
or the most important of the five?

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Nov 25, 2020 4:21 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Has to be number 5 for me.. I'm a sucker for compassion and good traits..wave
Nov 25, 2020 4:25 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
1 , 3 and 5 thumbs up
Nov 25, 2020 4:27 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.

Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.

Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.

I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...

Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
Nov 25, 2020 4:30 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
deedee123xo: Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.

Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.

Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.

I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...

Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
hi Dee wave
Irish women don't act like that , how do u ? grin laugh
Nov 25, 2020 4:39 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Astranea
AstraneaAstraneaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland218 Posts
I like men who have the aura of stability and strength around them. Men who feel good in their own skin and neither boast about their life nor diminish their achievements. Men who know who they are, where they are and have a balanced perspective of the world. Calm, stable, patient men.

One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
Nov 25, 2020 4:40 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Astranea: I like men who have the aura of stability and strength around them. Men who feel good in their own skin and neither boast about their life nor diminish their achievements. Men who know who they are, where they are and have a balanced perspective of the world. Calm, stable, patient men.

One can meet such men everywhere - any education, any job, any physical appearance...
u have so long list , let me see your profile laugh
Nov 25, 2020 4:46 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Astranea
AstraneaAstraneaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland218 Posts
ali110: u have so long list , let me see your profile
That's not a list. It's just a particular character I find attractive. smile
Nov 25, 2020 4:50 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Astranea: That's not a list. It's just a particular character I find attractive.
j am 100% that guy uh oh laugh
Nov 25, 2020 5:11 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Butterflygirl1online today!
Butterflygirl1online today!Butterflygirl1Dublin, Ireland736 Posts
Number 5 definitely smitten

And a man that’s a good commutator,

If you have these everything else can be worked on
Nov 25, 2020 5:19 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
TTKSpectre
TTKSpectreTTKSpectreSt.Louis, Missouri USA1 Threads 180 Posts
Your results are amazing since "Emotional intelligence" is a nonsense phrase.
Nov 25, 2020 6:00 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
TTKSpectre: Your results are amazing since "Emotional intelligence" is a nonsense phrase.
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e·mo·tion·al in·tel·li·gence
noun
the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.

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Psychology today

Emotional intelligence is generally said to include at least three skills: emotional awareness, or the ability to identify and name one’s own emotions; the ability to harness those emotions and apply them to tasks like thinking and problem solving; and the ability to manage emotions, which includes both regulating one’s own emotions when necessary and helping others to do the same.

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Nov 25, 2020 6:04 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
deedee123xo: Emotional stability would be the biggest thing.

Financial doesnt bother me unless they are a couch potato...I like driven people who go for what they want...plus I make good money I dont need charity.

Physically it's important for them to like themselves physically as it is for me to find them attractive.

I like for us to agree on the important aspects that glue a relationship together but would also like him to be able to stand his ground on anything else that we may not see eye to eye on...we may just learn from each other...

Support and encouragement are a big deal....and I detest a relationship where there is jealousy for the other doing well in life or has achieved something they worked for....its an ugly trait.
Could compatibility be key instead of chemistry. I think so. I am a couch potato a lot right now but mostly because of covid. I get up once in a while though to take a photo of the moon over Dublin, Ohio. laugh teddybear
Nov 25, 2020 7:13 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
ali110: j am 100% that guy
Spoken like a true gentlemen Ali. laugh
Nov 25, 2020 10:28 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
(4) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
Nov 25, 2020 11:11 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
maneuver1: (4) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think
(3) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
Your seem to have a taste for compatibility over chemistry handshake thumbs up
Nov 26, 2020 12:24 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
(1) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level

Desire is the root cause of our sufferings

Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.

Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...doh

Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folkswave
Nov 26, 2020 2:29 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
If she gives me a chubby on first sight, thats a good sign
Nov 26, 2020 4:20 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Chambella
ChambellaChambellaCanberra (ACT) & Batemans Bay, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 705 Posts
(3) Physical (Looks) — person is hot
(5) Financial and Life — achievements, education, wealth etc
(1) Someone’s Mental abilities — the way they think head banger thumbs up
(4) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level
(2) Emotional intelligence — compassionate, supportive, good traits
Nov 26, 2020 4:39 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA27 Threads 3 Polls 7,624 Posts
robplum: (1) Spiritual — connect with someone’s values on a very deep level

Desire is the root cause of our sufferings

Without a qualified guide it is said we cannot follow Buddha's path.
Also of course as I'm a slow learner I've foolishly kept trying to find happiness outside of self for most of this life.

Soon i will die, pass into the Bardo (in between state) little doubt enjoy yet another suffering rebirth likely driven by past causes, the fly's swatted, fish caught, evilness etc etc, gravy train of non virtuous activities...

Many years of listening to Dharma teachings explained by qualified teachers in the Mahayana path leaves no regret some how I connected with His Holiness teachings in past travels and I reckon the "very deep level" covers what I've been most attracted to, so i ticked it.
I'm quite convinced our true nature is moving energy, therefore it follows really worthwhile sown lots of connection teachers in future time.
HH Dalai Lama still takes teachings from a number of his teachers he has been receiving teachings from over a number of incarnations.
each to there own, lots of luck folks
laugh I voted for spiritual also. So you are the other one! wave
Nov 26, 2020 4:41 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA27 Threads 3 Polls 7,624 Posts
Dedovix: If she gives me a chubby on first sight, thats a good sign
Well that made me laugh laugh I don't think I have heard the word chubby used like that in decades laugh
Nov 26, 2020 10:06 AM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
I think, for me, it's the mental stability.
If I don't like how a person thinks, I'm probably not going to like the whole package.
Serial rapists and killers have shown a great outer package but their thought process is f*cked.

And I've never heard of the word "chubby" used in that way. Makes me think short and fat......
Nov 26, 2020 1:41 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Happygolucky4u: I voted for spiritual also. So you are the other one!
I amwave
Nov 26, 2020 3:07 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
None of the. Five you have written.......because i.m better. Then. Them....grin grin grin wave wave wave
Nov 26, 2020 3:12 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Nobody is "just one thing or another" ... personality and character is made of many layers and is the sum of all its parts ... and that's what I find attractive ... "the whole" of all the parts of someone smitten
Nov 26, 2020 3:27 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Selenite: Nobody is "just one thing or another" ... personality and character is made of many layers and is the sum of all its parts ... and that's what I find attractive ... "the whole" of all the parts of someone
I am a fan of some layers too.

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Nov 26, 2020 3:33 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
galrads: I am a fan of some layers too.
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Best ice-cream I ate in my whole life ... in Switzerland in the Valle de Aosta on the Italian border... in a little "tea room" place ... layer upon layer of different types of chocolate ice-cream, different colours, different textures, different levels of sweetness and bitterness, all melt in your mouth home made quality ... o*gasm!!!! daydream
Nov 27, 2020 6:41 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Physical. If I’m not attracted to them physically in the first place then I probably won’t care whatever they have to say about anything else or will put them in the friend zone.wine
Nov 27, 2020 7:00 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Coldheaven: Physical. If I’m not attracted to them physically in the first place then I probably won’t care whatever they have to say about anything else or will put them in the friend zone.
So that’s why I get put in the friend zone. I am ugly as sin. I am so ugly My mother gave me a pet name. She wouldn't call me by galrads after i turned 12, instead she call me bruto
Nov 27, 2020 7:07 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
galrads: So that’s why I get put in the friend zone. I am ugly as sin. I am so ugly My mother gave me a pet name. She wouldn't call me by galrads after i turned 12, instead she call me bruto
I’ve been on a few forums over the years and people always post how they would go for emotions first and all that bla bla. It’s all bullshit. Everyone goes for looks first. Anyone who says they don’t is a fecking liar.wine
Nov 27, 2020 7:28 PM CST What aspect of another person out of these Five (5) are you usually most attracted too
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain55 Threads 3 Polls 6,889 Posts
galrads: So that’s why I get put in the friend zone. I am ugly as sin. I am so ugly My mother gave me a pet name. She wouldn't call me by galrads after i turned 12, instead she call me bruto
And it gets even worse for you....you can't hug or kiss granny this Christmas so no sex for you either
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