People voted for it so, the only thing to blame is those who put others in power to control the money flow.
The other option is change standards of living. Trade house condo or apt to live in a cardboard box in the woods, give up the vehicle and peddle a bike and panhandle from others in parking lots. Get off the grid so to speak. Sell flowers and tell everyone that rainbows are cool and spend your money on sex changes.
d4nI314: I don't do online dating. I'm an old fashioned gal who believes in meeting the right person, when you're in the right place, at the right time.
I believe in synchronicities and they have always worked for me, and also when two people with a frequency match are meant to meet, it will happen.
If memory serves me there was once a person of interest you had for a considerable time who once was in frequency with you. However, it could have been a power overload and shorted out his tuning circuits.
Hence, it's important to watch the impedance and wattage as the current can shift or fry the circuits
Overall, the flow of universe is never wrong only the choices of the heart and mind can ruin relationships.
If you regret opinions on your blogs you have two choices delete those who don't align with your beliefs or don't post blogs. Then you have your freedom.
To be honest you can't blame the site for providing a place for people to meet. It's each individual's responsibility to find a compatible mate. If nobody is willing to connect to others should we blame the administration of the site?
There is over 10 million people here who have one thing maybe two things in common. A. They have noble intentions to find a partner B Nobody puts much effort in finding anyone.
So, who is to blame? A handful of people who designed the website or 10 million people who basically can't get along with one another?
Maybe people need to set their expectations low enough and they might break even. Overall there is a considerable problem of the ratio of people here especially among the middle age to older folks here. As each year passes nobody is getting any younger here chasing after a piece of tail. The older everyone gets the less attractive they get and the few success stories of those finding a mate is slim to none.
Yet, they are only the success stories that people are willing to reveal publicly. We don't know the stories of those who say nothing or don't get involved with the blog community.
It still boils down its everyone's individual responsibility to get involved with anyone here or not.
Well Grand your best bet is to keep your engineering know how up to date rather than trying to figure out the motives of women. The question is do we want 2 lanes or 4?
One idea to prevent pregnancy and resolve the Roe V Wade issue is hang around CS forever as the assumption that 90% of the population here are not getting laid anyhow.
Success means many things to many different people. Success is when a plan is made and it works. Success may be passing a test or getting a career you want.
Having Success comes with responsibility in maintaining it.
Success in a relationship with people is having a good relationship of self first.
Success for some could be actually meeting a love interest here up close and maybe personal.
How we measure Success varies. To say where we overcame a bad habit or a sickness
Just because we see wealthy folks like Elon Musk or everybody's favorite DJT or famous actors and actresses who are worth millions to billions even trillion it won't buy them a moment extra if they are dying with cancer or Covid or some other disease.
Success to me is having the love of your life stand beside you through every trial and good moments in your life.
40 years having nothing but failure with that it's hard to believe in any remote success.
You can't buy respect you must earn it. You can't love either. You can't buy success you have to work it.
It may have taken Thomas Edison 100 failures before the one successful light bulb was invented.
It may take 100 slaps in the face until that 101th girl says yes.
Time and circumstance will determine how this ruling will play out. We watch and wait to see what happens. We have 350 million people crammed in the US and India and China have a billion each. The US can barely support the existing population it has then they want to import 30 million more illegals. Imagine these 30 million adding another 15 million kids to the population. So, let's do the math 350 + 30 + 15 = 395 million idiots and the real issue none of illegals really like Biden or the democrats. So, before the end of Biden's term we will have 45 to 50 million more boneheads probably just collecting more welfare doing drugs shooting up the towns raping more women and food and fuel shortage and no social welfare programs because there is no money for it.
Have any of the CS gun lawmakers ever considered that those who want a gun that a complete psychiatric review should be given first to determine if potential gun owners are mentally and emotionally fit to handle a gun then find a justification why they need or want a gun.
Guns by themselves do not kill its the idiot pulling the trigger.
When boys and girls join the military to handle military toys some are subjected to psychological tests to discern they can be responsible enough with the equipment they are responsible for. A classic example are fighter pilots.
Fighter pilots are given a $100,000,000 fighter jet fully loaded and the risk is who may snap and want to defect and betray their country.
Didn't we have a U.S. soldier who defected to the Taiban when they were in power?
Most of the school shootings are most probably caused by mentally ill kids or needed counseling.
The problem is most behaviors go unchecked and kids are often bullied and criticized because they may not fit in with the crowd.
Kids often comceal their hatred and pain from criticism and it is often carried around all a person's life. They lose their self esteem and often fall into depression. Many will use drugs and alcohol or do petty crime until they move up to killing one another with stolen or untraceable guns.
So, maybe what is needed is periodic psychological tests to determine those who get a permit to carry just like they have in some states periodic driver tests for cars.
If proven your behavior is not up to a standard set by top gun psychiatrists and or psychologists no license no gun.
If people on CS had to take a psychological test to determine if they are fit to have a relationship I think many would be taken off this site and forever banned.
Will all the Connecting Singles PhD psychology and Parapsychology majors please report to the faculty meeting poolside by the promenade deck to discuss further of what to with all the NPD folks of Connecting Singles?
Healing therapy and counseling will be provided for no additional fees. Hopefully, those in the study of such should have everyone whipped into shape in no time.
The only notes I write are musical ones, Ninu. I've written songs about you. You are my muse.
Really? How beautiful of you. There was a girl I think you know all too well that was once my muse with poetry. I wonder what became of her these days?
Perhaps she is sitting by a distant sea pondering songs of eternal ethereal ideas rather blissfully?
Or you pushed them away.....Nah Ninu, I don't buy that talk to hand I think alot of people use that line as an excuse for giving up and not trying hard enough to hold onto and keep someone they care for or love.
Witchy often times love is blind and those who love us the most are generally hardest on us the most. They see within us what we don't see in ourselves. And if you believe in God or whatever always consider the universe never gives us what we want but, it does gives us what we need.
We may wonder or question our love interests why they come into our lives and the love lesson and experience we are to have. IMO it's the only way for whoever created us and our understanding of self as many are our mirrors.
Often times we don't want to see that reflection and we push them away. If we keep getting the same mirrors then it's suggesting we must change our ways.
Always consider that all relationships long distance or just around the corner have served us for our personal growth. As many who are looking for another chance or those who take pride they stopped looking, one thing to consider this site with all its noble intentions to bring people together who would not meet under ordinary local geographic circumstances or areas. It has brought some people together and it has broken people apart.
Overall, my experiences on this site in spite of the contradictions of people here who claim they want a friend but, do not want to go out of their way for one I met only one who knows me better than myself and she is quite popular here.
She is quite unique and as much as sometimes I may deny or dispute her wisdom often times the old idea comes to mind "Don't shoot the messenger"
Aside from the misfits that probably make up 80% of the population here, it's the 20% that make it all worthwhile.
Overall, it's best to set expectations low enough to avoid disappointment. In anyone's lifetime if you meet the "one" you will mostly only recognize that "one" after they have left you. Or you pushed them away.
We can certainly use some of that intelligence right now on earth before we destroy ourselves. Leaving our fate in the hands of fruitcakes like Putin and Biden and their cronies may be our demise. The lame excuse parapsychology uses that ETs can't intervene and show us a better way why then did they show the Mayans Aztecs and Incas a better way to live?
I recommend Zecharia Sitchin earth chronicles Lost Realms if anyone is interested to learn more about the Mayan and Aztec cultures. His thesis explains a deeper who Pacal is. Overall,yes Pacal appears he is in a spaceship to the underworld or upper to the stars. Much of the Mayan and Aztec culture were influenced by the Annunaki who they suggest were ancient astronauts who helped build and align the pyramids in Central and South America and in the Middle East.
The Nasca lines are clear examples of a modern day airport.
Maybe pics of men with a numerical plaque across their chest and a left and right profile side with the same plaque would entice the girls here? Oh, I must be thinking of the booking dept from the local arrest records. Though the quality women from the same booking dept leaves much to be desired.
If I had half of your motivation 30 years ago I would have probably been a retired business owner. Part of being motivated to do anything you have to believe in it strong enough to make it happen. Maybe your success will motivate others here to do more with their lives than posting useless political and failed relationship blogs.
It may be hard for some and often nobody wakes up each day to say what can they do to make their life harder than they already have it. No, we cry to make our lives better. Yet, it's not so much our circumstances that hurt us the most but how we react to them. We often define our own truth as we understand life and our environment. Why some people are successful as others are failures in life. Successful people tend to shape and control their thoughts and focus on goals. They are not afraid to fail. Losers fail because they fear the responsibility of success.
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RE: Cost Of Living
People voted for it so, the only thing to blame is those who put others in power to control the money flow.The other option is change standards of living. Trade house condo or apt to live in a cardboard box in the woods, give up the vehicle and peddle a bike and panhandle from others in parking lots. Get off the grid so to speak. Sell flowers and tell everyone that rainbows are cool and spend your money on sex changes.