If You Love someone.... Is letting Her/Him Free your last option?

How true is the quote, "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."?dunno

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That sounds amazing, and I believe that if someone is meant for you even when they go away they will still come back. Therefore setting someone free gives the both of you time to fully figure out what is important in your lives.wine teddybear
Depends on the individual. I'm sure Josef Fritzel disagrees with this statement.
I love this quote.
And I also believe in this philosophy.

Hello Isa wave
Actually, the original Quote from "Indecent Proposal" was
"If you want something very badly, set it free..."

Meaning that this can be applied to anything in life.
@teddy
He'll never have the chance to agree with it anyway. He deserved that life imprisonment
without parole
very mad conversing


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Hola Dan
Thank you. I loved iyt as well. handshake cheers
i hope it would be the first option. i gave my freedom up once, i wouldn't do it again.
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ysabeljhenOP?Flying Fish Cove, Christmas Island
18 hrs ago?112 Blogs?1,651 Comments

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That sounds amazing, and I believe that if someone is meant for you even when they go away they will still come back. Therefore setting someone free gives the both of you time to fully figure out what is important in your lives.:win: teddybear

Sounds about right but in saying that what would I know laugh

teddybear
Ysa,

Sheesh! Then my Ex's must've really loved me, because lots of them kicked me The Heck Out The Door and set me free. doh
Johnny,

in difficult times, I recommend Heavy Drinking. drinking

cheers
Hey you laugh
Aw robrt try to install a lock that nobody knows except you for sure you'll never be kicked off anymore laugh wine wave
Ysa,

If I put a lock on the door, my Ex's will add three more locks on the door to keep me locked away in there.

One of them even told me, "I don't care a "Flying Fish" about you."

Maybe she was from Flying Fish Cove, wherever that is. dunno
Then there's no wait out meaning that's your
" the one"laugh
I tried that Robrt but it doesn't help
scold cheers
Hey Robert...I agree with Ysa on that...it don't work. Not that I have ever tried it...but you wake up the next day, not only with the same problem you tried to drink away...but now with a hangover. laugh

You guys might be on to something with the multiple door locks. laugh
Hey jono I agree with you
I had it the first time
I learned and been smarter before it does wine thanks for sharing cheers
Hello dear Merc
Everytime I have topic like this kind I knew you'll always support me and thank you for that. @ times we can relate on some situations like it. You're the best there is hug
Johnny you know robrt his imagination is remarkable laugh I just don't know how he's doing it cheers peace
Hello dear Merc

Everytime I have topic like this kind I knew you'll always support me and thank you for that. @ times we can relate on some situations like it. You're the best there is hug

I love the way you think when it comes to relationships or just men in general..Your so wonderful & very thoughtful & thank you hug
I always heard it as

If you love someone set them free, if they come back their yours if not,
hunt them down and kill them

wasn't so funny once I typed it
Sounds like a Ginger woman came up with that - See my comment above roll eyes

cowboy
I think this apply to
early in the buildup. Stop the chase and see if "it" float away for good or not.
I have one IRL and last time I heard from her was Dec 13th. Her answer to my request
to soon meet so we could turn those sms hugs into real live hugs she said:
"yea it should be possible to make happen one day..."
Over a month ago now, let's see....
I have made sure I did not say a word through xmas and new year...
And it has basically been like this for a year.
That 'romance' going nowhere was the reason I signed up here.

Conclusion: you can do that Ysa but be ready they might be gone.
If you really love someone, you'd get them one of those electric dog collars where they get a shock if they leave a certain area.

teddybear
I didn't want one anyway
Yes Ma'am You have got it except one little addition. Some men will shy away from a woman at the first sign of loss of freedom. Example you say you love me and then wait for me to say I love you too. Not freedom and if you just waited til I feel a special moment, and I said I really love you and come back and say thank you for that or nothing at all. I would not mind either way because it was my moment and I just wanted to make you feel special. Freedom is lack of fear. Easy to say but it takes practice. Try it and what you said is exactly right. Love, but don't fall in love. Be strong.
Faye
You made me laugh laugh I can be as cruel as you are if I have unfinished business with itlaugh
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Watching the one you love leaving is the hardest thing to do. It feels like giving away a part of your heart and causes immense pain. But true love does not seek to control and always includes the best interests of the other person. So eventually you will do itwine wave
mmmm. Is that your way? dunno wave
Civil
You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you because you want him or her to give it. Real loves moves freely in both directions.
If the man is not happy I won't ask him to stay
and that will keep me maybedunno stay single..... But wait you were surprise one day after years of being busy and you bumped each other on the mall laugh well making it up to you and the story behind is magical smitten
Civil just saying, thanks for your input handshake wine
laugh correct my spelling I'm a bit sleepy laugh teddybear
laugh

I trust you my lovely lady laugh hug
Any suggestion you have in my mind
A good badge for strong woman like youcheers teddybear
Thanks ysa, well said I have thought about her best too ofcourse
and for now that is to be free from me. The timing is not right.

Moving on.
There's other more suitable fishes in the pond for me.
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Thanks Grand your most welcomewine
That is always my motto in life
Take your time
And Goodluck wave
sabeljhenOP?Flying Fish Cove, Christmas Island
28 mins ago?113 Blogs?1,663 Comments

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Mercedes_00: I trust you my lovely lady
Any suggestion you have in my mind
A good badge for strong woman like youcheers

I'm full of many cheeky ideas..I will have to get back to you on this my lovely laugh hug
Others interpret it this way ::wine:

... If you really do love them, you put them over and above yourself, meaning that if they are happier somewhere or with something else, then it's important for you not to make it hard for them to do so.handshake

Then comes
The
"Love is sweeter the second time around..." dunno confused teddybear
Respected Yas angel
Its True to the extent when you love someone heart beating
You set him free and he don't love you he will never come to you. doh
When love is from both sides than its difficult to leave eachother in my opinion. love
bouquet teddybear
Hi there Tim nice howdy it's been awhikewave
That's is so true and both should make an effort to preserve that foundation cheers teddybear
Respected Yas angel
Thanks thumbs up
(Hi there Tim nice howdy it's been awhike?
That's is so true and both should make an effort to preserve that foundation)
Hope for the best. hug
bouquet teddybear
Hi Ysabel wave

I agree with this. Because the truth is, we always come back to the ones where we felt most loved and love in return. But to be received back is a different story altogether.

My roommate and I were just talking about this at lunchtime. I asked her opinion about my ex coming back. She's got wisdom, so I share to her. And she just told me the same thing. She said, it's difficult usually to let go the ones you truly love, but if it really was love between you, then he will come back. just have to trust that. However, maybe I'm just too stubborn, I asked, If it really was love, then why did we have to let go in the first place? dunno
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