If You Love someone.... Is letting Her/Him Free your last option?
How true is the quote, "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were."?
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I agree with this. Because the truth is, we always come back to the ones where we felt most loved and love in return. But to be received back is a different story altogether.
My roommate and I were just talking about this at lunchtime. I asked her opinion about my ex coming back. She's got wisdom, so I share to her. And she just told me the same thing. She said, it's difficult usually to let go the ones you truly love, but if it really was love between you, then he will come back. just have to trust that. However, maybe I'm just too stubborn, I asked, If it really was love, then why did we have to let go in the first place?
Goodluck!!!!
Maybe he did not love you fully, but as said before you will find out right?
If I was to put my money on it 'Ill put it on: not gonna be good enough.
Hope I'm wrong and good luck in finding out.
Often times people forget that trust has to be earned,and Not Given!,to earn trust it takes time and hard work on both sides...
Often times people are actually half way honest.
Often times honest only when convenient for them...
I do not have much wisdom,but i do know why i would let go a person if something just mentioned above Happens and i do not get a good explanation from that specific person i will for certain let her go.
On the other hand if it was a simple misunderstanding i will certainly offer my hand to go back on track...
not a wisdom wizard simply a realist...
Often times people forget that trust has to be earned,and Not Given!,to earn trust it takes time and hard work on both sides...
Often times people are actually half way honest.
Often times honest only when convenient for them...
I do not have much wisdom,but i do know why i would let go a person if something just mentioned above Happens and i do not get a good explanation from that specific person i will for certain let her go.
On the other hand if it was a simple misunderstanding i will certainly offer my hand to go back on track...
not a wisdom wizard simply a realist...
If a man let me go it would be because he felt the grass was greener else where..A man who is really into a me..Really committed to me will want to accept the hard yards because he knows my worth is worth it..Time goes by..He comes back to me..Is it because the grass wasn't so green on the other side after all?
I think men concentrate more on the rough patches they had where as woman put too much emphasis on the good times they had.
I think men find it easier to let go where as woman tend to hang onto the scenario of it would be sad if he be were to be in the arms of another.
I do know if I were to wish a man the very best. If were to wish a man genuine happiness for his journey forward it comes from the depths of my heart..
Letting go is being unselfish..Pain and hurt as well as disappointment comes with being unselfish
If a man let me go it would be because he felt the grass was greener else where..A man who is really into a me..Really committed to me will want to accept the hard yards because he knows my worth is worth it..Time goes by..He comes back to me..Is it because the grass wasn't so green on the other side after all?
I think men concentrate more on the rough patches they had where as woman put too much emphasis on the good times they had.
I think men find it easier to let go where as woman tend to hang onto the scenario of it would be sad if he be were to be in the arms of another.
I do know if I were to wish a man the very best. If were to wish a man genuine happiness for his journey forward it comes from the depths of my heart..
Letting go is being unselfish..Pain and hurt as well as disappointment comes with being unselfish
In the course of having been in that situation I came to realize that You allow them space- if they love you, they will return. If they don't. You are better off.
In the course of having been in that situation I came to realize that You allow them space- if they love you, they will return. If they don't. You are better off.
I definitely wouldn't sit around waiting for a man to come back
Come back for what?
To me if a man can't accept my flaws are just a very small fraction of my worth then I would rather he didn't come back..
If a man can't accept I can't be perfect because he want's perfection because those are his standards then those expectations of me would never happen
In the course of having been in that situation I came to realize that You allow them space- if they love you, they will return. If they don't. You are better off. :thumbs up:
I definitely wouldn't sit around waiting for a man to come back
Come back for what?
To me if a man can't accept my flaws are just a very small fraction of my worth then I would rather he didn't come back..
If a man can't accept I can't be perfect because he want's perfection because those are his standards then those expectations of me would never happen
A little song about letting go
A little song about letting go
the direction of the universe will lead you both.
I always salute for every decision you made
You are my epitome of myself in a way or another
You wanna go Ninuta would be fun take somebody from CS
the direction of the universe will lead you both.
A man couldn't make me more happy than I am now...A relationship isn't about being unhappy and in need of a man to make one happy..That's how I look at it.
i think relationships thrive when both come together from a place of being happy & content with their lives as they are before they meet.
I'm use to being single as that's just the way my life has panned out..Only once in my life did I ever think about meeting someone..I'm not into searching because that isn't me..I'm into getting out there enjoying life & what ever happens happens
So romantic!
Even though Oz is a good guy..
Most certainly hes not my type...
erhmm .. I mean.. ehh... as neighbors
....
How about you my love?
You wanna be my gf and live next to camper happily the rest of our lives?
I mean can you live with such a crazy dude next door? I think I can...possibly... lol
Say yes!
Jump for joy! hehe
erhmm .. I mean.. ehh... as neighbors
....
How about you my love?
You wanna be my gf and live next to camper happily the rest of our lives?
I mean can you live with such a crazy dude next door? I think I can...possibly... lol
Say yes!
Jump for joy! hehe
why next to me?
What have i done wrong?
I don't think I can live with him close by, even if he promises to be nice.
Maybe More...
Another lifetime...
Oh well Move On.. and keep going..
What is it u said?
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