Y'see.....before it became a FWB, I probably would've sat down with my partner and discussed the issues that were bothering me and at least he'd be aware of them.
I don't do the FB, FWB thingee. I think these arrangements can have a tendency to muck up people's heads and hearts if they haven't got a rock solid agreement......I like to have someone who is as into me as I am in him.....and we are an exclusive item. If we do have an issue, then it needs to be aired. At least give each other the opportunity to decide how to, perhaps, remedy the situation. If not, then they make a decision to move on.
A little less macho, but the rugby, racing, beer, stereotypical kiwi man is an image hard to shake....though I live in a rural district....a little more refined the closer one gets to the city.....the white collar boys up that way.
I went on the date merely out of curiosity than anything else and because he was so persistent. I've always believed, don't knock it, if you haven't tried it.....and it was just not for me.
I like a more mature man around my own age. It's always been that way.
I'm not saying it doesn't work for others, just not my preference.
I actually think Pedal would make a terrific partner/boyfriend.....as long as there were no other ladies(distractions) around for him to wander off with.....ADD springs to mind....
Being comfortable, mortgage free, a satisfying career, a partner who adores me.....and I, him.....and surrounded by my cherished children and loving family.
BerrySmoothie Forum Posts (4,733)
RE: what you listening to no.11
Hi DebsMe too!