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Dec 21, 2008

RE: Why do men run from a single parent?

It goes both ways, I think. I just got a first contact letter today from a Wonderful Gentleman, that Wanted to know if I would be ***** off bc he has children.

I personally canna imagine why any one would be ***** off. But then i have always wanted children. I would be honored to consider my mate's children mine, and have them consider me theirs. I know that would take much work. I have had friends children adopt me so I know it could work, with me.

I told him the same as I am going to tell you here, I think if I were in your shoes, and someone was upset that I had children, I would turn and RUN the other way, FAST.

I would then thank G-d I dogged that particular bullet.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: If a man's stool is a bright pink! What should I do?

Even naive, Me, understands that one

OPDec 21, 2008

Has any one heard from Pyaremohan?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whats happened to you in 2008.....

Financially/Job was the pits. Medically is better. Have met through CS a special guy will be meeting in person soon,

Things are looking up and I am hopeful on the financial aspect it has to turn around soon.

'Nuff said.

OPDec 21, 2008

Has any one heard from Pyaremohan?

Does anyone know what happened to Him?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: why are these people not "taken" or in a" relationship"?

Have gotten the same thing along with being told by even my Sisters that my Logic and Intelligence scares off guys and that I should "Hide" it.

When I asked how I was supposed to do that, given that I am an Engineering Student? It was recommended that I, change my major to a more traditional female choice in order to attract a "Desirable" Guy rather than a foreigner or a guy from a different Culture.

I told my Sister that I will stay as I am and take whom comes along regardless of where they come from. If she and my other Sibs have a problem, it is their problem not mine.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: If a man's stool is a bright pink! What should I do?

I Love Beets. LOL, They Do change the colour, very much so, it can be scary.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: What would you do if one day you came home unexpectedly and found your lover in bed with someone.

as I posted on the other thread, Your Reaction, about this:

Sommerauer71: I would wake him up, tell her to put the kettle on and we would all have a nice cup of tea..

sadegh1979: I'd rather pour the water in that kettle on his d**k.
Come on, you are so lenient!

Actually, this is not lenient. My Wise Father, Said the hardest punishment is the embarrassment from having to face the one that was betrayed.

I agree with Sommer, Pretzleman, Somechick and others in this thread. The non violent reactions are best.

And the issue WOULD have to be discussed, so as Sommer said, Make tea and discuss the issue then, as you look in their eyes.

I was taught if you Love someone very much, you want him/her to be happy.

I did let my Husband go bc I Loved him and wanted him to be happy. He did not want to remain married to me but go with her. So, I let him go after I had asked him, if he would not try and salvage the Love we had and he said no.

Why force someone to stay with you? That would only make both of you miserable-that is no way to be. Far better to demonstrate True Love and Love them enough to let them go in peace and love.

In further reference to some of your posts, I would rather have a man that is not considered a real man, like Pretzelman, by your country's standards than one that would do violence.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Would you go out with an englishmen with a bad haircut ?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: mans like more woman with blonde or black hair?

HjF Holly is a good friend of mine and I think she actually means Style. We can help those that need help in English better by asking, jmo. No offense meant My Sister, forgive me if I have offended.

Holly Long Red hair for me, if he doesn't like my hare when I spiral curl or cut, Tough Luck!

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Equal Rights

Wow, I never had this option. Poor girls don't know what they are missing. I have really never known anyone outside of my parents' generation that has known this.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Do you feel that guys are just playing games with us women?

Well said!

Dec 21, 2008

RE: I see this alot

Well, I walk alone then, gladly.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Your Reaction!

Sommerauer71: I would wake him up, tell her to put the kettle on and we would all have a nice cup of tea..

Actually, this is not lenient. My Wise Father, Said the hardest punishment is the embarrassment from having to face the one that was betrayed.

I agree with Sommer, Pretzleman, Somechick and others in this thread. The non violent reactions are best.

And the issue WOULD have to be discussed, so as Sommer said, Make tea and discuss the issue then, as you look in their eyes.

I was taught if you Love someone very much, you want him/her to be happy.

I did let my Husband go bc I Loved him and wanted him to be happy. He did not want to remain married to me but go with her. So, I let him go after I had asked him, if he would not try and salvage the Love we had and he said no.

Why force someone to stay with you? That would only make both of you miserable-that is no way to be. Far better to demonstrate True Love and Love them enough to let them go in peace and love.

In further reference to some of your posts, I would rather have a man that is not considered a real man, like Pretzelman, by your country's standards than one that would do violence.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Is love enough?

I feel the same, Dru.

OP, I did not vote, bc of how you structured it. If you had structured the men and the women the same, I would have voted. ie:

I'm a woman and Yes. Or I'm a loving and caring man and yes.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: The Ex Won,the Kids Lost,Where Do You Go From Here?

Actually, Rats can be. I used to clean the lab with this one Rat that was Calico coloured on my shoulder with her tail wrapped around my neck and she clung to my hair and chirp purred into my hearing aid.

We all called her Sue. A Professor noticed we all moved her around when her cage lot was up for being dissected and told us to draw lots to take her home bc we all wanted her.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: The Ex Won,the Kids Lost,Where Do You Go From Here?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: why are these people not "taken" or in a" relationship"?

Awww, Thanks, Cardsfan!

You are so sweet yourself, Some lucky girl will treasure you!

As I said in the other thread, I am promise/pre taken pending on how we get along in person after the last five months of email, and Im correspondence/ IP-Relay phone calls.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Change the default listing to "All Threads" in Forums

Dec 21, 2008

RE: why are these people not "taken" or in a" relationship"?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: If a man's stool is a bright pink! What should I do?

Judging by the previous responses, it seems this is a joke.

If it is not, Call your Doctor and get checked, blood in the intestines should not be messed with.

But, if you did eat something like beets, it could change your output's colour. So yes, do think about that possibility of something you ate, otherwise call your Doctor.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

This was in response to jvaski:Ok, I give up ......... WHY are "Taken" people still on this site ? Huh ?

It did not quote.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

Ohhhh, Cali, I'm so Sorry this happened to you, Sweetie.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

Agreed. My guy and I have also discussed this. He knows I will remain here if we take our relationship up to the next level bc I have friends here and want to help and give encouragement to those that are still looking.

As long as the Mod's haven't a problem with the Success Stories being present, then no one else should either.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

Bc we have much to offer you that are not taken in terms of friendship, encouragement and advice, both asked for and not asked for

Nahh, we just want to be . . . .

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

Awww, Cool! Worth the long wait wasn't it?

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

I am promise/pre taken.

We met here and have been corresponding for the last 5 months. We will be meeting once he returns Stateside, from his native country.

We are not saying who each is @ this time bc of some of the drama tendencies of others, but look for an announcement in the future, if we decide to continue with each other.

If we don't continue with each other, then, both of us will be back to the CS Drawing board.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: whos taken and who is not taken

Awesome!!!!! Congratulations I am so happy for you.

Dec 21, 2008

RE: Bad eyesight

Dec 20, 2008

RE: The Ex Won,the Kids Lost,Where Do You Go From Here?

Well said! Jonas, My heart goes out to you. My exfiance had a similar situation to you. My prayers are with you.

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