I find that difficult to believe Deb, not that I think you are telling porkies....it's just that you come across the forums as such a kind, caring and lovable person.
For some couples their private commitment of love and bond for each other is suffice, without the unnecessary burden of financial stresses for a public ceremony.
RE: tell me that u love me...
You so deserve a kind, loving man.It will happen Deb. Just keep being YOU.