mindfful Forum Posts (18,996)

RE: Beyond the Anonymous Thread

none of this is anonymous

its drivin me bonkers

RE: What's Your Favorite Cologne For A Man / Perfume For A Woman?

go to bed you

and polo? green? will you ever leave the 80s behind?

RE: your girlfriend/boyfriend

hello you sweetest of creatures

lookin foxy as always

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

eh

im tired

g'night CS

RE: your girlfriend/boyfriend

way to keep it simple


dig a deep hole

RE: your girlfriend/boyfriend

i wouldnt have a girlfriend or boyfriend or anyone that close in my life with a need to control my other relationships.

sometimes they seem to not be that way and then later are exposed

i am diplomatic but let me tell you
from experience

those friends and kids are still in my life today
whereas aforementioned gfs/bfs are long gone

the people in my life were just a handy excuse for them

i cannot think of a situation wherein i would issue any such ultimatum- your relationships arent all my business unless they affect me directly or my safety or the sanctity of my home

i know how to have boundaries or request them from you

no need for ultimatums

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

sane people

RE: Gossip bout the person above you

secretly prefers grapes

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

no kid really!!!

sure it may backfire at a later date but i shared my honest input about something personal and i wasnt rejected

apparently there are people who dont mind discussions who knew

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

there ARE sane people on CS


wow

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

i didnt understand but its ok

none of my business

i was just makin a joke because it wasnt anonymous i thot i could be funny


just an excuse to say hi

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

what does it mean? and its not anonymous

hello

RE: why R u in international site?

aw thanks

he's a pal

RE: why R u in international site?

does it show?

RE: why R u in international site?

top notch

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)

thanks scotty

really

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)

ploddin along scotty ploddin along

RE: how many of u really miss IM on CS..

i soooo understand


always appreciate a giggle from you

RE: who is going to want me now?

and then you did it to me


omy

and nanners if you mean me

oh nevermind i am not hijacking this most important thread any further

RE: On National Geographic right now

just heard on the news the levels at the plant and surrounding area in japan is now the same as chernobyl


how awful

RE: Say something nice...anything. :-)

not soon enuf

but for me this week thursday is the big day

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

im eating the best most delicious chocolate truffle


oops not even noon and im eatin my feelings

thanks CS

RE: who is going to want me now?

here

heres one you could have singled out


so strange the ones that call for positivity sometimes are the ones who are characteristically unkind



god forbid anyone share their actual thots and feelings for fear someone will ridicule them rather than have a conversation about things


youre a brave woman lilly

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

i cant stand a pic of a guy in a hat and sunglasses AND no smile

i mean what can you see/feel from that pic?

NOTHING



who does 80% of my mail come from??

RE: who is going to want me now?

music is life

you live in a dream world

i mean this gal is young and i hold all hope for her but not all guys want to be dads and many end up confused and then jealous of family dynamics that were pre-existing to their arrival

in my experience a man that has never had successful family relationships
if he doesnt realize that undertaking will have a learning curve- and somehow become willing to learn about compromise, acceptance and group dynamics

the whole business is dead in the water pretty quick

some people living a solitary life cannot mix with a family and be happy about it

RE: Leave an Anonymous Message...

woot woot

RE: Arguing for the sake of arguing.

this is what i always think about to see the positive side of it

RE: No contact

well harumph!

that wasnt very cynical at all

RE: No contact

ive seen women come in here from a bad manicure and people fall all over them with sympathy

yet here you cant muster even empathy

ive seen men come in having lost a job or a poker game or even someone be facing a medical test thats results unknown and depending who they are

they are treated with kindness



seriously people can be the most vicious animals

RE: No contact

ya know whats weird? or awful?
or a good thing because it is very telling?


the level of meanness and sarcasm in this thread

ya wonder if these same folks would talk this way to a personal friend or family member that was in this position and hurting?

if they would yuk
if they wouldnt but find it an easy way to be towards a stranger- yuk and yikes!

seriously i do not like ML- i think we are both ok in that

but she is feeling hurt as any of us would or at least a bit shocked and i cannot feel anything more than a buit of human and humane compassion



good to be reminded this is not a safe place and not to come in here with any pain lest one be ridicules
lest you are one of the golden ones