Something tells me that, at your age, you'd be much better off looking for someone out in the real world rather than being cooped up w/a computer monitor and hoping that she'll magically drop into your lap. There's a lot to be said for fresh air and walks in the park when you're young.
Having said that, I know that CS works - maybe not for everyone - but it does work. I know, because I met the love of my life here. Still, I can't help thinking that we met because it was time for us to meet and not because of a particular website.
You're young, you've got plenty of time... And she might be waiting for you in the park.
If you ever get a hankerin' to visit your neighbors (we're only 100 miles away!) then give us a holler and maybe we can meet up in Cherokee at the casino or somethin'. In the mean time, tell Eric we said "Howdy!" and enjoy each other as much as you can!
Thanks! I've been back off and on since late Monday, but the pain killers have got me so wierded out that I can't sleep more than a coupe of hours at a time (although I can sit and stare into space for what seems like days on end!)
A man is driving down the road and his car breaks down near a monastery. He goes to the monastery, knocks on the door, and says, "My car broke down. Do you think I could stay the night?"
The monks graciously accept him, feed him dinner, even fix his car. As the man tries to fall asleep, he hears a strange sound. A sound unlike anything he's ever heard before. The Sirens that nearly seduced Odysseus into crashing his ship comes to his mind. He doesn't sleep that night. He tosses and turns trying to figure out what could possibly be making such a seductive sound.
The next morning, he asks the monks what the sound was, but they say, "We can't tell you. You're not a monk." Distraught, the man is forced to leave.
Years later, after never being able to forget that sound, the man goes back to the monastery and pleads for the answer again.
The monks reply, "We can't tell you. You're not a monk." The man says, "If the only way I can find out what is making that beautiful sound is to become a monk, then please, make me a monk."
The monks reply, "You must travel the earth and tell us how many blades of grass there are and the exact number of grains of sand. When you find these answers, you will have become a monk."
The man sets about his task.
After years of searching he returns as a gray-haired old man and knocks on the door of the monastery. A monk answers. He is taken before a gathering of all the monks.
"In my quest to find what makes that beautiful sound, I traveled the earth and have found what you asked for: By design, the world is in a state of perpetual change. Only God knows what you ask. All a man can know is himself, and only then if he is honest and reflective and willing to strip away self deception."
The monks reply, "Congratulations. You have become a monk. We shall now show you the way to the mystery of the sacred sound."
The monks lead the man to a wooden door, where the head monk says, "The sound is beyond that door."
The monks give him the key, and he opens the door. Behind the wooden door is another door made of stone. The man is given the key to the stone door and he opens it, only to find a door made of ruby. And so it went that he needed keys to doors of emerald, pearl and diamond.
Finally, they come to a door made of solid gold. The sound has become very clear and definite. The monks say, "This is the last key to the last door."
The man is apprehensive to no end. His life's wish is behind that door!
With trembling hands, he unlocks the door, turns the knob, and slowly pushes the door open. Falling to his knees, he is utterly amazed to discover the source of that haunting and seductive sound......
But, of course, I can't tell you what it is because you're not a monk!
Stoned & zoned, but a little apprehensive - I'm not used to layin' around zonked on pain killers and not doin' anything.
Keep gettin' all these neat ideas for things to do in the shop/yard but I'm not supposed to lift more than 10 pounds 'til next week! Plus I can't seem to stay awake long enough to remember what I was gonna' do before I forgot and went back to sleep!
It just seems to me that one should lead/teach by example and the best example is where you lead yourself. Anyone can be a "leader" because there are always people who will follow blindly just because they are being led. But I think a good leader/teacher would always ask "Would 'I' follow/listen to me?" and even if I never again lead anyone but myself, I still want to know that I can trust where I'm going.
Thanks Druidess, I'll be sending my "nurse" out after some yogurt after while.
Gotta' admit that, mostly, I'm looking forward to being able to wash a pickled sausage down with a beer after a long day on the river without ending up doubled over the steering wheel in pain the next day. (A man's gotta' have his priorities straight! )
Kinda' sore and a bit dizzy(er), throat is really dry and sore, but I'm back to being vertical!
Thanks yet again to all my family and friends here on CS for all the prayers, healing thoughts and well wishes.
And a special thank you to God and CS for sending me the greatest, most special, tender, warm and loving woman a guy could ever hope to find! I love you, J, all ways, always! You are my dream come true and I owe you more than I could ever hope to re-pay! I love you, you make my heart smile!
Thanks, everyone! Gettin' closer - We're gonna' take off in about 30 minutes or so to head for surgery center and should be back home in about 5 or 6 hours.
It's gonna' be a breeze! But, damn the luck, I'm already missing my morning coffee!!!
Thanks again for all the well wishes! See ya' later!
RE: Arent you just sick of
Nope! What about the small things that they do for you everyday just to make your life better that you take for granted?