I am sorry to hear about you. I am agree If women are financial stable they have opportunity/confidence to get out of such situation. But it doesn't bother much for guys whether their wife/gf is bringing money home. here are some guys too who wants ugly, fat, old but rich Lady.
I think those don't do so they are not faithful to anybody and don't know the meaning of help. Now a days I see many people don't do much for their parent after marriage. now question comes why their behavior change after marriage May be due to wife/Husband.
RE: to the ladies.....Money or True love?
You can check by yourself because i dont know what interest your country banks give
Invest in land is very profitable here.