In childhood whatever money we had, we used to spend on candy and other stuffs and used to think when we will buy whole shop we earn lot of money in future. I don't think you brought a Candy shop
Men and Women both have a right to change their minds/decisions. "Life is the name changes" as in childhood we used to like candy, video games but Now we have no interest for these things.
But what kind of changes there should be in life its a big question. Changes should be that kind which don't affect others (Physically/Mentally/economically). Lets take some examples. 1) If I am student and i have some friends they are weak in some subjects and they asked me to help and i said yes i would teach them. If exam time i say no i cant teach them because i don't have time i have to study for exam too. I wanted but i couldn't ( Here i m affecting someone. According to Human right my decision is right but by Humanity i a wrong"Devil" because they could had find another one to teach them) 2)A girl and guy in a relationship for 2 years. girl know well guy is family oriented and he want to live with parents even after marriage they get married and after a week girl tell " no I cant handle it more we must move to another city" ( she has right to move another city but her decision affecting her husband/ BF). its bad too he could had find someone who could do that. he lost his 2 years and he need lot of time to find someone else with his divorced status and mental break down.
Yes I am agree with this statement and a lot of women use "A Woman has the right to change her mind." it's One of the most common excuses women use not to stick to their word. I mean, childish statement
If men change their mind they easily become unfaithful (which dont keep their promises) no matter what but if Women unable to keep their promises on same topic/condition they have many excuses and their all excuses are valid.
No Human ( Men/women) never born unfaithful, only conditions (physical/mental/economical) make them bad.
I am happy to know that some good people like you still in this world where its hard to find such qualities in human. Every human should think like you and this world again become heaven.
This poll was about " A good heart these days is hard to find? True or false. Is looks more important? etc"
I said yes its hard to find. Lets take your case you always was trying to save your relationship 5 times and more. He couldn't understand you are offering him which is rare only lucky one gets that and you didn't care much about his good heart because some other things came in relationship like family n other responsibilities and other things became priorities than heart therefor u has been forgiving him.
your good heart he didn't see and about his bad heart you didn't bothered and u forgave him again and again.
person with a good heart is every human first priority but sometimes we dont bother and we see other things by hoping that person will change for good.
Its alright we are discussing so you can ask. yes she is great lady now a days she do social work like donate money in orphanage and other social groups. she were never desperate. i told she is 50 yr old. too much time for 6 guys if you surrounded by cheaters. Last guy used her to get Visa. See what kind of guy he is. I feel shame about such man. I am not telling you to change your point of view. I just wanted to tell its not easy to get one good person who can keep his promise. Time has changed and so people have changed. We are living in fast and furious world where we dont get much time. I are experienced than me I hope you know better. This site contains both cheaters and those were cheated by others thus they are single and still looking in old age and if post something everybody give very nice and decent comments. If everywhere is nice people where are bad!!!...lolzz
I would like to tell you one story. I know a lady she is near 50 yr old. She is used by 6 guys. All played with her emotions and money. She has a golden heart she is my online friend. I know her for 10 years and her last two relationship were going pretty good in starting but you know cheaters always know how to impress. they used her and left her. I see everywhere break up/link up. what is happening now in this world. Divorce rate are increasing. everybody wants happy married life but why this is happening. If you ask someone " will you cheat" they will reply No. I am sure its not easy now to find a person with good heart. To know person well we need enough patience and time more than 3-4 dates. some good people change with time. ( because the rule" Life is the name of change"). Now a days people ( men and women) both know their rights but forget duties/obligations toward family and partner.
I know what r u saying but what we see around us . My aunty used to say "girl should be good looking and guy should have good career". looks factor doesn't apply much on men. it apply on women. Dont you think pretty girls get more attention than ugly one. their bfs suffer and do lot to make his gf happy or save relationship.
Please dont mind. I am curious to know its personal question and i must not ask that but I really interested to know. You profile says you are single this time. why is so if you care much about good heart. Did not you care in past about what u care now? please dont take it in another way just for knowledge
Yes good heart is far more important than looks but who cares now a days. people first watch someone if they find him/her attractive then they talk. if you dont find your man/woman attractive you will never go to have relationship with him/her but you offer friendship only after knowing him/her well ( he/she will have to pass few exams conducted by you )lolz. In relationship everybody wants to be satisfied because its a matter of lifetime.
It's not right to tell anything before knowing Why is he ignoring you? Yes we human get hurt if we face this situation. you must try to know why is he doing this before move on.. I hope this will help you in future
Making Family- is it good or bad? I think its for good i dont see any harm in having that except if i dont care about good/bad. family will support you and stop you if you are wrong. I dont think anybody else does that. ppl become like a free bird without this and they do what their mind says and mind dont tell right thing always it swings..lolz different ppl have diff thoughts about it.
You are right but not all r the same. you will find all variety as in guys here some still keep their cultural value some dont. In india divorce rate is low i thought a lot about this why its higher in western countries may be whole family choose a partner and if any problem happen between them they support and solve their problem. few cases of cheating but now everything is changing very fast. in metro cities married ppl r taking divorces and yes extramarital affairs is being common. old ppl say its a influence of western culture.
I am sharing what I feel. That doesn't matter as country and language etc. if you are nice, smart and fit for what person is looking for, They will have interest in you. If you doesn't fit for what person is looking for they wont have interest even if you are their neighbor.
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RE: Woman has a right to change her mind. ( NOT )
In childhood whatever money we had, we used to spend on candy and other stuffs and used to think when we will buy whole shop we earn lot of money in future.I don't think you brought a Candy shop