So she has the insecurities for 20 years (since her brothers death) - that is more than insecurities, that is a chronic disorder. She needs to have that diagnosed. I'm not the biggest fan of Psychiatrists or Psychologists but they have their purpose when it comes to diagnosis. Name it and tame it, as they say. Whether she needs medication or therapy is impossible to say without an assessment.
Of course a persons duty is to themselves in the first instance. You must consider if this situation is causing you damage and if it is you need to get out of it pronto. We are none of us our brother or sisters keeper and we can do no good at all if we let them drag us down with them.
Your feeling of attachment to her may be no more than codependence.
Hey Full Irish, have you ever thought of being a counsellor? Ha ha. You could work with suicide tendency people. You certainly wouldn't do any worse than the charlatans in that field right now. In fact the entire mental health 'industry' seems to be a racket to boost the egos, wallets and careers of those who want to appear pious and wise by 'helping those less fortunate (than themselves!)'.
I looked at that again and I was thinking it was O'Neill. Ted McKenna must have been booted at that stage. Brendan is lucky to have hair to be gray! Great drummer though.
Ta an gceart agat. Nil aon meachain ins an oideachais. An raibh to i nGael Scoil no an 'jailteacht' mar a tugtar ar ollscoil na ceise fada? Na bac leis na 'haters', nil go leoir acu abalta an bearla amhain a leabhairt.
Nice one the Hooper. Great line up there with Ted McKenna and Gerry McEvoy. That was a tight sound, I don't think he ever did better, especially as he start to booze really heavy about that time.
Ted was on BBC talking about Rory dying at 47 from the drink.
We used to go and see him in the National Stadium back in the 70's. Best three piece around them days. Remember 'Reform' from Limerick and 'Mamas boys' from Fermanagh? Ah those were the days, we had hair, motorbikes and our future ahead of us. We crashed the bikes, lost our hair and put the future behind us. C'est la vie!
You buy music? Wow! Why not just go to Pirate Bay and download it free? Not that I would condone illegal downloading or anything because I know how the mega billionaire music companies and Bono need the money!!!
You can even get the documents yourselves and fill them out, submit them to the court for stamping and it will cost you less that thirty euro.
I'm glad to hear someone priase the Free Legal Advice Centres. They normally have a lot of bad reports attending to their cases. You can only apply for free legal advice in respect of divorce if your assets are below a certain level. I think it is about a quarter of a million euro but you would have to check with them. If your assets are over that they will still represent you but will get you to sign a yellow form that allows them to deduct their total costs from any property recovered, i.e. your home or part therof. You may find yourself having to go to their office a lot as they mount up the bill.
If you cannot agree a settlement with your spouse and go the DIY route then you might want to look into 'Rate my Solicitor' before retaining the services of a lawyer.
Good luck with it anyway. It is always a painful time. Nobody gets married with divorce in mind: except the guy who married Liz Taylor or the woman who married Paul McCartney!
Every year in the town of Marino south of Rome a grape festival is held. As a focal point of the festival they get sparkling white wine to flow from the marble fountain in the town square. However in 2008, the pipes from the local vineyard were accidentally hooked up to the town's domestic water supply. When the mayor, parish priest and locals gathered around the fountain, they were disappointed as ordinary water poured out. Then a woman shouted from a balcony overlooking the square: "Miracolo!" Wine was flowing from her kitchen tap.
That is a photoshopped set of images from five years ago using the pier at Roundstone Co. Galway as the backdrop. It involves a 'gag' by 'the Munsters' who impressed images of Michael Long Recovery trucks onto the pies. Poor ole Michael Long has taken a lot of stick over these faked images
That is a photoshopped set of images from five years ago using the pier at Roundstone Co. Galway as the backdrop. It involves a 'gag' by 'the Munsters' who impressed images of Michael Long Recovery trucks onto the pies. Poor ole Michael Long has taken a lot of stick over these faked images.
Oh Crikey Graham I'm in puddles of tears here. Honestly this is worse than when Bambi died or when Nora Owen lost her seat. I need more tissues.... no not those ones, they hurt my skin... the double ply ones!
I'm so glad you shared your beautiful feelings with us. When I'm in one of my vulnerable places I like 'How deep is your love' by the Bee Gees. Here is a version you may like.
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RE: I am dating a lady with emotional issues.
So she has the insecurities for 20 years (since her brothers death) - that is more than insecurities, that is a chronic disorder. She needs to have that diagnosed. I'm not the biggest fan of Psychiatrists or Psychologists but they have their purpose when it comes to diagnosis. Name it and tame it, as they say. Whether she needs medication or therapy is impossible to say without an assessment.Of course a persons duty is to themselves in the first instance. You must consider if this situation is causing you damage and if it is you need to get out of it pronto. We are none of us our brother or sisters keeper and we can do no good at all if we let them drag us down with them.
Your feeling of attachment to her may be no more than codependence.
Hey Full Irish, have you ever thought of being a counsellor? Ha ha. You could work with suicide tendency people. You certainly wouldn't do any worse than the charlatans in that field right now. In fact the entire mental health 'industry' seems to be a racket to boost the egos, wallets and careers of those who want to appear pious and wise by 'helping those less fortunate (than themselves!)'.