With me, is it the "blond" thing, too naive, just too trusting or whatever, but please someone tell me; Why the hiding behind the real you? I say it again no one knows you on here. I just don't get the motive for the clowning around or beating around the bush. Just put your cards on the table, it may get you further in the long run.
I have found you to be often negative and cynical. You must have had many bad experiences to feel this way and I am sorry about that for you.
Everyone including You, has bagage or as I prefer a past. Does not mean we have to dwell on it. It all has made me whatever I am today! It is history and tomorrow is a mystery.
Those who are sincerely looking for someone to share the rest of their lives with like I am, why would I put up a false facade? When meeting, your found out anyway so I don't get the point.
Oh yes I have met Mr. Average who really was about 25 lb overweight. Or the picture was about ten years old. Or the ones, more than one, who "shrunk" upon meeting me. I find this sad really. You lost your chance with me for sure.
I rather stay alone the rest of my life then get with someone that is dishonest ect.
There is something that no matter how long I now am a Canadian, draws me back. After all that is where my cradle stood and I spent my youth.
I am grateful I have lived there when I did as because of TV and the computer, kids no longer play like we used too. Many other things have changed too and not all for the better. Still have two sisters living there. In Eelde. If they wished to see me they will have to come up hither now.
I am a good person you tell me, I should be allowed into heaven. Because I help other people etc. etc. This is a Christian thing to doit makes you a good person, not necesarely a Christian. You could sit in church every day that make you a churchgoer not a Christian perse. You could stand it the garage all day this won't turn you into a car.
I grew up in a home that was small. My kitchen today is larger. 6 children yeah two grown-ups. Your lucky if you had the button to sew back on. Now the hunt for the scicors was on and the needle and tread.
So when arriving in Canada one of the first things I got was a sewing box. The one rule at my home? Use whatever you want, just put it back where you found it. Not so difficult huh?
When I read in profiles; Love fleamarkets and garage sales. I am gone. I run! He is a pack-rat!
People often tell me your place is always so clean. Not necesarely so. I just don't have a lot of stuff to clutter up the place. I like things clean and organized. I am not fanatic about it as this is my home, I live here and it is not a museum.
Always treat friends well Cristina. That is incredible huh, the Boteringestraat runs the same way as the Ebbingestraat one over to the right, so it runs between the plantsoenen. See hi to the Martinitoren for me. Always so nice to see all the people having a good time sitting on the market square. Miss the markest too ohhhhhh
Sorry I am not trying to prove or convince anyone. I don't need to nor need to defend myself.
I believe I have become a pretty good judge of character over the years. Plus I am able to see my own faults and work on them. You know what "uncle" Phil says; You can't change what you won't adknowdledge" Yes I am an analyzer (how do you spell that lol)
Ha I got one friend anyway! Sorry I spelled your name wrong. Do you know the Tuinbouwstraat? Close to the Boteringe straat and Ebbingestraat, the plantsoenen? In the Tuinbouwstraat live many student.
Enjoy a salted herring for me ohhhhh how I miss them sooo!
I am on this forum to find my new love. May have done so already but we have not met yet, but will do so soon.
If this meeting turns out to be another frog, are you telling me to find a honest trustworthy person on here, is just not reality and I am wasting my time on here?
When I have met with people they do not have to get "used" to me. They recognize me from what I have portrayed about myself from the beginning. So some of you do believe in playing games or head games whatever. With me what you see/read is totally me. No surprise there.
Sorry to say this has not been so the other way around. Guy says he is 5/7 We meet he is 5/2 lol you thought I would not notice? Well I did not think you would care when you met me. I may not have guy just now wonder what else you lied about. Get my drift.
When I see how a persone reacts to some one else post. It gives me some insight into their character. This is not from one observation about this person but after several I draw my conclusions. I can tell the differents when things are send with tongue in cheek. Humerous or.........that is why it takes more than one post or answer to a post to see what I want/need to see.
Yes I have/am learning a lot just from reading on the forum here. Some very positive reactions others very negative. Like; now that I read this.........no way would I want that person to be in My life. Yes this forum is very informative, especially when looking for my next mate. Yes much better then a picture.
hollandgirl Forum Posts (4,464)
RE: God vs. Science
Telling you what I believe and why is one thing.Too open your eyes, is His job not mine.
Get my drift?