Hey gals thank you for your compliments yea I do believe it is all about attitude. My mom lived until 94 1/2 ha ha don't forget the half. I made up my mind to beat her so I say I have another 30 years left.
Yes I do have a few tips. Never let anyone who is negative and hateful influence you and allow them to drag you down to their level. Try to understand where they are coming from and forgive easely. Be true to yourselve. Always put your money where your mouth is. Things happened to you that were not always easy? Learn from it and move on. Smile a lot even when there there is not much too smile about. Yes in only a few weeks I will be 71 believe me I do not even feel even close to this, but unless my parents made a mistake in recording the day of my birth, there is no getting away from the fact that I am almost 71 years old. My picture is about two years old. You know I believe that is it a lot about attitude! And thid lady got plenty of attitude lol
I have had my share of hurts etc. etc. Yet when reading your post I am surprised that i am in the minority for wanting to find my next love. Yes by golly I have not yet given up and won't do so until the last nail has been put into my coffin. Most likely you will hear me shout; hey wait a minute ones more for the road lol I don't care how old I am my heart is young! I have met a few men who "lost" it against me. Age is just a number? Sometimes it is!
I sincerely hope so too. Life alone is not easy and anytime we can find love again I say grab it with both hands. Those of you who do have a loved one in your life don't waste time with petty arguments it is not worth it trust me.
You Got it woody and someday you will find the courage to do It again. Your wife would not like you to go about life alone now. You know how too love do not waste it.
From what I have read about you so far, you have a loving heart still, and I am sure someone will recognize this and you will find love again and be loved just you wait and see girl! Stay the way you are okay?
Girl I sure wish for you to someday soon, to find the one you can love and who will love you with all his heart. I also hope you have learned Not to meet the same kind of person again.
I believe I am very much aware of my short commings, if there is someone who feels to point out something I have overlooked, go ahead and tell me.
I have always taken critizm as positive. I will think about it and if I can see your point, I will thank you as then I am the beneficiary for now I can change. You can not change what you won't adknowledge. Or as my dad would have said; when you know your own wrongs your lucky, because now you can do something about it.
The only perfect one, has been nailed to the cross.
Between my first and second mariage I spent twenty years alone. my second mariage was the best. But this husband died at age 61 unexpectedly the worsed way, as there is no good bye and it leaves one with regret and guilt. Things left unsaid and left undone. He was mine for twenty one years and twenty days!
If your in a loving relationship remember you never know how long you have each other. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, so make today the best day of your life. Give your loved one a extra hug and love them all you have to give. I just wished that I could.
What blows my mind is to believe there is only life on this tiny planet.
IF, IF, there is life anywhere else it is very far away! So my question would be, why only life, people etc. on this planet? It surely makes me wonder.
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I am quite save to believe I am the oldest on this forum..........
Ha I can pull rank lol