Kitty you are soooo very fortunate that your children tell you that they wished you would tell them that you loved them. I am sure you do love them. Force yourself to say to them that you really do love them. You don't want them to pass this further on to their kids do you? So it is up to you to stop it and stop it now Kitty.
Start by leaving them a note where you tell them you love them. I guarantee you will be very happy and surprised at their reaction.
I was not brought up with hugs and kisses either nor do I ever recall it was said to me that anyone loved me.
My mother would let me know I was not her favorite and told me one time, "you irritate me" Yeah so I noticed mom! I found out later that I was not her first born but her second, she was forced by my dad, who would otherwise not have married her, to give that child up. So later I did understand but often by then the damage is done. I am grateful I did not pass things on but am very able to say how I feel. Please for your kids and your grandbabies tell them or write okay?
Need to have this translated Kitty. Thinking of joining the Mormons lol? You have seen from the guys who answered here that someone has their girl as they say it is Not them.
Now see x amount of men do not have one woman so maybe this changes the scale?
Kitty that is very sad as this is something, if and when you mean it, you should say to each other often! I believe it is not said often enough. Sure wished I could say it to my sweetheart today but he is now gone. Just because this boyfriend at 17 freaked out, does not mean others react this way. It is a new one to me anyway. No one else has ever said this to you in all the years past? Kitty, I love you! Now that was not sooo bad was it and it did feel good? Of course it did that is because it is supposed to feel good!
Remember that one guy, as we are talking mostly stuff. He kept all my pictures and films etc. Why? When I asked, he said; well what if I want to look at it? Duh! I just walked out and that was that! It was now his problem!
These really are the very best in MHOP. When you get there click on the smilley you want and depending if you want to send it in a email or forum. In an email highlight the smilley on the right and it will say; Copy For a forum; highlight the Url on the left and that brings it onto the forum.
Need some kisses to make my auwies feel better. Almost was at my car when I did not see the big dent in the parking lot asfalt. Broke the skin of my elbow and knee and 9 eggs broken. I felt sooo stupid!
Well it could have been a lot worse, It could have happened to someone else. And the beat goes on and on and................
Reminds me of the old woman, she was 90+, who when in Holland on her bike, fell off. Did you fall oma she was asked?; No, she said this is how I always step off. lol
Yeah ask a stupid question you get?.........right!
Lol yeah, it could be a she and your not into women so that would be a bummer for sure. Still make sure. Just for giving you this tip you ought to invite me to the wedding even if you just jump the broom.
So few less men ought to be looking or is there something wrong with my math? Okay, It is true and I will admit to this, I never did learn algebra. I Am good at adding and subtracting even though I often have to do this in Dutch as it is all turned around. In English something is forty three in Dutch it is three and forty. Nonetheless what ever method I use I get there!
Where I live is a nice pool and I try to go every other day and do my work outs there at the same time. Trying to keep my girlie figure lol
Just like with guys who are afraid some women call 911 when a man starts to talk to them, I have the same thing when for instance in the grocery store I start to talk to a man, really while waiting in line, I talk to women too, I often get a negative reaction.
Lol would he be a candidate? Someone said hang out at the Home Hardware store, all the guys there are most likely handy and well there are lots out there. Of course now I have to act a little dumb but being a blond already........you get my drift I am sure!
Just like that! Personally, I never go out so where do you meet someone? No more mail man and the paper deliverer is married, no milk man comes either anymore lol.
Yes lonely you make a good point. On the other hand both men and women can become stalkers so what to do huh? Play it by ear I suppose, but because letting the woman lead has been more succesful to you perhaps let that be your cue at least for now.
Too bad it had to end but you must have know his age before you started with him? Sure like the way you descripe how things work the one year etc. Seems like a grand idea to me.
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Hi, someone has adopted me and now I am his mommie,
Found out this "foundling" has more mommies lol