Dear son many people tell that when making love they think not of their partner, but of someone else. It is called fantasizing son. Only your mommy never felt the need to do this.
Now, what soooo disturbed you my son? The fact that mommy has/still does, make love? Well son she has 30 years left to do it in. Cause she is stil very much ALIVE son. It would be a shame to waste love don't you think?
Well said. I could/would never hate anyone for hating their parents. The most likely have good reasons to do so.
For myself I found that when I hate, it affects ME, not the one who caused it. I will not give anyone the power to ruin my life. I took the power back.
Yes you are sooo right it is over. I figured this out pretty quick, after I left my ex. I realized while I felt hurt ect. that one day I thought you know you dumb dumb, while your think about him this way, he may be out dancing just having a gay old time. It changed me. Yes I accepted that it was over.
Yeah I knew you would be the one to understand. English is a crazy language no rhyme no reason it amazes me to see the many foreigners on here who spell so very well.
I teach for free just to have the satisfaction of enlightening the people on this planet. Hey girl got any brothers? Does anyone else have a single brother worthy of me?
Will talk to you soon okay nothing new here. Men are dumb dumb's to let me go ohhhhhhhhhh how could they?
Canadians say humour, harbour, neighbour. Americans leave out the U so apell harbor, neighbor and humor. just like you all to know this, so you don't think those Canucks don't know how to spell, because they DO!
Thank you for paying attention to this very special knowledge about spelling. I feel now sooooo much better!
Personally I would want them to get to know me first. I would not tell before you even have met. Yes you have to be honest with her just not right away. Maybe the second or third date.
Did you say he wants to talk about this too communicate with you about this, ohhhhhhhhh You are sooo lucky as communication is the key, as long as you can talk about things all is well. This man loves you that is plain. That to Me is HUGE! Go with it and yes stop analyzing, sometimes analyzers are paralyzers. Love him back and it will be returned to you as he is already doing now.
I would give anything to have a man treat me the way you say your man does. Give him time this kind of "demand" your making is sending him away. If and when he does, you will kick yourself. Men do not think the same as women do! They really are on a different plane when it comes to feelings. They are not in tune with it as much as women are. You asked him and I am sure he gave you an answer, most likely asking himself why he said what he did. This kind of questioning confuses a man. He simply does not know! Not all relationships give you butterflies either. I had a wonderful marriage my sweetheard never told me he was in love with me and I would never have thought to ask. We loved each other! We made each other happy what more was there?
Accept his love, he is good to you. Woman enjoy what he offeres you and be happy. Stop asking if he is is love with you. He LOVES you let that be more than enough.
There are not that many good men around, treasure him, be good to him in return. You will never be sorry to do so.
King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So,the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and if after a year, he still had no answer; he would be put to death.
The question?...What do women really want? Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.
He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with every one, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.
Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer.
But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.
The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.
The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend !
Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.
He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur.
He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.
Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:
What a woman really wants, she answered...is to be in charge of her own life.
Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.
And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.
The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened.
The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.
Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day....or night?
Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?
What would YOU do?
What Lancelot chose is below. BUT....make YOUR choice before you scroll down below. OKAY?
Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.
Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.
Now....what is the moral to this story?
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The moral is..... If you don't let a woman have her own way.... Things are going to get ugly
You wouldn't get far in a Court Of Law with all that Hearsay.
You are not reading what I post. I clarified where I learned things from. Many sources. Our news paper spend at least a week on the subject of legalizing drugs and why. Taking up a full page everyday. TV , magazines, radio show talks. Talking too people. Discussion forums. Googles and youtube. Enough sourses? Plus I am very capable to think for myself. To analyze things, to think further than my nose is long. Don't believe this fable about domb blonds. Some place on here, when having used only one sourse; etc ect. this means yes you know, other sourses. Just did not list them all. You Sir read what you wish to read in my replies.
You are picking with me and of course I know why. I will no longer respond to your replies. You are biased and don't play fair.
I have no probem to agreeable disagree with you but can see this does not work with you.
I can't seem to get accross what I mean to say; Make it all legal and there will be in the end less addicts. I have put my reasons for believing on here several times. I don't know how else to formulate my meaning of it all.
hollandgirl wrote: You should be able to buy it like you can alcohol. Drugs are very cheap to make. I firmly believe that when made legal less people will start using. Mabye not in the very beginning.
Crotalus; It would appear that , that is true , more cannabis is smoked in London per head than in Amsterdam where it is legal, I would not say make all drugs free but I would say make them all legal , the only people that benefit from a war on drugs are the dealers , the politicians and all the people the tax payer pays to enforce the laws.
hollandgirl wrote: You should be able to buy it like you can alcohol. Drugs are very cheap to make. I firmly believe that when made legal less people will start using. Mabye not in the very beginning.
Crotalus; It would appear that , that is true , more cannabis is smoked in London per head than in Amsterdam where it is legal, I would not say make all drugs free but I would say make them all legal , the only people that benefit from a war on drugs are the dealers , the politicians and all the people the tax payer pays to enforce the laws.
Thank you, I seem to understand the objections to legalize drugs, but for some reason several don't seem to understand why I favor legalization. I have posted my reasons but people focus more on the now, of the addicted. I totally understand this. I am looking at this picture, what legalization would change for the benefit of everyone, later. Less people getting addicted, that is the goal.
When the drug labs are out of business, drug dealers can stay home, no kids being used to sell, prisons being empteed, money laundering, no more need for mules, a lot of crime eliminated. etc.etc.
Could this be so because governments make a lot of money on alcohol and tobacco. Criminals, drug dealers and those making drugs, are the ones making the money here. ???
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When making love with your partner, did you ever think of someone else?
Dear son many people tell that when making love they think not of their partner, but of someone else.It is called fantasizing son.
Only your mommy never felt the need to do this.
Now, what soooo disturbed you my son? The fact that mommy has/still does, make love?
Well son she has 30 years left to do it in.
Cause she is stil very much ALIVE son.
It would be a shame to waste love don't you think?