Well are we forced to warn; this is naughty or this is funny, slightly sarcastic etc.? Well I am saying you can't win them all so..........? Write negative remarks under your shoe, it works of faster walking on cement lol
Why can people when no longer interested in you tell you so. My first thought is always is he okay, sick, because if something would have happened to him I would never have known
It leaves me wondering and I would so much closure as then I can move on.
A guy I have seen once before asked me on a second date last week. He lives here on campus. I turned him down with the explanation that I don’t think certain of our values match.
The thing is that he comes from a very wealthy family and thus he spends a lot of money. His dad has worked hard so he could give his family financial freedom and this guy enjoys the benefits of it, which I see no problem with.
The problem, on the other hand, is how he is spending. I'm not a cheap, but I grew up with a single-dad in the military and 2 brothers. We never had a lot and had to really think twice before spending money even though we never needed anything that is to say we weren’t poor, but perhaps a bit under middle class.
I just don't feel like I can relate to that kind of spending. I know that in my field of study the employment and pay when finished will be... let’s just say it’ll be pretty okay. Of course I will benefit from it and in time buy a nice house, a car, a lot of shoes and other luxurious things. But I can't see myself spending 10$ on a cab FOR A PIZZA just because my favourite pizza place doesn't deliver themselves and I can't bother to get the damn pizza myself, not out of laziness but because I'd rather pay my way out of it. Or spending a 3 figured amount of money on designer laces for my shoes and throwing them in the trash after a week because I suddenly decided against it... Things that some people perhaps consider luxurious, but I just find right out silly.
I decided it was too much when on our first date he dropped 20$ and was too lazy or unbothered to pick them up again. People who waste money so uncaringly are just not my cup of tea, even if they can afford it.How important is stuff like that to you when searching for a partner?[/quote
I understand what you are trying to say and I totally agree with you. This man's attitude about money is totally wrong. Arrogant really and it is too bad it came much too easy in his posession. I am not a hypocrite and will not tell you I don't like money. If it is ALL a man has then he does not have enough for me. I now have had two men tell me, after I had turned them downn, that now they could tell me that they were wealthy. I told them; we ALL have problems.
I am that today YES! This was not always so. Married the man I met when I was fourteen. Never realized that he was controling me. I now recognize this pretty soon. In Holland we say; "No one eats the cheese of my bread" lol not when I am watching you your not. Yes I stand up for myself even when I am waiting for service and someone tries to get ahead of me. It is Not going to happen as I will speak up. Not doing so comes from having low-self esteem. Had lots of that in the past. Not today. Yes I deserve the best. My youngest sister is somewhat spoiled the one above her is not. I told someone that the sweet sister would end up with more someday. I was told this is not so. Your younger sister will because she demands more. Yess right! Keep up the good works! Jenny
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The interview, very profound
Oh that is why oh well nothing can be done about it done huh