How To Tame Your Need To Chase Him

by Staff Jun 2014 5,300 Views 7 Comments

Chasing a guy now and then is cool, but being the one who does 100% of the chasing is a bad idea. In general, men enjoy the chase. If you're always there, how can he miss you and chase you? Here are 5 ways that you can tame your need to chase the man you like.

1. Get a life of your own

If you're busy with your own life, you won't have time to chase the guy you're after. You won't think about it him as much as when you're sitting at home on the couch. Get out there and have some experiences. Remember girls' nights? Reinstate them! The next time he calls you'll have interesting things to tell him.

2. Delete him from your contact list

Yes, you read that correctly! Deleting him from your contact list will make it harder to contact him again. You might not know his number by heart, so you couldn't call or text him if you wanted to. You won't see his name as you scroll through your contacts, so you won't think of him as often. If he starts texting you again on a regular basis, you can always add him back to your contacts.

3. Agree to a date with another guy

If the guy who says he likes you hasn't made a move to ask you out, say yes to the guy who has. It doesn't mean you're going to marry him. You're just going to have a good time. It's easy for the act of chasing a man or being ignored by a man to weigh on your self-esteem, so enjoy the attention you're getting from others.

4. Enjoy the payoff

By not chasing, the guy you like may begin to chase you again. That's assuming that he likes you. If a guy doesn't like you, he's not going to bother getting in touch with you. He might reply when YOU text, but he'll never do the work himself. When the guy who really likes you finally texts you though, you're going to feel amazing. You will know he's doing it just because he wants to.

Chasing a guy can be fun and you should do it sometimes. Just remember that men get bored and like to chase as well. So take a break from chasing now and then and let yourself be chased.

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Dennmac•Mar 20•Chautauqua, New York USA

Sadly most people merely settle. They stop looking for what is best and accept what is hand. They allow the good to be the enemy of the perfect.
Look up Ven diagrams or make a list of pros and cons as to what you NEED, not what you WANT.
If using a Ven diagram seek out those where the overlap is, using pros and cons is more obvious.
Keep in mind that you are the thing of great value and don't settle for anyone that can't recognize that.
Men have it harder than women by they way.
Women only settle for the " good uns" after being dumped by all the bad ones.
Society taught us what we should fear and what makes people "perfect".
But failed to explain the lighting, makeup, and lack of real personality that comes with looks.