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Party on Internet
The main problem of the internet and with sites like CS is that those do not offer the possibility to have a party between us.
At a party are invited the people who have something in common and have fun together. The other are excluded. Forums, groups or chat rooms should have somehow same functionality. You may join to a group but you cannot exclude the people from it.
In real life, many years ago, in some cases also today, a party is exclusive. I invite a friend, and he invites a friend, and so on. Somehow the people at the party have things in common. That does not means that no conflict may rise, but the probability is lower.
So this function of, we may say, have a party, to create a exclusive chat room, for two hours, (like in the office- a meeting room) where only invited people may enter is missing. This function may force the people to act carefully when posting, trying to make real friends.
People are here because of many reasons. May be people who do not open their heart easy, posting on forums or blogs, nor writing messages to strangers. They need time to open, slowly. So participating to a party, invited by someone one trust, is more productive, than staying hidden and just reading posts. You may communicate with people same to you.
I get a message from a women starting like this : "Why are you on this site when on your profile writes you are in relationship? I want to understand why you cheat your wife?"
My dear friends, life is not black and not white, has a lot of nuances of gray. People cannot judge other people based on the published profile or on the posts. Most people do not post. They expect that someone will send a message. But why should one do this? 50 rows of profile description say nothing about the person. If people do not participate to discussions nobody will know who one really are.
Posting is the first step. Next are private discussion. Perhaps this jump is too much. Perhaps you need some intermediate step ... the party. Exclusive groups/chats where people join based on invitation. This may let people to connect more selective, grouped by affinity. Chatrooms active for two hours, next deleted. Especialy during weekend. This may be more closer to real life. Of course this internet connection does not solve the physical issue. Real physical attraction, which is absolut necessary if you real y want a partner who should share your bedroom.
It was just an idea. I am not sure that will work ... but I have the right to think about it.
At a party are invited the people who have something in common and have fun together. The other are excluded. Forums, groups or chat rooms should have somehow same functionality. You may join to a group but you cannot exclude the people from it.
In real life, many years ago, in some cases also today, a party is exclusive. I invite a friend, and he invites a friend, and so on. Somehow the people at the party have things in common. That does not means that no conflict may rise, but the probability is lower.
So this function of, we may say, have a party, to create a exclusive chat room, for two hours, (like in the office- a meeting room) where only invited people may enter is missing. This function may force the people to act carefully when posting, trying to make real friends.
People are here because of many reasons. May be people who do not open their heart easy, posting on forums or blogs, nor writing messages to strangers. They need time to open, slowly. So participating to a party, invited by someone one trust, is more productive, than staying hidden and just reading posts. You may communicate with people same to you.
I get a message from a women starting like this : "Why are you on this site when on your profile writes you are in relationship? I want to understand why you cheat your wife?"
My dear friends, life is not black and not white, has a lot of nuances of gray. People cannot judge other people based on the published profile or on the posts. Most people do not post. They expect that someone will send a message. But why should one do this? 50 rows of profile description say nothing about the person. If people do not participate to discussions nobody will know who one really are.
Posting is the first step. Next are private discussion. Perhaps this jump is too much. Perhaps you need some intermediate step ... the party. Exclusive groups/chats where people join based on invitation. This may let people to connect more selective, grouped by affinity. Chatrooms active for two hours, next deleted. Especialy during weekend. This may be more closer to real life. Of course this internet connection does not solve the physical issue. Real physical attraction, which is absolut necessary if you real y want a partner who should share your bedroom.
It was just an idea. I am not sure that will work ... but I have the right to think about it.
CS Soaps - pilot episode
Meet Angelica, beautiful and exotic, wanting to meet Mr Perfect, rich, faithful, loving. Instead she got Rupert who is at least honest. Well, sometimes honest. But she doesn’t know the sometimes bit. She is enjoying taking her time over the decision, should they, shouldn’t they, testing him , it’s all a bit exciting. Is she going to make Christmas the time his loyalty and devotion is rewarded?
Meet Gerda. She wants Rupert, flaws and all. She does his shopping, she pops by with cakes, she irons his stuff, oh, and it took a bit of plotting and conniving but now she greases his pole. Softee softee catchee monkey.
Meet Rupert. He’s pretty happy right now. Angelica is oh-so-nearly within his grasp, about to fall like the succulent peach that she is into his hand. And good old Gerda is the best buddy a man-in- waiting could have, she knows the score and he believes she’s fine with the way things are.
And of course old Goody Two-Shoes is peering through the net curtains and absolutely agog.
Good set-up for a soap? What happens next?
Meet Gerda. She wants Rupert, flaws and all. She does his shopping, she pops by with cakes, she irons his stuff, oh, and it took a bit of plotting and conniving but now she greases his pole. Softee softee catchee monkey.
Meet Rupert. He’s pretty happy right now. Angelica is oh-so-nearly within his grasp, about to fall like the succulent peach that she is into his hand. And good old Gerda is the best buddy a man-in- waiting could have, she knows the score and he believes she’s fine with the way things are.
And of course old Goody Two-Shoes is peering through the net curtains and absolutely agog.
Good set-up for a soap? What happens next?
Huh.
I think I might be offended. Got the following text from a friend I have dated in the past.
I have a date!
With a woman!
A real woman!
Who doesn't seem completely bonkers!
Well, of course I congratulated him but - um? I did text back that I was struggling to find a compliment for myself in there. He changed the subject.
I'm not sure staying friends is ALWAYS a good idea.
I have a date!
With a woman!
A real woman!
Who doesn't seem completely bonkers!
Well, of course I congratulated him but - um? I did text back that I was struggling to find a compliment for myself in there. He changed the subject.
I'm not sure staying friends is ALWAYS a good idea.
You can leave your hat on:
Yes yes you expect the video, post it yourself. Whichever version I chose, the blog would turn into an argument over which version was better, and this is in fact an important social documentary. The importance of hats.
It is important that the hat is not so ugly people will wince and look away. Ideally, it should make people laugh. It doesn't need to be expensive. I bought mine for a quid one very cold day in a charity shop, and cheered up an entire small town. It has also amused CS ever since, and made me easy to recognize whenever I had to meet strangers.
You are going to wear it everywhere, so make sure it is comfortable and washable. Ideally have one that can twist into slightly different shapes. My Goofy hat ticked all other boxes but was always Goofy. My current hat is far more versatile.
Why a hat, you ask? The right hat keeps the sun out of your eyes in summer, and the rain off your head the rest of the time. Pulled down over your eyes when you are travelling, it creates a private bedroom where you can sleep. In windy weather, you can tuck your hair into it.
As for men, a man in his hat, like a man in his kilt, presents an entirely different appearance.
Most importantly, an eccentric hat gives you confidence.
I shall allow comments on this important lesson, feel free to post photos and hat-related experiences. By all means photoshop potential hats you think would suit you, to get feedback.
It is important that the hat is not so ugly people will wince and look away. Ideally, it should make people laugh. It doesn't need to be expensive. I bought mine for a quid one very cold day in a charity shop, and cheered up an entire small town. It has also amused CS ever since, and made me easy to recognize whenever I had to meet strangers.
You are going to wear it everywhere, so make sure it is comfortable and washable. Ideally have one that can twist into slightly different shapes. My Goofy hat ticked all other boxes but was always Goofy. My current hat is far more versatile.
Why a hat, you ask? The right hat keeps the sun out of your eyes in summer, and the rain off your head the rest of the time. Pulled down over your eyes when you are travelling, it creates a private bedroom where you can sleep. In windy weather, you can tuck your hair into it.
As for men, a man in his hat, like a man in his kilt, presents an entirely different appearance.
Most importantly, an eccentric hat gives you confidence.
I shall allow comments on this important lesson, feel free to post photos and hat-related experiences. By all means photoshop potential hats you think would suit you, to get feedback.
Your Knight On His White Horse
Still waiting for him? Well, he’s probably arrived many times before but you did not recognize him because his arrival was not announced by trumpets and church bells. You have probably mistaken him for Don Quixote or his squire, Sancho Panza. Yep, maybe he arrived on a donkey.
Instead you followed your brain's chemistry and went for the shiny armor and big plume on the helmet; just to get a decent lay. While it is important to confirm s*xual compatibility early on, there are other equally important things to consider.
Beware of the one on the white horse and shiny armor. He’s a tournament player and has done no real battle. Your hero may arrive on a hungry and bleeding horse; weak, wounded and battle-weary, with a broken sword, his armor in tatters and his banner torn. You may need to help him off his horse and nurse him until his wounds are healed.
This is the time when his character will show; when he’s weak and on his knees. If you think he’s the one for you, sell his horse, bury his sword, burn his banner, and melt his armor because when he is strong again, he'll just ride off to slay more dragons.
Have a wonderful day.
PS
No dragons were hurt during the production of this blog.
Instead you followed your brain's chemistry and went for the shiny armor and big plume on the helmet; just to get a decent lay. While it is important to confirm s*xual compatibility early on, there are other equally important things to consider.
Beware of the one on the white horse and shiny armor. He’s a tournament player and has done no real battle. Your hero may arrive on a hungry and bleeding horse; weak, wounded and battle-weary, with a broken sword, his armor in tatters and his banner torn. You may need to help him off his horse and nurse him until his wounds are healed.
This is the time when his character will show; when he’s weak and on his knees. If you think he’s the one for you, sell his horse, bury his sword, burn his banner, and melt his armor because when he is strong again, he'll just ride off to slay more dragons.
Have a wonderful day.
PS
No dragons were hurt during the production of this blog.
What do u prefer doing on dates ?
We all have certain entertainment areas and topics !
I haven't been on a date for a long time, but it will depend on what both prefer doing most, as to what will be done.
It will obviously be give and take. If it is something u don't realy like, u end up doing it anyway, to be supportive.
None of us have the same likes and dislikes.
e.g. Going to the theater, or for a picnic, or water sports
Eating out, meeting for coffee, of going to a bar, is some of the last options, as they r so ordinary.
U want the meetings to bring back good memories, and not how u tried to talk with food in ur mouth, as u did not want to appear that u don't have anything to say.
Come on:- Some good ideas will be appreciated ?
I haven't been on a date for a long time, but it will depend on what both prefer doing most, as to what will be done.
It will obviously be give and take. If it is something u don't realy like, u end up doing it anyway, to be supportive.
None of us have the same likes and dislikes.
e.g. Going to the theater, or for a picnic, or water sports
Eating out, meeting for coffee, of going to a bar, is some of the last options, as they r so ordinary.
U want the meetings to bring back good memories, and not how u tried to talk with food in ur mouth, as u did not want to appear that u don't have anything to say.
Come on:- Some good ideas will be appreciated ?
well THAT's a relief
Madonna is 55. Her boyfriend is 22.
Tina Turner is 75, her boyfriend is 40.
JLO is 42, her boyfriend is 26.
Mariah Carey is 44, her husband is 32
Still single? relax. Your boyfriend is not born yet.
Actually I got the above from an email joke, I have no idea whether those ages are true. And the ladies do have one other thing in common, they are all rich and famous. That might help.
Go out there and make lots of money, ladies, while you are waiting for Mr Right to be potty-trained.
Tina Turner is 75, her boyfriend is 40.
JLO is 42, her boyfriend is 26.
Mariah Carey is 44, her husband is 32
Still single? relax. Your boyfriend is not born yet.
Actually I got the above from an email joke, I have no idea whether those ages are true. And the ladies do have one other thing in common, they are all rich and famous. That might help.
Go out there and make lots of money, ladies, while you are waiting for Mr Right to be potty-trained.
judemental people
why are ppl so judgemental on people from a photograph rather than speaking to them
Qualities or character you are looking for in a possible partner
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so it's said and chemistry is important when you meet.
But exactly what qualities are you looking for in your search for the one?
But exactly what qualities are you looking for in your search for the one?
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