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Would you?Would you tell a woman that you know has a boyfriend and you have heard her complain about him in the past..."If you are ever looking for a new man, I...

Odd couplesI sometimes think I'm a bit too fussy. All I ask is a man with the brain, body, and sense of humour, to rival this trio.

Artificial Friendship?I was newly struck by the artificial nature of being online after reading the responses on a recent blog named ‘Dinner For Six’. What particularl...

Jim's CS matchmaking service.For the fee of a comment to do so, if you request so, I will match you with someone on CS, who I feel is most appropriate for you. This could open up...

To Bowl A Maiden OverThis is not about cricket, but you will need to understand one or two cricket terms here. For the benefit of those not into cricket: a maiden over is...

Sell-By DateLike food, all relationships have a sell-by date. Relationships started way back when the average life-expectancy would have been only 25-40 years...

Our experience(s) in dating here at CS or anywhereMaybe some of us on here have anything to share about our journey in finding the "one". Considering all the fake profiles, scammers they are calle...

You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are.You don’t attract what you want. You attract who you are The moment you’re happy on your own is when the right relationship enters your life (Myke...

Dating for the AwareHaving been a member of CS for approximately 2 months, I’ve made certain observations. 1. From reading the comments of others, I’ve concluded that...

What would it take for you to fall in love again?Can you fall in love again Would you want to fall in love again? Does love only have to benefit you? Is love a game to you? Is love a mean...

Lying about age.From memory, I can’t recall ever being in contact with someone on CS that didn’t lie about his or her age. Although I now state my correct age, for...

I’m in love with two womenCan a man be in love with two women? I love my new girlfriend and she loves me… But I am also in love with the mother of her son and she is in love...

Kissing frogsWhy, WHY, go looking for more frogs to kiss when you already met someone? Don’t we join singles website to meet someone special, to buy a ticket in th...

Odd coupleI met these people, and for all I know they met on CS although that would be a fantastic coincidence and, if they read this blog, a little embarrassin...

Relationships and AlgorithmsMany dating sites use mathematical algorithms to match people. And charge a lot of money for this service. However, according to an article I re...

Ask me anythingI'm here to help you in anything you want help with, I've been told by many that I'm good with giving advice and I'm a good person to have a conversat...

The love thingI have blogged on this before, but I never got an answer that made sense to me so bear with me. To get the right answer, you have to ask the right que...

One Year TodayIf my memory serves me right I have been with CS exactly one year today. It had been an eventful year and a lot of things had happened. Back on the...

I Wonder What I’m Looking ForThe last few years of my marriage were bad, the last couple were horrendous. Would things have turned out differently if I’d been a better partner?...

The difficulty with finding someone onlineIs it really that difficult? How many long-term relationships have formed due to this site? I have been here a few years now and I know of maybe 2...

When Love Comes Knocking At Your Door.When somebody knocks on my front door, I open it. I think the majority of people do. Especially here in South Africa because most of us have safety ga...

What Men and Women Want…Changes As They Grow OlderThis is solely based on my observations. I would welcome any opinion that could clarify and contribute more meaning to my following statements::wink...

Basic Human NeedsIf a woman is married to an uncommunicative man, she has the choice of talking to herself, not very satisfactory, or else sharing with friends, or eve...

Women…for DummiesThis short but concise guide will help men have a little more understanding on women and how to deal with them. Women have been around for a very l...

Just being curious hereYes I know this is a bit of a piggyback post because OldBlue is asking something similar - but not exactly the same. Why would someone want you, w...

A Six Or A NixIf the anticipation is really better than the act then I guess there will always be another mountain to climb. So now that I have bowled my Maiden Ove...

Can it work?Long distance relationships are problematic and demand a lot of sacrifice; to say the least. It brings about many logistic problems. Visiting each oth...

Tips to date a Spanish womanTips to date a Spanish woman. I do recognize I'm not the typical Spanish woman, but I have a good idea what Spanish women like and expect from a ma...

Perfect match - but which one?Let's call him A (for Adventure ) he's around 50, a good technician, will never have a problem finding a job, right now he's up for technical manager...

Divorced?This act of treason had always been the biggest imaginable taboo in my family and I have the dubious honor to be the first in the family to have attai...

GamechangersWe all, whether on our profile, or just in our heads, have a list of the characteristics and qualities we would like in a potential partner. The list...

Still Waiting For The Right One?Then I have bad news for you. He or she may never come. That person does not exist and is not likely to be born in the next millennium. He or she is...

I want a wifeMap's blog raised a subject I feel strongly on, and he's fine with me stealing the direction it took. I want a wife. A little woman to do the cook...