What would it take for you to fall in love again?
Can you fall in love againWould you want to fall in love again?
Does love only have to benefit you?
Is love a game to you?
Is love a means to an end for you?
Do you think love is real?
What?....Love?....what the hell is that?
lol
But seriously do you think you can love again?
I think I can....but...I do know love can make one weaker...as well as make one stronger....depending on your "better half."
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At one time, I was floating around in the same boat as you. But, I think I am ready...in fact just recently I thought I was going to be married, until I found out the cost of such marriage. So, as life continues, I continue to learn. :)
...but yeah...
heck yeah. :)
I would dive in head first....
What do you mean by “The cost of marriage?”
Yes, sometimes body pillows with a silkscreened pretty ladies face at top, is cheaper. Less than 35 dollars.
If you ever think again about bringing her here, watch a few seasons of this show. It will open up your eyes.
It's about bringing someone from another country to America. Most of the relationships don't work.
Some couples get married but trouble sets in and just as you said you have to support the person from another country for 10 years !!
Who the heck would ever think about getting involved with a foreigner knowing that.
Be careful young man. There are lots of pretty, smart and loving American girls.
Take you time ....
SA....yes, I have seen that show. I have watched it a few times. I don't know if I watched it enough to get a better idea of how these relationships work or fail. I will take your word on it.
Thanks for sharing.
I had to sign a contract with our government agreeing to be financially responsible for 10 years....whether we were together or not
How will your gov’t know about it? According to your bank account annual report? Based on complaints? Do you think there would be someone who would complain and report it to the gov’t?
Sorry JohnnyS, your explanation just made me curious.
Maybe they took the words of that song too literally - we don't use horses and carriages anymore.
We can't choose who we fall in love with, but we can choose who we allow into our lives to potentially fall in love with.
It is up to us to choose wisely.
Love doesn't hurt. Being in love is wonderful. It puts a skip in your step and makes everything seem brighter and full of promise.
Of course if it doesn't work out for some reason, then we can feel hurt and let down. But that doesn't take away from the beauty of love itself.
Having said that, I am not a believer that love conquers all. That to me comes from reading too many fairytales. People need friendship, trust, loyalty, and a sense of being one unit for a relationship to work. Love just adds the cement to that structure.
It is very difficult to identify one's true intentions.
To me...that 50% divorce rate speaks volumes.
About the confusion of love and marriage.
In the U.S., one of the ways to allow a foreign person over here is through a fiance visa. That requires the two people to marry within 90 days.
You needed to get a lawyer who specializes in international fiancée situations to work for you. It all would’ve cost you about 34.99 and pint of JD... and ten years of ball and chain.
I watched countless YouTube videos related to this subject and many said that you don't need a lawyer, and I agree when it comes to a visa...it is when you apply for citizenship that things get serious and very expensive.
You should have called lawyer Curt Delay. He delays the court til he gets his way.
Or lawyer Jack Hoffman
Or Lawyer Benna Ohver
I say...yay to feminism and equality.
You gotta buy drinks, dinner, condiments regardless. So, what’s the difference?
Come on, you know me. I try to be suave shampoo with the ladies. Cool, huh?
Why don't you sit back, put your feet up...and let all those ladies just come up to you...like you are throwing seeds on the ground at the part...and the pigeons are just swarming you. They are pecking at each other....trying to get to you first. Just like pigeons Robert.
Or. that joke where the ole guy has a heart attack and dies while making it with a younger women. He came and went at the same time.”
You mean talk like that?
::laugh:
That’s disgusting!
One of my friends, he told me when he got married, it was hard.
His wife told me, when they got married, she had to be more open to him.
I didn’t understand either of them
but, what do I know. lol
Time for me to hit the hay with the silk screened pillows.
It’s been fun. Thanks for all the jokes and kidding around.
Have a cool fun night.
been fun.
good night and may the silk screens be with you.
LaF....pretty much...
lol
Merc...can I ask you a question?
I have had a couple of drinks tonight....so, I feel this is the perfect night for such a question.
What is up with your current picture?
You are such a beautiful woman and this picture...I feel...does you no justice.
Kal....good question and I looked for those numbers and I could not find them anywhere. ....so, I had to use the next best thing.