who gets their way? men ... or ....women?
Does a woman with a promiscuous nature get her way?or
Does a man who does not want his woman to be promiscuous get his way?
Right now this question is still being pondered by society.
What do you think?
I mean....is it important that the man gets his way with the relationship? Why can't the woman get hers?
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Wife asking her husband for help to move fridge,so she can wash floors behind and under it.
Husband says Ok but continue to lay on couch or do whatever he was doing, when wife called him to help.Obviously she needed to move that bloody thing by herself.
Two days later seeing that wife doesn't act or look happy and keep silence, he asking her What is wrong honey bunny? She explains why she is not happy. On which he replies I said Ok, you do not expect me to jump every time you asking me about something. Wife shaking her head and leaving the house. Divorce. The end.
So, who to blame. Who is right or who is wrong.
I heard one time, in a crowd someone said happy wife happy life.
I guess it goes both ways. And it depends what makes some women and man happy .
Perception of Happiness is different in each human being. Some will be happy with a simple help some with something they DO want.
Expectations are the root cause of the problem.
If you can't tolerate and accept the other persons behaviour then if it is serious end it rather than 'die' by a thousand cuts.
She won't, because whoever she'll be with wont respect her.
He won't because he wont get away with telling her what to do.
I think 50-50. meet halfway. I find single life so relaxing and peaceful, it's addicting and I think if one gives me 100%, I will not easily give up my carefree life now.
But, women in general do indeed hold most of the cards in matters like this.
The only thing a woman really risk is dying alone and feeling empty when older.
I just watched a video on some eastern religion thingy (from India)...and they talked about how there is a tube or connection made between two people when they sleep together. This connection is suppose to last 12 years...from the last time they slept together. Anyway, that is the spiritual side of things. (might be too serious for you).
WTF kind of blog is this? Oops, excuse my language. I know this is probably a Rated G blog.
Anyways, I 'member when I went out with Kissy Myas. Whew! She wanted what she wanted and when she wanted it. She was not going to wait.
When she wanted romantic action, there was no wait in her. She demanded or she would beat the crap out of me. Sheesh!
By the way, what does Promiscuouis mean? Is that when a person's eye gets cloudy vision or something?
There is a somewhat well known couple that...just up to a couple of months ago...operated their marriage like that. It was open on both sides.
First of all, an open marriage favors a woman much more than it does a man.
But anyway, this couple talked about how happy they were and all this good stuff....until recently. The wife is now divorcing him and trying to go after him for money...and he is now devasted.
Plenty of crap on Youtube about them.
But, women in general do indeed hold most of the cards in matters like this.
The only thing a woman really risk is dying alone and feeling empty when older.
I just watched a video on some eastern religion thingy (from India)...and they talked about how there is a tube or connection made between two people when they sleep together. This connection is suppose to last 12 years...from the last time they slept together. Anyway, that is the spiritual side of things. (might be too serious for you).
You see, I am not even serious about spelling either.
It sounds like, from your example, the husband might have been playing on the words the wife chose. Meaning, the wife asked if the husband could help move the fridge, and the husband said okay. However, the wife never asked could you help me now.
If that was what it took for them to divorce, divorce was most likely inevitable between them anyway.
That was such a minor offense that triggered the wife to ask for a divorce.
(on the flip side)
The husband most likely pretty much knew she needed help right away as well but failed to act on that. (meaning his respect toward her was going down hill)
I agree with you though Fan, one's happiness is not completely universal. What makes one happy may not make the other happy. I think in a relationship, the people involved should be mindful to try and figure out what makes the other happy and unhappy and respect that.
That is something to ponder and contemplate...about expectations.
Society, through stigmas...has placed expectations on people and on couples.
Back in the day, families needed to be large to survive on the farm.
Back in the day, women needed men to protect and provide.
Back in the day, you needed to put horseshoes on your horse.
The thing with these certain stigmas, they worked back in the day.
As technology changes...or way of living does too.
I totally agree with you.
I think that is exactly where we are at in society.
What is the next move?
Do women die alone and feel empty in their elder years then?
hmmm
What do men do? I guess something similar. I am not sure if they have the same empty feeling though.
Maybe that is where the introduction of the MetaVerse comes in to play.
I think you are living the life of many beautiful ladies.
There is one question that needs to be answered at a certain point of living life that way. It has to do with when the fun time starts to dwindle down a bit.
Let's face it, how promiscuous can a 65 year old woman be? I know you are not that old...but maybe one day you might be and if you continue living your lifestyle up to that age...then what comes then.
However, I do know that women do not think that way...they live for the here and now. ....but
As far as men...
well, they have the follow the lead of what women do. There are laws that prevent them from doing anything else. So, men's hands are tied. However....there is 1 thing. ...and that is what is going on right now MGTOW.
This is indeed a G rated blog. Since I know you are 1/64th innocent, you cannot do any wrong here.
Kissy was outright abusive to you Robert. Anyone who would literally sh*t in someone's face...should be locked up. I am surprised you did not develop some long term trauma from that situation. Maybe you did, maybe that is why you are still single.
Yes...Robert....your stories were the best then. What was that one where you had that drinking contest while you were out trying to find something in the jungle?
corn and cringe?
I have heard of corn and potatoes.
But, women in general do indeed hold most of the cards in matters like this.
The only thing a woman really risk is dying alone and feeling empty when older.
I just watched a video on some eastern religion thingy (from India)...and they talked about how there is a tube or connection made between two people when they sleep together. This connection is suppose to last 12 years...from the last time they slept together. Anyway, that is the spiritual side of things. (might be too serious for you).
You see, I am not even serious about spelling either.
corn and cringe?
I have heard of corn and potatoes.
Am I understanding correctly that the person who married the prostitute from Asia and brought them to their country...I know him?
I do know a guy who married a younger woman from China.
Yes...with that spiritual connection though. S*x is more than just physical. If you think about it, shouldn't it be more than just physical? I mean...you are doing an act that creates a new life.
Feel free to be who you are on my blogs. Yes, my topics tend to be more on the serious side....but I am not some rigid type of person where everything about them have to be serious. You want to be a goofball...go for it.
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Oh no...you like the great toxic Taylor Swift.
I am interested in UFOs, Relationships, Joe Rogan, Philosophy, Conspiracy Theory crap....
I am running out of stuff to watch. Maybe I will start watching some TS stuff.
Am I understanding correctly that the person who married the prostitute from Asia and brought them to their country...I know him?
I do know a guy who married a younger woman from China.
Yes...with that spiritual connection though. S*x is more than just physical. If you think about it, shouldn't it be more than just physical? I mean...you are doing an act that creates a new life.
Feel free to be who you are on my blogs. Yes, my topics tend to be more on the serious side....but I am not some rigid type of person where everything about them have to be serious. You want to be a goofball...go for it.
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Oh no...you like the great toxic Taylor Swift. She is a pretty good singer. I don't know her well enough to actually call her toxic but....writing songs about all her relationships and stuff...is that exactly healthy?
I am interested in UFOs, Relationships, Joe Rogan, Philosophy, Conspiracy Theory crap....
I am running out of stuff to watch. Maybe I will start watching some TS stuff.
Hmmm....
I am on law 23 right now.
I think there is some accuracy in what he is saying, but a lot of it sounds to me like it is a book on being selfish and manipulative.
Somebody once told me, knowledge is power.
Power hungry people make me suspect...however, power can also be used for the good. So, if knowledge is used for good.
I see Greene teaches how to play one against another. ...and all that great stuff.
I sincerely appreciate you sharing this with me. I have never heard of it before but I would guess there are many out there who have and may actually use it...it is not bad understanding where somebody is coming from if they do use it against you.
Thank you
Hmmm....
I am on law 23 right now.
I think there is some accuracy in what he is saying, but a lot of it sounds to me like it is a book on being selfish and manipulative.
Somebody once told me, knowledge is power.
Power hungry people make me suspect...however, power can also be used for the good. So, if knowledge is used for good.
I see Greene teaches how to play one against another. ...and all that great stuff.
I sincerely appreciate you sharing this with me. I have never heard of it before but I would guess there are many out there who have and may actually use it...it is not bad understanding where somebody is coming from if they do use it against you.
Thank you
Hmmm....
I am on law 23 right now.
I think there is some accuracy in what he is saying, but a lot of it sounds to me like it is a book on being selfish and manipulative.
Somebody once told me, knowledge is power.
Power hungry people make me suspect...however, power can also be used for the good. So, if knowledge is used for good.
I see Greene teaches how to play one against another. ...and all that great stuff.
I sincerely appreciate you sharing this with me. I have never heard of it before but I would guess there are many out there who have and may actually use it...it is not bad understanding where somebody is coming from if they do use it against you.
Thank you
BTW, you are pretty sharp. (a.k.a. smart)