Gamechangers
We all, whether on our profile, or just in our heads, have a list of the characteristics and qualities we would like in a potential partner.The list can be mind-boggling in some cases
, both for the prospective partner, and even more importantly for ourselves.To differentiate between them, maybe we should break them down into categories, from the Gamechanger down to the Would be nice, but basically Inessential
1. Gamechanger
2. Preferable but not a gamechanger
3. Desirable, but not that important
4. Would be nice, but basically Inessential
When we think about it properly, we may have no gamechangers, but lots of No. 2s instead.
No two people will have exactly the same order of necessity. Indeed, some people’s priorities are polar opposites to others.
But it is good for ourselves to know them either way.
If we sort them out, it may be easier to separate the wheat from the chaff, and concentrate on what is really important to us.
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Goodnight all
Sleep well
I don't know who wrote about dancing
As for the dogs. Well for me, it is important. I live with 2 of them. So if somebody didn't like them, then they could take a running jump. Simple.
And I bet you have your own lists too, but won't admit to them.
Here is what is on my profile narrative.
But I have retired from the repairs business.
The most I will do now is a regular service.
I don't think this blog is big enough to accommodate you
If they are not nice, kind, funny, intelligent, and physically attractive to me, it is simply not going to happen