You are single person and someone with 3 or 4 children just buzzed you here (29)
Ken_19: I notice several profiles containing attractive people who are available, however they have more than one child. Presumably whoever replies is looking for this kind of arrangement. The operative question then becomes what is the motivation leading a single person without children to contemplate future actions with a single parent of more than one child, especially when we take into account Visa or Residency issues?
hi Kenneth
I am a proud mother of 6 children, well 5, one I don't like 
and I don't buzz no one....and when it comes to peoples agenda of what a relationship. kids or no kids, all I know we are a package deal....always will be, and many guys actually are pretty accepting, but then im not....im picky 
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Ken_19: I notice several profiles containing attractive people who are available, however they have more than one child. Presumably whoever replies is looking for this kind of arrangement. The operative question then becomes what is the motivation leading a single person without children to contemplate future actions with a single parent of more than one child, especially when we take into account Visa or Residency issues?
To each their own I say. At my age, especially, I'm not looking for that kind of drama. Life is too short.
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What if she is a rich widow who can support her children without your financial help? I avoid men with young children as I barely survived my own children when they were teenagers. Think being a stepmother is even worse.
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I'm footloose and looking for the same.
Children should always be the first priority for any parent, but being adult company only when it fits in time wise for someone is not what I would be interested in. Let alone having kids moving in with me.
Your scenario describes an LDR, I would prefer someone within 30 mins driving distance.
Children should always be the first priority for any parent, but being adult company only when it fits in time wise for someone is not what I would be interested in. Let alone having kids moving in with me.
Your scenario describes an LDR, I would prefer someone within 30 mins driving distance.
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I am not too sure what being buzzed is , but I might enjoy it
As for the kids, it would not bother me unduly if a man had kids. Especially if he had an amicable, grownup relationship with the mother of the children.
However, it is much less complicated going out with somebody without kids, as they are, and should be, a parent's first priority.
, but I might enjoy it As for the kids, it would not bother me unduly if a man had kids. Especially if he had an amicable, grownup relationship with the mother of the children.
However, it is much less complicated going out with somebody without kids, as they are, and should be, a parent's first priority.
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This is the most thorough poll I have ever seen. The only thing missing is all of the above. 
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I really think it might work better if both partners had their kids and made a blended family. I also do not want to get involved with young children as part of a relationship. As Kenaugh said I am footloose and want the same....I think things go better when you have a compatible lifestlye with someone. My kids are all grown so I am finished with that life stage
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I'm more of a pet accepting type - if you are a pet... then....
At my age, I could date a man that has grown or near grown children it is completely understandable. I am not looking to replace anyone's role as parent. However, I am interested in sharing my family with him and expect him to share his family with me... if it moves from dating to something more, on both our parts.
At my age, I could date a man that has grown or near grown children it is completely understandable. I am not looking to replace anyone's role as parent. However, I am interested in sharing my family with him and expect him to share his family with me... if it moves from dating to something more, on both our parts.
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I only had 10 boxes, I thought of them, but ran out of room so I just said, other.
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Ken_19: I notice several profiles containing attractive people who are available, however they have more than one child. Presumably whoever replies is looking for this kind of arrangement. The operative question then becomes what is the motivation leading a single person without children to contemplate future actions with a single parent of more than one child, especially when we take into account Visa or Residency issues?
Any woman that has 3, 4 and more children will love more than you have ever had!
Mothers cook and clean to keep her nest healthy, why would your even question any women that keeps family and home together.
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I've come across such a situation once where the adult children didn't earn enough to establish their own household and the thought that I could possibly be seen as a sugar mommy kept creeping up, so I walked away. At this age, I don't need pressure and drama. If visa issues are involved it can get costly and complicated because single parents are not considered a package deal by immigration. The kids would have to be adopted or they may not get a residence permit at all. Very difficult situation.
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Who says we question?
I just asked how you would respond to her or him if they contacted you? What is you answer?
I just asked how you would respond to her or him if they contacted you? What is you answer?
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Ken_19: I notice several profiles containing attractive people who are available, however they have more than one child. Presumably whoever replies is looking for this kind of arrangement. The operative question then becomes what is the motivation leading a single person without children to contemplate future actions with a single parent of more than one child, especially when we take into account Visa or Residency issues?
Scammer..
Why else would a woman with several children be buzzing old guys..
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As long as the kids are grown and on their own like mine are, I'm fine with that
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I don't mind the kids, even several. I always wanted to have a big family. From other hand, I don't plan to go trough several pregnancies myself at my age. One or two maximum.
Yet, currently I am not in the situation that I can provide for 3 more kids without lowering the life quality of my own.
If the person has means for the kids (there must be a father or mother of the child obliged to provide for the kid) then why not?
With time they will be just part of the family, so if the economy is shared, the expenses too. Yet, I do expect my ex to cover some expenses of our son till he gets independent, so I would expect the other parent of the kids to cover some if he has means.
Until there would be a moment when I would officially adopt the kids.
Yet, currently I am not in the situation that I can provide for 3 more kids without lowering the life quality of my own.
If the person has means for the kids (there must be a father or mother of the child obliged to provide for the kid) then why not?
With time they will be just part of the family, so if the economy is shared, the expenses too. Yet, I do expect my ex to cover some expenses of our son till he gets independent, so I would expect the other parent of the kids to cover some if he has means.
Until there would be a moment when I would officially adopt the kids.
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I just asked how you would respond to her or him if they contacted you? What is you answer?
No answer or if it's not the usual copy/paste message with atrocious spelling a thanks, no thanks and best of luck to you. Who says we question?
No answer or if it's not the usual copy/paste message with atrocious spelling a thanks, no thanks and best of luck to you. Who says we question?
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No thanks,... (with all respect),...
Was trying this back some 20 years ago with five, (5), small gangster's age 10..21,... damn NEVER again,...!
But that said I had worked with kid's, (got paid for it), and know there are kid's and kid's,... (just as a 'head up' for all single mom's out there with lot of kid's looking for the next place to stay),...
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Was trying this back some 20 years ago with five, (5), small gangster's age 10..21,... damn NEVER again,...!
But that said I had worked with kid's, (got paid for it), and know there are kid's and kid's,... (just as a 'head up' for all single mom's out there with lot of kid's looking for the next place to stay),...
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I would say that I would be happy to move to his country ;)
It would be cheaper for a visa for 2 people...
It would be cheaper for a visa for 2 people...
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Ken_19: I notice several profiles containing attractive people who are available, however they have more than one child. Presumably whoever replies is looking for this kind of arrangement. The operative question then becomes what is the motivation leading a single person without children to contemplate future actions with a single parent of more than one child, especially when we take into account Visa or Residency issues?
Or just looking for a instant family
what the heck... why do we always assume there is a hidden motive ...what happened with Love,
have we become too scared to live ...
( hope some rich lady is buying my crap ,otherwise I`ll never get a greencard)...
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Dedovix: Or just looking for a instant family
what the heck... why do we always assume there is a hidden motive ...what happened with Love,
have we become too scared to live ...
( hope some rich lady is buying my crap ,otherwise I`ll never get a greencard)...
what the heck... why do we always assume there is a hidden motive ...what happened with Love,
have we become too scared to live ...
( hope some rich lady is buying my crap ,otherwise I`ll never get a greencard)...
There are good and bad everywhere, relationships can break up and everyone deserves a chance of happiness with a new partner - I wouldn't assume a hidden motive with most people. If you get on with someone, just be happy with this.
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mollybaby: I am not too sure what being buzzed is , but I might enjoy it
As for the kids, it would not bother me unduly if a man had kids. Especially if he had an amicable, grownup relationship with the mother of the children.
However, it is much less complicated going out with somebody without kids, as they are, and should be, a parent's first priority.
As for the kids, it would not bother me unduly if a man had kids. Especially if he had an amicable, grownup relationship with the mother of the children.
However, it is much less complicated going out with somebody without kids, as they are, and should be, a parent's first priority.
It's a kind of haircut...
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KNenagh: There are good and bad everywhere, relationships can break up and everyone deserves a chance of happiness with a new partner - I wouldn't assume a hidden motive with most people. If you get on with someone, just be happy with this.
Yeah... I only wish more West world rich ladies would take on your advice ...
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Dedovix: Yeah... I only wish more West world rich ladies would take on your advice ...
The not so rich just might Dedo.
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Jillll: As long as the kids are grown and on their own like mine are, I'm fine with that
I guess I should hsve narrowed it down. I meant young children, not adults.
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Ken_19: I guess I should hsve narrowed it down. I meant young children, not adults.
Or maybe baby's,...(?)
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Pass
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Ken_19: Who says we question?
I just asked how you would respond to her or him if they contacted you? What is you answer?
I just asked how you would respond to her or him if they contacted you? What is you answer?
I would endeavor to make friendship
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My nephew, who has 3 children of his own, took on his cousin's youngest when she died, and now his new girlfriend has 2 young daughters.
So the house if full with 6 lovely children - my nephew always wanted a large family - the children seem to be thriving, happy, and content with belonging.
He now has to work very hard to support the whole lot of them. I have never seen him so happy.
So the house if full with 6 lovely children - my nephew always wanted a large family - the children seem to be thriving, happy, and content with belonging.
He now has to work very hard to support the whole lot of them. I have never seen him so happy.
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