Get the Guy: Learning to Be More Sensual

Get the Guy Learning to Be More Sensual

Everyone knows that woman who guys can't stop staring at. It's weird because sometimes that woman doesn't have the best body in the world, but there's something about her that's sexy. People are drawn to her because she's a sensual woman.

Attractiveness isn't enough to keep a guy around. Intelligence and loyalty are excellent traits, but they are also not enough to keep a man hooked on you. Getting in touch with your sensuality can impact your daily interactions with men. Many women do not understand the difference between being sexual and being sensual. While being sexual is the act of intimacy, being sensual is the allure to intimacy. A sensual woman embodies the idea of foreplay in her mind and body through how she speaks, walks and behaves. Whether you're on a first date or the hundredth date, knowing how to turn on a man with touch, sound and smell can do wonders for your relationship.

Use Touch

When you're on a date, lean over and touch your guy. You don't have to run your fingers through his hair, but you can ask to see his watch and touch it. While you are admiring his watch, your fingers can slide against his wrist. Little touches can ignite passion on date. Touch safe areas, such as his shoulders, arms and hands. Men feel more connected to women who are openly affectionate. By being open, you are exuding sensuality and confidence.

Lower Your Voice

Believe it or not, the sound of your voice does have an effect on men. You certainly don't have to whisper, but you should pay attention to the tone and volume of your voice. High-pitched voices are not alluring or enticing. By speaking with him in a calm, seductive voice, you will send chills up your guy's spine by adding a sense of mystery to the conversation. This technique works especially on the phone because sound is the only sense that your guy can use to build anticipation, longing and excitement from before he sees you in person.

Enjoy Your Meals

Savor your food. If you're out together, don't bolt down your meal. No matter how good it tastes, you have to slow down and enjoy every single bite. By doing so, you will be showing your guy that you can appreciate a good meal. When you are enjoying the different flavors in your mouth, it will radiate on your face. Even the act of swallowing your food should not be rushed. Let your date's imagination run wild. It may be a mind game, but a date goes beyond conversation. Having a sensual presence is important for creating the right vibe between the two of you.

Watch Your Body Language

Many women do not pay attention to the signs that they are giving off with their body language. If you like a guy, you should let him know with your body, not your words. When he talks, tilt your head to the side to show that you are delightfully engaged in the conversation. If you are sitting down, arch your back and be sure to keep your legs pressed together on a slant. Sitting with slanted legs is much more attractive than crossing them. If you are walking, be conscious of your hips. Put emphasis in every move you make. Also, by showing your neck, you are showing your vulnerability and availability, allowing a man to feel more comfortable in approaching you or striking up a conversation. You may just be walking to the bathroom, but you should walk in a manner that makes him wish that you were walking towards him.

Sensuality can sometimes be a natural part of who you are as a woman; however, sometimes you have to work on it. By improving how you move in your everyday life, you will change the aura that you are giving off to the men around you. Once you feel more comfortable with your femininity, men will embrace your sensuality and be intrigued to know more about you.

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