Coming or going?

Coming or going... this should be easy, but people usually get it wrong.
Is there a rule in English explaining this? I don't know.
but, I do know COME to or GO away.
I'm GOING to the movies tonight. Right?
We are GOING to the movies tonight. Right?

If I booked some service calls and the boss wants to know what is happening, I would be correct to say the serviceman is GOING to see Mrs. Smith at 2pm

I'm here and you are there. I invite you to my house and I say "Come over"
Let's say, you cannot go out and instead, invite me. You say "Come over."
In both cases the person is GOING to meet the other person.

Expecting you to COME to my house, I call and ask your whereabouts it's incorrect to say "I'm coming to your house" because (from your perspective) you are GOING to my house.

Coming or going... got it?

Next blog I think I'll address the abbreviated spelling of etcetera again.
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tealight_ the video you posted isn't available in my area.


Rebootx I've been known to blog a few funny English language quirks... poor, pore, pour
Lets add 'bloody' to the list of confusing words.
"Those bloody fools"
I didn't see any blood...
professor
A grammatically correct & factual statement which can be spoken, but not written --

"There are three '4s', three '2s' two '8s' and two '1s' in the English language." (For, Fore, Four/To, Too, Two/Ate, Eight/Won,One)
confused

cowboy
Jesus, I feel like I'm back in grade school.doh
second, second. wow...…….. fourth, forth. thumbs up
"your face is like a golf course..."
thumbs up

Me: She had hair growing under her chin
He: Was it becoming?
Me: Yeah, becoming a man!

laugh
Ruth rode on my motorbike, directly in back of me...
I hit a bump at 85 and rode on Ruthlessly
Your attention to detail is infinitely ruthless!!! rolling on the floor laughing
In all my years on CS this is the best blog I've ever seen. Fun....laughs....and even an education professor

For the record, the person who said people in the south use the word "hisself". You are correct in addition to other slang. I'm not from the south. I'm from New Jersey which is in the north. I'm living in the south for the moment. Hopefully a short moment laugh
Rebootx•3 hrs ago•Avalon, Dublin Ireland
second, second. ...…….. fourth, forth.

Any takers.. on second, second. cool
secretagent09, southerners do have a language of their own.
I was around 7 years old when we moved to Miami and remember walking to the corner store to buy some bubble gum. The lady behind the counter asked me if I wanted a sack.
I said "Huh?" and she repeated herself. Realizing the blank stare for not knowing what she was talking about, she asked "Do you want a bag?"

laugh
Here are some more for the books...

In the South, any distance more than 100 feet can be described as "yonder"

Creek is pronounced crick

Depending on your location (in the South) window could be pronounced winddah.
Open the winddah, it's hot in here.
I slept awkwardly and now I have a crick in my neck...?
Chat.............another one or two

In the north instead of saying ..... I'm doing laundry today. They say I'm doing the wersh meaning the washing of clothes. laugh

In the midwest they say "pop" for soda doh

In Boston when they say car it's pronounced the cah

In New York they pronounce it as New Yerk help
secretagent09, I gots a hunnerd Soudden sayings

New York?
Let's sit on the soffer and have a nice cup of corefee

I need to put some corking around the leaky window

They don't flush the toilet. Because, it's a terlet.
You have to berl water to make spagetti.
Tree is the number after two
Don't forget your masque. wink
Always...

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Poor and pore pronounced the same??
Not here.

But we do use ye for 2nd person plural.

We also inadvertently translate English from Irish.
So for example, an English person would say 'I have already eaten dinner' . We'd say 'I'm after dinner '
Back in the day, I had a sales rep that I dealt with daily, that lived in New Jersey. I remember him telling me that I had a Chicago accent. I laughed at him. This from a man that uses "terlet" and "erl" for toilet and oil.
Anyway, my brother passed this little quiz along to me. It actually pinpointed me between Chicago and Rockford IL. Then again, we do have our south side crew with their "dis, dat and doze for this that and those. Like the old SNL Super Fan skits and "Da Bears!"
English appears to be a very complicated language.


laugh Meta

Di you know the difference between sleeping in and sleeping out?
Probably not laugh
It was one of those points were I realised no matter how many years I will never fully get the hang of English.
I was so embarrassed
Learning is for a lifetime laugh
Take and bring.

"Let me take you higher"

Don't bring me down"
what are you doing up at 2am?
Going to bed shortly now
Shortly? Will you be taller in the morning? laugh
Everybody is taller in the morning professor
Coming and going...
How is it possible to sew from the BACK OF A SEWING MACHINE ??

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I can't use a sewing machine..I use a needle & cotton for hems & buttons laugh
Rebootx,
Confucius said never build an outhouse near a stream. Iffin you do, you must always get water upstream from that outhouse.
Mercedes, I once used masking tape to hold a hem on jeans.
The rule for that is to remove the tape as soon as you can as masking tape will stick to fabric like gum to a sweater!

crying
Chat thanks for the warninggiggle
Pssst @Jac - how do you get the Yellow background Quotation box? There is no editing control to enable that in any of the browsers I use.
Here's one for you. ' Imbibe ' It carries a presumptive meaning. e.g.

One Baroness to a rival. "My dearest Martha, you look fabulous as always, I especially love your new hairstyle, yours of course is an open carriage, and your rural, rosy complexion, so ..elegant, have you perchance,.. imbibed ?"
Why don't they have a quote button on the blogs?
no idea dunno
I'm going to ask the mods to supply me with one laugh
Please do. It would make thing easier when we don't have to type in the codes.
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