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Question for the guys

I have a question mostly for the guys but girls feel free to comment alsocool

Just curious, how do you feel about "nice girls?" that is, women who are always polite, considerate and selfless? Can a woman be "too nice?" and is there a point where you find it annoying? Have you ever dated this type of woman and did you wish she wasn't always so nice when you were with her? Don't be afraid to be honestthumbs up
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sweetkitten4
sweetkitten4●Brighton, East Sussex, England UK
Jul 17, 2011●92 Blogs●471 Comments
#41
One of my biggest faults in previous relationships was that I was too afraid to speak out when a partner did something that made me uncomfortable. It would take me a long time before I plucked up the courage to so. I used to try and please people all the time and through experience I learned that there are people willing to take advantage of this. Thank goodness for my daughter, I asked her to give me an honest opinion on what she thought of me as a person and she told me that I was too nice. This is something I'm working on now and you know what I have actually started to change in that area. Sometimes giving an honest opinion to someone can actually help a person to change the way they are but in order for them to change they need friends and family who are honest with them about how they see them and also they have to want to change for themselves.
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musicfreak
musicfreak●Paradise City, British Columbia Canada
Jul 17, 2011●896 Comments
#42
Parti you're scaring the bejesus out of me! uh oh super hole


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DaBomb72
DaBomb72●Mantova, Lombardy Italy
Jul 17, 2011●181 Comments
#43
Morning.wave Just to say i agree with Cafetwo, he said it all and to add that women are nice by their nature anyway, therefore a sane man should be proud to find himself a woman who fights him over principles, points of view and convictions. Could be a powerful source for mutual respect !tip hat
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Jrmaustin
Jrmaustin●fords, new jersey, New Jersey USA
Jul 17, 2011●2 Comments
#44
It is a huge turn off when a woman is TOO nice.. True story!!
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feelinglost
feelinglost●Marooned on a rock, Canary Islands Spain
Jul 17, 2011●18 Blogs●196 Comments
#45
Nice people come LAST!
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particolor
particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia
Jul 17, 2011●9,376 Comments
#46
Sorry music..blushing Human ones I meant..doh grin blushing teddybear
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particolor
particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia
Jul 17, 2011●9,376 Comments
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Music..Thats twice today I've had to apologise to someone,I hope I dont make a habit of it..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Apologising I mean!!!..rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing bouquet peace
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Ramrabbit
Ramrabbit●Mildura, Victoria Australia
Jul 17, 2011●4 Comments
#48
I had a gf that was, as you say, too nice. It was all about me (which was wonderful to a degree) but after a while it started to grate a little. I talked about it with her and she said that she was worried that if I saw a part of her that I didn't like, I'd walk. I explained to her that it wasn't fair on our relationship or her, to continue hiding her true self out of fear. She used to do it with everyone and got walked on by so many people. No-one can be nice all the time, maybe outwardly, but on the inside these people still feel the same frustrations and annoyances as everyone else, and by denying it, they aren't being true to themselves or those that love them! So yes, it can be annoying. :)
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10kOhms
10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta
Jul 17, 2011●1,826 Comments
#49
as long as she has an opinion about the matter at hand (i mean, as long as she has a brain and uses it too) and can stand her own ground where it's appropriate to do so there definately is no 'too nice' for me...

I actually would have an issue with girls who aren't nice.. like the rude/uneducated, careless or inconsiderate ones are indeed not me style...

the more feminine, the betta for me! .. don't wanna date a partial guy .. lol

paul
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willem4u
willem4u●Santiago, Santiago Metropolitan Chile
Jul 17, 2011●247 Comments
#50
I have never dated any woman I could possibly qualify like that,but I don't think I could feel comfortable with that.Up till a certain degree the first two could be seen as qualities, if thats what you like... But specially the "selfless" would hold me back. English is not my native language, but to me that word sounds so sad, as if she would have given up being herself, no opinion, no faults...We are humans that think for our own, not plants that ones in a while need a bit of water. I want to know what the other thinks, and why. If I agree I want to nodd, if not to challenge her with my own opinion. I want to be told when Im wrong
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bluebarry
bluebarry●Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Jul 19, 2011
#51
Hey everyone wave

well I see that everyone, boys and girls, wear a mask. The thing is how long it'll last..just time can tell :)
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