Other people's Comments

Everyone makes comments on other people's blogs. We don't always agree or disagree on the subject matter, so we make a comment. Well this morning, a blogger who wrote a blog, deleted me because I didn't agree with him. WOW!!!! What a temper. He needs to grow up and smell the roses! This guy always tries to come across as a "mister nice guy". This hasn't happened to me since when I first came on CS a few yrs ago.

IMO, if you don't want a negative comment to your blog; then only write positive stuff! Hellllllo!
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Seems like lots of people on here are like that. I actually like it when people disagree as that gives you reason to re-think your statement and maybe learn something by that.
Hello Jim,

From what I now from you, you seem like a pretty grounded person. However, we must respect everyone's boundaries. :) I am sure you know that.

Another thing, some of us do show our "best" side in public. It is a bit like acting. Actually....lol....it is acting. :) Usually in time, their true colors show. From the way it sounds, you got a glimpse of some color with this "gentleman."

cheers
Heyyyy! Jimmie.

scold I agree with ekself.
Everybody has there own opinion.
Johnny, I do respect other people's boundaries! But people have the right to disagree! Not everyone agrees with me but I don't delete their comments.
Thanks BC.hug You have fun with your new friends on the forums.thumbs up
Angel, I agree with that.
Jim....I understand.

You are nice not to delete others' posts.

However

The original blogger has the right to delete others' posts. So, I really do not see an issue. I think if you would have an issue with him deleting your post, you should take that up with CS. Just my opinion.

Peace
Butter

scold No! Wait. Come back.

doh All hoot! She is gone now. Awwww!
I put that question to the all knowing and great "Hompy Dompy".(And with his eyes still closed he said to me)..."If one doesnt want to risk comments that doesnt agree with one"...."Then One should press the No Comments Button"...........
Johnny, maybe you are right. I would think a person would soon have very few commenters if he/she prevailed in those kinds of practices!

Anyhow, he doesn't have to worry about me commenting on his blogs. I can write a blog to comment on his blog if I like.

Have a great day in brrrrrrrr Michigan! It is brrrrrrrrr here in WI.
Jimmie
I don't always agree with people. I have my own opinion too! And so do they. That's why it's called an opinion. But! I don't argue about it either. Because it doesn't matter to me.

But! I still treat people with respect! It's just an opinion.

Agree & disagree! And move on.

Live & Let live.
Author!>>>CC. ......rolling on the floor laughing
Snookums,

I do not agree with whoever told you that. If you don't want comments on your blog...check the no comments box before you post your blog. Simple! Another way, if your comments get deleted, is to write a blog addressing that subject and give your feelings!

Have a great day!
Sounds like it was lucky I didn't make the comment that first sprang to mind when reading that blog, or I have no doubt I would have been deleted as well laugh

They say the blogs are here to help you see the real person, personally I saw enough of this blogger with his first blog about 9 months ago to make my decision doh beer
Jim

Ur blog has given me the oportunity to air the matter. According to me what he has been doing is grossly wrong. It has been stretching over weeks till I posted 2 comments after each other and while he was deleting the first everone could see the second and noted it. Thus if u don't want comments good or bad don't write a blog requesting comments.
Hi Zman,

Seems you picked up on it to. I saw thru this guy many months ago. wine

Have a great day!
Snookums, just consider the source. People like that are not worth commenting on their blogs. JMO

Have a great day!
@snook I agree 100%. If you wright a blog/forum/poll you have to be prepared for negative opinions too. Not always positive, and
You are free to tell your opinion too.

thumbs up
British

Thanks for the thumbs up. I will reconsider but now I first need to heal the broken. I was married to a guy like that. They like crushing u. It is fun to them.
Thanks BC.hug Interesting the way you find out about someone.confused
@snook. British!!! I scrolled up and down up and down, I didnt see any British nickname. Are you talking to me snook ? Anyway thx for the compliment. cheers
@ snook I saw it now. Sorry
No britishcolumbian lady. But thanx for the support.
scold Snookums3

Wait! Don't Go....

It's just cyber world, internet.
One has to be strong, to deal with it. As long as one be careful on what they say! Everything that people say on the internet period, is recorded. People just have to be careful on what they say. Because! It can come back to hunt them.

Any who! I do hope that you stay at cs blogs with us!

A long time ago! My comment got deleted. Guess what?.... I Just Didn't Care!

Some comments, that I do make. At times! I don't even go back to look at it. Maybe because I be busy playing a card game. Or I just forgot about it.....comfort
gentle
I think we all can take a negative comment here and there...like ek says, we can look at it from a learning perspective...I have threatened a blogger that I would delete his comments only because he was crude and not interested in the discourse...just behaving like an idiot to throw the topic of conversation off course...disagreeing does not mean your being disrespectful...wine
Hi Lou,

I agree! Disagreeing is not being disrespectful! Hey, we have all disagreed with each other at one time or another and I am sure we will do so in the future! I don't lose respect or dislike someone because they disagree, unless they get personal.

Lou, thanks for contributing.hug
I missed the deleted comment so am not sure which blog it happened on.

However, any blogger has a CS given right to delete any comment they feel like.

I accept that right and the fact that sometimes it may even be one of my own comments deleted. Ce la vie.

I reserve the right to delete any comment I feel like deleting whenever I feel like deleting it if it is in my own blog.

Historically it has been rare for me to do so, and the last time I recall doing so was because two bloggers started saying not nice things about each other on one of my blogs and continuing a personal clash against each other into MY blog (also some other peoples). Others must have felt the same way about their antics in other blogs and emails because they were deleted from CS a few days later anyway.

I also reserve the right to delete any blog of my own in entirety any time I feel like it.

Again that is rare, but sometimes I do it.
Which we could edit...mumbling

I meant, on deleting comments, "in itself it is a lack of respect".
Hi Calm,

Couldn't agree with you more!

Have a great day in "sunny, warm California".
Hello Gentlejimwave I agree with what you re saying, we all have the right to disagree with someones opinion that's life. How we do it is another thing. I respect the people who can disagree, and do it with finesse , facts and humor. Isn t a blog, a statement, or an exchange of ideas.confused
Awhile back, one fellow on here was very rude to a few females ,who responded to his blog,very mad , I mentioned it to him, and was told to leave CS, confused Theres some, a lot of Nice people on here, and afew jeckle and hydes. Its something we have to accept.
You have a Great Day,handshake
Jim, I will not talk about cupcakes anymore on your blog! snooty snooty snooty


giggle giggle giggle wave hug bouquet
Angel

Exactly.

He knows his too far away for me to do something I will not regret.
Jim

Thanx for using ur block to vent.

It is my bed time. Work tomorrow. New project started today. Must be clesr headed. So need lots of sleep.

J
Mimi, butbutbut, please don't cut me off from the cupcakes!crying


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
1-1-1, it takes all kinds I guess.dunno
Angel, I read your comment on Flyjames' blog about the 2 people. It hasn't gotten me down. I am fine! I have lots of friends on CS.thumbs up
Jimmie
scold Who said that! I was talking about you, in the ( You 2?)....moping

PS. I have friends too! Everywhere. And I am find too!...rolling on the floor laughing

God Is Good! All the time.....teddybear
Sorry Angel.
Gentlejim, thanks for telling us! I hadn't known this deadlock..moping help confused
I no longer write blogs Jim... because one of our listeners who says to push the no comment button.... when I do ... he has to write his own blog chewing me out~! Hello... freedom of the press where I live.. professor However, I did not come here to have to hear all the negative stuff people throw my way.... no drama here... don't want any either... and don't miss it dunno
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