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Just an observation and not that it matters at all to me, however, from posts made over the past month or so it is evident that a shed load of members on CS live in fantasy land.I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular so dont get on your high horse thinking I am talking about specific people... I'm not, I am just generalizing.
Ok... So here we go.....
1)The tales of woe..
Oh dear, oh dear, I gave him my heart... and he's married... Geeez!
2)Eternal love..
It's true, it's true, she told me she loved me and that our 30 year age gap was just a number... Hellooooo!
3)It's not just sex..
He told me, he did, we have a meaningful relationship... get a grip!
4)Plan B
I booked it, yay! Flying to another country to go see her/him, we've never talked or seen each other and its only been a week but I know in my heart, she/he's the one... Yeah right!
5)I'm in love
I love you, I love you too, Oh! he/she soooooo funny, makes me laugh, we talk for hours and hours, its so romantic..... Wakie, wakie!
6)The saint
He/she understands, she/he really does, although we have never met and he/she knows my life is a mess but our love is strong enough to cope, he/she tells me so, he/she is sooooo thoughtful and compassionate..... Errrrm really?
For whatever reason, people seem to get themselves into a situation that has "disaster" written all over it. By the time they realize what they have done, hearts have been broken, faith destroyed and in some cases lives ruined.
For those of you that say "I dont... " or "I wont be..." or "I would never..." I would say, dont be so sure, when someone ticks all the boxes its easy to loose sight of reality regardless of whether you think your feet are firmly grounded.
Comments (64)
Yes, very easily done, to believe what you want to believe, and enjoy what you want to enjoy, and dream what you want to dream. Is it so bad? Most of us bob along hoping for a little excitement to come along
Either that or everyone has got bored and decided to talk about something else!
That was so long ago, I've forgotten it already.
So wake up sleep head.
That was so long ago, I've forgotten it already.
I think that's an age-related issue, Sol.
Actually it isn't an easy blog to answer because it doesn't really ask a question. Just sayin'.
You have a point, BUT, could you not agree or disagree with the blog content or add an experience you have had or have known has happened to others?
I dont think its age related... its a man thing I think.
This very last paragraph tickled my funny bone.
I have no interest of ever entering into a relationship with anyone on or off the internet.
So I can say the words
"I Don't"
"I won't"
"I never"
So there.
Thank you for your comment. As much as there may have been a similarity between what you experienced and what I listed on the blog, please be advised that I did include the following...
"I am not pointing fingers at anyone in particular so dont get on your high horse thinking I am talking about specific people... I'm not, I am just generalizing."
I would like to assist you in your inquiry, however, I myself have also forgotten the question!
Standard replies to men from women in general, so nothing new there then!
Sorry Sol. You were saying?
Oh yeah... I don´t fit in any of the above and NEVER have!
I don´t really know, maybe we should add another category?
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yeah, I've been there...it happened to me not so long ago
Yes you have to meet BEFORE it gets serious. They could have a laugh like a footie rattle. Or walk like a duck. But when you do meet and they look right, walk right, talk right, and you'd turn head over heels just to make them laugh so you could hear it again, what then?