I am my hair.
So my hair is my crown. My beautiful black mane defines my feminity, personality and perhaps my status or even state of mind. I took out my cornrows a month ago and decided against braids because my sculpt still hurt. So I've been rocking my afro... tangled, uncontrollable and as African as can be. I've noticed people don't look at me the same with my afro. No more lengthy looks from the opposite sex or those I want to be you stares from women? Am I less dedesirable because of my kinky hair?Less professional, less refined polished whatever?
Well I beg to differ. I chose to keep my kink because it's a choice just like a weave. I'm just as desirable, just as smart just as feminine. So yes I am my hair and I'm okay with not having it straight. But don't judge because it's just crown it adds to my beauty. And never takes away from it.Please don't treat me like it has.
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If you like it, you won't change again. If you don't, you will try another look. Human nature.
Stay Happy and Blessed.
My hair was my father's pride and joy and also of many men who followed.
I like it how it is..The length..The colour and the style and it shows my feminine side.
hairhairhear hear Jayany less feminine? The answer is no.
I did a blog on a neighbor that always thinks for me. She wanted me to cut my hair. My reply was, "Yolanda, cut your own hair"!