Elegsabiff

Elegsabiff

Mar 2017

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3 years ago

what were you doing?

Has your life changed in small ways, huge ways, or not at all?

In 3 years you can get pregnant, have a baby, and have a toddler trying to get your attention right now. In some ways, quite a long time. In some ways, a blink of the eye.

I picked 3 years because it's coming up to when I first joined CS. That started a series of changes which could continue for years.

There was a revolutionary year before that but the 10 years before - well, I can't actually remember a single thing of interest that happened in the whole 10 years, apart from crashing one car and buying another.

You?

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Ccincy●Cincinnati, Ohio USA

Mar 11, 2017●1 Blogs●3,385 Comments

If I could've gotten pregnant 3 years ago it would've been a huge surprise.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

CC, good surprise? Bad surprise?

You know how it is, though, you see a friend after a gap of a few years and they haven't changed one tiny bit but the kid you remember as knee high is now taller than you both!

Mapmaker●Inland near Jaen, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●116 Blogs●2,827 Comments

Hi Biff, I have seen some changes, physically and mentally, apart from that life is still a paradise where I live.
I have met some fabulous people here in the last 3 years, a few are still my good friends, a few not.

freehand●freedom, Pennsylvania USA

Mar 11, 2017●31 Blogs●1,160 Comments

i got divorced and moved from MN to PA. I lost a dog and gained 2 plus 2 cats-no baby weight. ;)

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Back in 30 mins, just have to speed-walk the dog

itchywitch●galway, Galway Ireland

Mar 11, 2017●1 Blogs●3,435 Comments

life

unfortunately can't say it has but my attitude has if that's the same thing

ekself●Onehorsetown, Eastern Cape South Africa

Mar 11, 2017●1 Blogs●1,711 Comments

My life changed completely in the last 3 years. 3 years ago I was angry, bitter and in pain. Knew a couple of people I would have liked to accidentally fall into a knive at least 35 times. Wished for a tsunami to wipe out the whole of St Helena bay....preferably with no survivors. Bought this plot during that time and it changed my life for the better.

zmountainman●Motril, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●107 Blogs●7,852 Comments

Hmmm, well......hmmm

oh yes I've found some magic outdoor floor paint that's solved the slippery when wet problem

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

Moved 4 times Biff

yep can,t keep in one place lpng. Made loads of friends along the way and loved every minute of it,

How is your move going ???

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

z

I had to get double sided tape to stop my rug slipping.

Annleerose●Port of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 11, 2017●2 Blogs●437 Comments

You just reminded me that I would be 54 years soon .

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

anne 54

never well done you you do look good. Me I have never looked that good no matter what age, but I make up for it with my smile

Annleerose●Port of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 11, 2017●2 Blogs●437 Comments

Thank you , trying not to let the stress get the better part of me 1963 .

Annleerose●Port of spain, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago

Mar 11, 2017●2 Blogs●437 Comments

I wanted to say to you , just keep smiling and trust me it works .

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

"i got divorced and moved from MN to PA. I lost a dog and gained 2 plus 2 cats-no baby weight.

"

Yikes Free that's a major journey you GO girl!

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Itchy, changing attitude is probably the hardest change of all to make, we can change everything else but if we still think about things the same way, nothing really changes

So YAY for you for you too, hell these are big

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

shy map

never he sometimes has a wit when he answers me

or he may not realize it

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Eks I think you have changed more than anyone else, you've become so serene and purposeful since I first read one of your blogs and yet it hasn't been easy, a lot of it. You're something of an inspiration, you are

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Z, I hate to break this to you, that paint? Still slippery when wet. It's just that you never go outside when its raining

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Red, only 4? it seems like more

My move hasn't found a gear yet, still sitting in neutral

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

Oh no

me i just get up and go But it is not same type of move as you though, not these latter years.

One day I just may loose all my marbels

oops I mean boxes and cases.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Red, Map isn't as shy as he was. And it wasn't me who created the change

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Red, can't lose your marbles, they are your magic dust

One of these days I will no doubt do something so outrageous I will have to spend the rest of my life on the run, no boxes or cases, just me zooming anxiously through the shadows

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

mmm wonder what or who brought him out his shell, now I understand why he is always so defensive with me

he heard false rumours

and I pinched some of his trolleys

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

Now do not guese Biff but all I can say, I am not in debt, nor have I strangled anyone.

or spain is where i would be

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Haha Red I KNOW that, you wouldn't be so open and forthright about your moves, and criminals do not redecorate,

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

Biff you got me

Mapmaker●Inland near Jaen, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●116 Blogs●2,827 Comments

Red, Im never sarcastic, I just type with my left hand sometimes.

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

And if you come help me redecorate, there'll be two of us who know where we really are

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

Map

I am left handed too but can change at the drop of a hat

ampidextrous they call it meaning my brain does not work predomintely one way or the other i am well balanced

Redex●Northumberland, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●5,763 Comments

biff I would come I luv decorating but going to Innverness end of this month to see son, then have saved for trip to austria for my 70th pressie to myself so IF you can wait until next year in cooler time I would be over with a case full of rollers and brushes

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Unl, that's hopefully good change, or at least positive.

I went through a whole decade of same job, same house, same utterly deadly dull life, so I was quite unsettled when change started, got more used to it now.

unlaoised●Twilight zone, Wicklow Ireland

Mar 11, 2017●1,614 Comments

I'm ready for some settled time now, Biff. It's been a busy decade but I get what you're saying about getting into a rut. Change is good, most of the time, I'm just feeling a bit tired of it

mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Mar 11, 2017●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

Biff, In 3 years I have not changed houses, but my job has changed alright.

I have seen, love , sadness, illness in others , death , house DIY ( I'm doing that at the moment); got a 2nd dog; seen parts of the world I hadn't seen before; held onto my old friends and made some new.
But the extremes of love and death are the strongest and longest lasting.

Roughroadergirl●Harrogate, North Yorkshire, England UK

Mar 11, 2017●3 Blogs●529 Comments

Hi biff

in the last 3 years I miscarried a baby, my partner and others I loved dearly have died, i started a business, saw my son and daughter start secondary school, discovered reiki and meditation, met some wonderful new friends and most recently joined CS.,,
I feel tired reading all that lol! Life is a funny old thing that has a habit of throwing a lot our way all at once sometimes! At the moment my life is more balanced thank goodness

johnjjm●co westmeath0000, Westmeath Ireland

Mar 11, 2017●5 Blogs●1,312 Comments

have nothing startling to add to these others comments ..me well imm happy enough as I am don't want any big changes I likes living as I am have fun most days dissapointments same as anyone is life ..no regrets worth talking about .have learned some new things washing machine and hoovers are now under control and have learned to pay bills these things are all new exciting I don't think so ..

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Molly yours has been pretty up and down. You and Free have had a pretty tough time, hope things even out and start a steady rise upwards

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

KN,

BRILLIANT news!

and, well, WOW.

Where the hell is the champers?

I am so, so pleased

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

Rough, that's been incredibly tough

I'm glad you found CS, too. It's a weird place but sometimes, weird is what you need

The steady rise to you too

ElegsabiffOP●Motril-ish, Andalusia Spain

Mar 11, 2017●358 Blogs●9,358 Comments

JJ long time no see

You've changed too, you know. Back when we met you, you thought we were all bonkers and now you're one of us

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